We spend so much of adulthood trying to remember who we were before the world told us who to be…
In my conversation with Tresa Rivera+Reno+ Hypnotherapy + Human Design
one of the most profound things she shared is that Human Design was made for the children.
Because this is where generational change begins.
By understanding how us and our children were uniquely designed from the very beginning 🤌🏻
As a mom of three, this is why I’m so passionate about this work.
I don’t want my children growing up believing they have to earn love by performing.
I don’t want them to dim parts of themselves because someone else couldn’t understand their gifts.
I want to know how each of them is uniquely wired so I can nurture who they already are…not who I think they should become.
And I believe the same is true for leadership.
Whether you’re leading a business, a team, or your family…
The greatest leaders don’t create copies of themselves. They create environments where people feel safe enough to become the fullest expression of who they are.
That’s the future of leadership.
That’s the future of parenting.
And I truly believe it’s where generational healing begins.
At the end of this clip, I ask Tresa the question I know so many of you are wondering:
“If someone is brand new to Human Design… where do they even begin?”
You’ll have to tune into the full episode to hear her answer. 😉
🎙️ Listen to the full conversation through the link in my bio.
Xo Renee Marie
Helping high-achieving women build soul-aligned businesses through inner mastery, somatic leadership & bold strategy.
Ditch the burnout—create wealth, impact & freedom from full-body alignment
As a Mama of 3, I’ve spent the last 18 months doing some of the deepest inner work of my life. My vision has never been clearer.
But my external reality? It’s still catching up.
Today, I accepted a position as a hairstylist at Ulta.
My ego was like “wtf?!” 👀 Last year, my ego would’ve been terrified to admit that.
Today, I’m proud of it.
Because this isn’t me going backwards. It’s me creating a bridge.
A bridge that gives my nervous system room to breathe, takes the pressure off, and lets me build my next chapter from a place of peace instead of survival.
The vision hasn’t changed.
I’m still becoming the speaker, leader, and coach I know I’m here to be.
I’m just choosing to build it differently and take the pressure of myself 🤌🏻
Tell me I’m not alone…
What do you resonate with? Are you currently navigating “the void?”
Every decision creates a different timeline 💫
When you stop making choices from conditioning, pressure, fear, or what everyone else expects—and start listening to the intelligence of your own body—your entire life can change 🫰🏻
In this episode on She’s Iconic | Women’s Leadership Podcast 🎙️ Tresa Rivera+Reno+ Hypnotherapy + Human Design and I dive into:
✦ Human Design and aligned decision-making
✦ Conscious leadership and self-trust
✦ Why so many women are pivoting right now
✦ The collective shift toward 2027
✦ Parenting children according to their unique design
✦ Nervous system safety, conditioning, and authenticity
✦ What it really means to return to who you were designed to be
This is one of my favorite conversations I’ve ever recorded, and honestly… you’ll probably want to listen twice 🙃
🎙️ Tap the link in my bio to listen
It’s time to remember who tf you are, icon 💋
Your nervous system will try to keep you loyal to the strategy that once made you successful. But your next evolution requires a completely different level of visibility. If the old way isn’t working anymore, book my Visibility Audit 🫰🏻 Comment “SEEN” or book through link in bio 💋
06/29/2026
In June of 2018, I was minutes away from leaving for the airport.
I was heading to Utah to teach a bridal hair class.
My bags were packed. I was ready to walk out the door.
And then I got the phone call…
After days of searching for my brother, after days of hoping he would be found alive, we found out he had died by su***de.
That moment changed the entire trajectory of my life.
It woke me up to a question I could never un-ask:
Where am I not fully living?
Not just existing, performing or just checking the boxes.
Not just building something that looks good from the outside.
Actually living.
Fully expressed.
Fully seen.
Fully in my truth.
Fully in the work I know I am here to do.
And that question became the foundation of everything I do now.
Because I know what it feels like to be successful on paper and still feel like something is off.
I know what it feels like to be gifted, capable, and meant for more — but still caught in overthinking, over-proving, hiding behind strategy, or trying to squeeze yourself into a version of success you’ve already outgrown.
And I know this:
Burnout is not always from doing too much.
Sometimes it comes from performing a life, brand, message, or business that no longer feels like you.
That is the work I do.
I see the hidden pattern.
I name the truth.
I help you come back to the woman underneath the performance.
And then we translate that into your message, visibility, leadership, offer, business, and next move.
If you’ve been feeling this — like something is shifting, like the old way no longer fits, like you’re meant to be seen in a deeper, truer, more powerful way…
Book the Visibility & Full Expression Audit.
In 60 minutes, we’ll identify where you’re hiding, overcomplicating, performing, or diluting your genius — and map the clearest next expression of your work.
DM me AUDIT or book through the link in my bio
Love you, icon 💋
06/28/2026
A little re-introduction from the deepest place ❤️
I am someone who knows what it feels like to wake up and realize you haven’t been fully living.
After losing my brother to su***de, 8 years ago this June…I started asking myself:
Where am I not fully living?
Where am I performing?
Where am I hiding?
Where am I building a life that looks good, but doesn’t actually feel like truth?
That question changed my entire life.
And now, it’s the question underneath everything I do.
Because I know what it feels like to be successful on paper but still feel like something is off.
I know what it feels like to be gifted, capable, and meant for more — but still caught in overthinking, over-proving, shrinking, or hiding behind strategy.
And I know what it feels like to realize:
The version of me that got me here is not the version who can lead what’s next.
That is the work I do with women now.
I help you break the hidden patterns keeping you unseen, diluted, or disconnected from your truth — so you can become fully expressed in your voice, visibility, leadership, business, and life.
Because this was never just about visibility.
It’s about full expression.
It’s about no longer performing the version of success you’ve outgrown.
It’s about becoming the iconic woman who can actually hold, lead, and live the life you say you want.
This is the work.
This is the legacy I am leading in memory of my brother, Brian ❤️ I wish he felt safe sharing who he truly was and accepted for it. Missing you brother…I know you are watching down on me, protecting me above…in the stars ✨
(Last slide is the last time I hugged him, January 2017)
Self-aware is not the same as rewired.
You can know your triggers, understand your childhood, name the wound, journal about it, explain it beautifully, and still default to the same pattern when your body doesn’t feel safe doing it differently.
And it’s because the pattern still feels familiar in your nervous system.
And this is the exact reason I created The Pattern Breaker Series™ 🫰🏻
Because your next level doesn’t need another strategy.
It needs a pattern interrupt.
5 guided somatic practices to help you catch the pattern in real time, regulate your body, reconnect with your truth, and hold the standard of the woman you’re becoming.
✨ $27 right now
Comment PATTERN and I’ll send you the link, or grab it through the link in my bio.
And listen to the full episode of She’s Iconic | Women’s Leadership Podcast : The Blind Spots of a Self-Aware Woman.
You’re an iconic woman.
You’ve built things, led and created success. You’ve made bold moves. You’ve done incredible things in your life and business.
And you know you’re not done 😜
You can feel yourself emerging into a new level of leadership, visibility, identity, wealth, and truth.
So you set the new standard 🫰🏻
You decide you’re no longer available for the same clients, the same rooms, the same pricing, the same over-explaining, the same over-giving, the same watered-down version of yourself.
But then the old pattern tries to sneak in like…
“Maybe I should add one more thing.”
“Maybe I should include another bonus.”
“Maybe I should explain it better.”
“Maybe I should make this easier for everyone else.”
“Maybe I should soften it so no one feels uncomfortable.”
“Maybe I should tweak it one more time.”
And this is the moment where we go:
Nope. Nope. Nope. Nope. Nope.
Because that is not your truth!
That is the pattern 🤌🏻
And when you don’t disrupt the pattern, it costs you.
It costs you momentum.
It costs you visibility.
It costs you clean leadership.
It costs you self-trust.
It costs you the very standard you’re trying to rise into.
That’s exactly why I created The Pattern Breaker Series™.
5 guided somatic practices to help you catch the pattern in real time, regulate your body, reconnect with your truth, and hold the standard of the woman you’re becoming.
Because your next level doesn’t need another strategy.
It needs a pattern interrupt ⚡️
It’s $27 right now.
Comment PATTERN and I’ll send you the link, or grab it through the link in my bio.
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