03/19/2024
In 2010 Mo’Nique, won a Golden Globe for her role in the movie ‘Precious’. While she was on the red carpet, she pulled up her dress for a moment and showed her legs, which happened to not be shaved. Although she received attention for her win, many news outlets criticized her for not shaving for the awards, and made many negative comments about her leg hair. In a video posted a few days later, titled “Monique's Nasty Unshaven Legs” by The Young Turks, Cenk Uygur called her legs “disastrous”, and Ana Kasparian said, “you have no excuse, you have money,” among other comments. (The Young Turks, 2010). This is an example of gender policing. Although Mo’Nique’s leg hair had nothing to do with her performance in the movie, and she gave a very heartfelt acceptance speech, media sites and tabloids focused on her decision not to shave. Gender policing is when someone breaks a gender rule, their friends, family, peers, or society ‘police’ them. This could happen intentionally or unintentionally, through questions, comments, or jokes, and is “aimed at promoting conformity” (Wade and Ferree 2023). In American culture, women are expected to shave their legs, arms, armpits, and pluck their eyebrows. This is often equated to ‘hygiene’ reasons, and femininity, even though the same standard is not expected of men. Men are allowed to have leg hair, and if a man showed his leg hair at an award show, he would likely not have received the same amount of attention. As exemplified in Kasparian’s comments, it is expected if a woman has the time and financial resources, she would shave. This leaves little room for individual comfort or preference. By giving her personal body preferences the same amount of attention as her award, people are attempting to get Mo’Nique to shave her legs and conform to every aspect of the American perception of femininity. - Sophia L.
(Image source: https://www.justjared.com/photo-gallery/2409503/monique-wins-golden-globe-07/ )
The Young Turks. Jan 20, 2010. “Monique's Nasty Unshaven Legs”, https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ZuZKaTFOeZ8
Wade, Lisa and Myra Marx Feree. 2023. Gender: Ideas, Interactions, Institutions, 3rd edition.New York: WW Norton & Company.