05/26/2026
The roles I chose to play; the “Good Girl” began when I was a child. Being brought up a Christian in an household the required perfection in appearance but also spiritually- I didn’t have a choice.
I had to be the “Good Girl”- it was required for my survival and acceptance. So when I married a controlling abuser, I followed his rules.
Don’t ask for too much.
To receive love I must be obedient, compliant, and willing to do as I’m told.
Minimize my needs, and NEVER get or bring more attention to myself, because that will cause him not to be in the spotlight. ( consequences to be had later)
STAY small.
Tiptoe around his needs, because yours don’t matter.
This identity is a breeding ground for an energy vampire to exploit and thrive off. They thrive off of control, and the more compliant you are the bigger their ego becomes. They feel good, when they make you feel less than.
💛I help women regulate their nervous system, rewire subconscious beliefs, rebuild self-trust, process emotional wounds, reconnect to their authentic identity, and finally feel safe in their body again through RTT, subconscious healing, nervous system regulation, emotional processing, and trauma-informed coaching.