06/18/2026
๐๐ผ๐ป๐๐ถ๐๐๐ฒ๐ป๐ฐ๐ ๐ฎ๐ป๐ฑ ๐ฃ๐ฎ๐๐ถ๐ฒ๐ป๐ฐ๐ฒ ๐๐ฒ๐ฎ๐ ๐๐ป๐๐ฒ๐ป๐๐ถ๐๐
A martial arts student asked his teacher, "How long will it take me to master your system?"
"Ten years," the teacher replied.
"But what if I train ten hours a day?"
The teacher paused and answered, "Twenty years."
Many people believe working harder will get them there faster. In reality, lasting success comes from consistency, patience, and mastering the fundamentals.
Entrepreneurs who rush growth often make costly mistakes, cause stress, and leave customers disappointed. Sustainable success requires the right systems, processes, and foundation before scaling.
The same principle applies to every area of life. Recovery takes time. Growth takes time. Mastery takes time.
As Lao Tzu wisely said:
"๐ก๐ฎ๐๐๐ฟ๐ฒ ๐ฑ๐ผ๐ฒ๐ ๐ป๐ผ๐ ๐ต๐๐ฟ๐ฟ๐, ๐๐ฒ๐ ๐ฒ๐๐ฒ๐ฟ๐๐๐ต๐ถ๐ป๐ด ๐ถ๐ ๐ฎ๐ฐ๐ฐ๐ผ๐บ๐ฝ๐น๐ถ๐๐ต๐ฒ๐ฑ."
Focus on steady progress, not shortcuts. Small, consistent actions over time will outperform bursts of intensity every time.
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06/15/2026
๐ง๐ต๐ฒ ๐ช๐ต๐ฒ๐ฒ๐น ๐ผ๐ณ ๐๐ถ๐ณ๐ฒ
The "Wheel of Life" consists of 8 categories essential to a satisfying and successful life.
It will help you identify how much time you spend on the categories of your life and how satisfied you are in each.
Grade yourself (1-10) in each category, then determine an action item to enhance your success and growth.
The categories are:
๐ญ. ๐๐ฎ๐ฟ๐ฒ๐ฒ๐ฟ
How satisfied are you with your current career? How are you performing your daily duties?
๐ฎ. ๐๐ฎ๐บ๐ถ๐น๐
How is the quality of your relationships? Do you spend enough time with your family and kids?
๐ฏ. ๐ฆ๐ผ๐ฐ๐ถ๐ฎ๐น ๐๐ถ๐ณ๐ฒ
How is the quality of your relationships? Do you spend enough time with your partner, friends, colleagues, and community?
๐ฐ. ๐๐ป๐๐ถ๐ฟ๐ผ๐ป๐บ๐ฒ๐ป๐
How do you feel about your environment? Does it give you energy or take it away? Does it cause stress or anxiety?
๐ฑ. ๐ฃ๐ฒ๐ฟ๐๐ผ๐ป๐ฎ๐น ๐ด๐ฟ๐ผ๐๐๐ต
How important is the process of self-development for you? How satisfied are you with the level of your personal growth? Do you invest enough time in it?
๐ฒ. ๐๐ฒ๐ถ๐๐๐ฟ๐ฒ ๐ง๐ถ๐บ๐ฒ
How satisfied are you with your current work-life integration? Do you have enough time for your hobbies?
๐ณ. ๐๐ฒ๐ฎ๐น๐๐ต
Are you satisfied with your current health status? How much do you invest in your Health? How is your sleep routine now? And how healthy is your current diet?
๐ด. ๐ ๐ผ๐ป๐ฒ๐
How important is money for you? Are you satisfied with your current financial status and your financial savings and investment strategy?
The descriptions of the categories are attributed to Paul J. Meyer.
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06/12/2026
Value Drivers of a Profitable Company
I facilitated the first session of a program called *Creating a Culture of Profitability* for a fast-growing company.
The team quickly agreed on one thing: profitability matters.
Without profits:
โข Growth stalls
โข Opportunities disappear
โข Jobs are at risk
โข Long-term success becomes impossible
We identified nine key drivers of profitability:
1. Multiple revenue streams
2. Strong recruiting and retention
3. Healthy gross margins
4. Consistent growth
5. Effective leadership and infrastructure
6. A diversified customer base
7. Strong net income
8. Focusing on ideal clients and core strengths
9. Efficient systems and processes
One of the biggest lessons? Not every opportunity is worth pursuing. Sometimes profitability comes from focusing on your strengths and saying no to distractions.
We ended the session with five important questions:
โข What can I do?
โข What can my department do?
โข How can we work better with other departments?
โข What can the company do?
โข How will we measure success?
Creating a culture of profitability isn't just management's responsibility. It's everyone's job.
What do you believe is the biggest driver of profitability in a growing business?
Reach out to Cathy at [email protected] to book a complimentary coaching call from Rich and Maureen.
06/11/2026
๐ ๐ฒ๐ป๐๐ฎ๐น ๐๐ฎ๐ฟ๐ฟ๐ถ๐ฒ๐ฟ๐ ๐๐ผ ๐ฃ๐ฒ๐ฎ๐ธ ๐ฃ๐ฒ๐ฟ๐ณ๐ผ๐ฟ๐บ๐ฎ๐ป๐ฐ๐ฒ
In the classic book "The Power of Full Engagement," authors James Loehr and Tony Schwartz identify 20 mental and personal barriers to achieving peak performance. I'll focus on four or five of them in each of my Food for Thought posts.
Most of these are behaviors or mindsets within our control.
As you review the list, see it as an opportunity to face your brutal facts.
Ask what it is that's holding you back from:
* Believing in yourself.
* Being your best self.
* Being your best self to others.
Don't believe everything you think. Please don't beat yourself up as you examine the list. Instead, look for growth opportunities to enhance your relationships and self-love.
In the wise words of William Johnsen, "If it's to be, it's up to me."
* Twenty Mental Barriers to Peak Performance
* Lack of Integrity
* Indecisiveness
* Negative Attitude
* Low Self-Confidence
* Lack of Empathy
* Poor Communication Skills
* Poor Listening Skills
* Inflexible/Rigid
* Unfocused
* High Anxiety
* Poor Time Management
* Lack of Trust in Others
* Negative/Pessimistic Thinking
* Critical of Others
* Low-Stress Tolerance
* Moody/Irritable
* Poor Team Player
* Low Energy
* Impatience
* Defensiveness
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06/10/2026
๐๐ณ ๐ถ๐'๐ ๐ป๐ผ๐ ๐ถ๐ป ๐๐ฟ๐ถ๐๐ถ๐ป๐ด...
Last week, one of my clients completed a negotiation to bring on an incredible talent to his team. The biggest concern for the prospect was that if he delivers the way we all hope he will between now and the end of the year, what's his upside potential?
He laid out what he wanted, and we shared what we could and couldn't commit to at this time and agreed to review it in January. Then he said, "As long as we have an understanding, we don't have to put it in writing."
At which point I responded, "The hell we don't, we all remember things in our interests; it's human nature."
So each of us is putting our understanding of what we agreed to in a Google Document, and we'll review it to make sure we are aligned, so that at the end of the year there are no surprises or misunderstandings.
I then shared a story about renting out our beachside home while my first wife and I were away in Europe for two months. We also agreed to a weekly rate if we stayed in Europe longer, and she wanted to continue renting.
We extended our trip to Europe an extra three weeks, and she continued to rent our home. When we returned, we asked for what we thought was the fee for the extra time, and she said we had it wrong and it was a much lower amount.
I'm sure if you put a gun to our heads and said, if you have it wrong, I'll pull the trigger; we both would have been casualties.
When we reviewed the actual contract, we discovered we were both wrong. Sometimes, in negotiations, when you go back and forth, each side agrees to changes in the moment that are easy to forget. From then on, I've always put agreements in writing and strongly recommend it.
"A verbal contract isn't worth the paper it's written on." (attributed to Samuel Goldwyn)
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06/09/2026
๐ง๐ต๐ฒ ๐ฃ๐ฒ๐ฟ๐ณ๐ฒ๐ฐ๐ ๐๐ฑ ๐ณ๐ผ๐ฟ ๐๐ต๐ฒ ๐ฃ๐ฒ๐ฟ๐ณ๐ฒ๐ฐ๐ ๐๐ถ๐ฟ๐ฒ.
One of the essential characteristics of CEO's and leaders is to seek feedback and become a master of paying attention. One of my clients held eighteen one-on-one interviews with members of his team.
He shared two recurring themes.
Everyone wanted more frequent bonuses.
When he raised the importance of personal responsibility and the possible consequences of poor performance, he encountered universal resistance.
This feedback was invaluable, and I suggested he run an ad on the online employment sites that reflected what we learned. Without taking too much credit, I helped write the ad.
An underperforming company is now hiring and seeking new team members. If you resist accountability and focus on doing whatever you want, look no further. References are optional; we'll take your word for it.
Showing up is also optional. The ideal candidate will let us know when they have earned bonuses and how much. If it's easier, we will mail your bonus checks to you or make automatic deposits to your bank account.
No previous experience is necessary. We're hiring for attitude. Promotions will occur at your discretionโno need to bore us with the details.
Our company mantra is, "we just don't give a damn."
If you act quickly, you will be eligible for a bonus.
Reach out to Cathy at [email protected] to book a complimentary coaching call from Rich and Maureen.
06/08/2026
๐ฆ๐ผ๐บ๐ฒ๐๐ถ๐บ๐ฒ๐ ๐ ๐ฆ๐ฎ๐ ๐ฌ๐ฒ๐ ๐ช๐ต๐ฒ๐ป ๐ ๐ข๐๐ด๐ต๐๐ฎ ๐๐ป๐ผ๐
One of our clients is selling a division of their business. A prospective buyer emerged, and at first, everything seemed promising.
Then the red flags appeared.
The buyer was in the middle of a divorce, financing wasn't available for months, and her attorney advised waiting until after the settlement before proceeding.
The seller asked for advice.
My response was simple:
โข Time kills deals.
โข A true buyer is ready, willing, and able to act.
โข Don't take a business off the market based on hope.
โข Without a meaningful, non-refundable deposit, you're carrying all the risk.
โข If someone truly wants the opportunity, it's their responsibility to find a way to make it happen.
Too often, we want a deal so badly that we ignore what is right in front of us.
Don't let emotions override good judgment. The best business decisions are made with clear eyes, not wishful thinking.
As Delbert McClinton sang, "Sometimes I say yes when I oughta know."
Reach out to Cathy at [email protected] to book a complimentary coaching call with Rich and Maureen.
06/05/2026
๐ช๐ต๐ฎ๐ ๐๐ฒ ๐๐ต๐ถ๐ป๐ธ ๐ต๐ฎ๐ ๐ฐ๐ผ๐ป๐๐ฒ๐พ๐๐ฒ๐ป๐ฐ๐ฒ๐.
In 2022, we shared a powerful insight from Buddhist psychologists Robert Thurman and Sharon Salzberg. They identified the โSecret Enemyโโthat inner voice that defines how we see the world.
We listen to it constantly, mistaking it for our only voice. But this voice is often self-preoccupied, fear-driven, and changeable. And itโs making us less happy.
As they put it: โWhen we stew in bitterness, we become bitter.โ
Anger, hatred, and fear donโt just separate us from joyโthey physically harm us. Research shows that in the two hours after an angry outburst, heart attack risk increases 5x and stroke risk 3x.
A tragic recent example: the Buffalo supermarket shooter spent months feeding racist conspiracy theories online. His thoughts led to devastating real-world consequencesโfor others and himself.
But hereโs the good news: we can change our mindsets.
As Dr. Alia Crum and author Joseph Nguyen remind usโdonโt believe everything you think. Most suffering comes from believing our fear-based, self-critical thoughts are true.
Listen to how you speak to yourself. That voice? Itโs not the boss of you.
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