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Ashley Colette, Center, MO (2026)

11/16/2021

Your client who is over-asking of you
and under-paying you, they secretly WANT to your business
to stay small because then you’ll keep doing the same job for them  at the same price.

[This applies to ALL kinds of relationships BTW]

You bend thinking it will help the
client relationship.
It won’t.

You end up feeling defeated.
Unable to grow your business beyond a certain point.
You’re on a hamster wheel you can’t get off of.
 There’s a way to say no to “extra tasks.”
There’s a way to say no to being underpaid.
There’s a way to say no to jobs you hate doing.
 It’s not about the words.
It is about the vibe behind the words.
It’s energetic.
Mindset.

This is whats changing in .
3x Your Mindset to 3x Your Money.

👉👉Comment “relate” if you know this feeling.
👉Dm me to play.

11/15/2021

This applies to clients, friends, and followers. If you’re over giving, you’re trying to make one of your parents happy.

And here’s the sucky part: 𝑇𝐻𝐸𝑌’𝐿𝐿 𝑀𝑂𝑆𝑇 𝐿𝐼𝐾𝐸𝐿𝑌 𝑁𝐸𝑉𝐸𝑅 𝐵𝐸 𝑆𝐴𝑇𝐼𝐴𝑇𝐸𝐷 𝐵𝑌 𝑌𝑂𝑈𝑅 𝑂𝑉𝐸𝑅𝐺𝐼𝑉𝐼𝑁𝐺.

So Listen up!👇

You no longer need to seek approval from them.

You are no longer a wounded child.
Clients/Followers aren’t your mommy/daddy.

They’re just over there running businesses and living their own best lives FOR THEMSELVES.
And you should be too.

I know this because I’ve been there. I’ve spent countless hours getting to the bottom of this. There’s a very specific reason you’re doing this, and it’s coming to an end in .

We’re healing these wounds and full-on upgrading client relationships in 3x to 3x. DM me to find out.

11/15/2021

As Peacemakers, Enneagram type 9’s want deep connections with others and the Universe.

Superpowers: Get along with everyone
Spirit Animal: 🦥 Sloth
Outward Traits: Big Yawners 🥱

Once comfortable, Enneagram Nines dont make any sudden changes — which makes it easier for people to feel comfortable and safe around them.

With the desire to promote peace and harmony as much as possible they avoid getting into conflicts by using their calm energies to come up with solutions. Handling interpersonal situations by being patient and excellent communicators helps them and other people come up with better resolutions in a wise manner thus helping everyone become better.

Nines can listen to all points of view and try and understand the validity of everyone’s view which makes them a powerful mediator.

Most Enneagram Type 9’s dislike being controlled and are oftentimes seen as stubborn. Once a Type 9 has made a decision it can be hard to persuade them to do otherwise.

When they’re not being self-aware, Nines tend to ignore problems and use band-aid solutions to instill a false sense of peace and comfort.

Peacemakers are determined and would do anything to sustain a level of peace and harmony no matter what the cost – for both themselves and other people.

At their best they are:
🕊 Agreeable dove
🕊 Understanding of all points of view
🕊 Great mediators
🕊 Open-minded

At their worst they are:
🤎 Avoiding difficult situations
🤎 Easily overwhelmed
🤎 Hard-headed
🤎 Aggressive and have a tendency to lash out

Does this sound like you? Comment below or tag a friend you feel is a .
▶️DM me for a reading
▶️Read more about all the Enneagram types at bit.ly/GetToKnow9  

11/07/2021

The best marketers use direct, potent messages.

People get scared to publicize how they really feel.
They’re strategic. They tip-toe. They’re careful.
And their messaging shows it.

It ends up being dead, lifeless.
And it speaks to NO ONE.

When you write copy for who you think the world wants you to be
NO ONE GETS IT.

Because everyone wants you to be someone different.
And you end up being no one to them.

They don’t want you to be a cut and paste of their fantasy of perfection.
They THINK they do,
but they’re WRONG
because Perfection is boring.

They WANT YOU to break the mold.
To SHOCK them.
To shake them up from the dull lifeless dream they’re living in.
They want YOU.
The REAL you.

So say what you’ve got to say,
Let the criticizers fall away,
And ENJOY the process
of being radically YOU for a change. ❤️

11/05/2021

Enneagram Type Twos love to help!

They are naturally caring and nurturing towards others which is why it’s easy for them to create a connection with almost anyone that they meet. Their desire to help and care for others gives them a deep sense of satisfaction.  Type 2 Traits:
🤍 People say that I have a soft warm personality. 🤍 I can easily empathize with others.
🤍 I desire to be loved and wanted.
🤍 I would go the extra mile to be of service.
🤍 I am happy when I feel loved and appreciated.  
Tag a friend you feel is a Type 2.  
▶️Free Quiz Link in Bio.
▶️Read more about the Enneagram Type 2 at bit.ly/KnowTheType2 or take our quiz to have info on your type emailed to you.

11/05/2021

I’ve had every opportunity to NOT be "the one" in my life…

To hand over my power to someone else…
To work for someone else...
To marry someone...
To be taken care of....
To be codependent…
To downsize my dreams so that life would be easier.

I refuse.

I didn’t marry young or submit to corporate america. I decided that I am the one to make my dreams happen. I stood my ground and I stand my ground.

And the result?
🤩 I built a multi-six figure social media marketing business working 5-15 hours a week.
🤩 I coached a corporate client to a company valued at 20 million dollars in under 2 years.
🤩 I built a team of loyal employees who I LOVE.
🤩 I bought my own home in cash.

And I get to be free as fk!!

So often we don’t think we’re the ones because it's easier to pawn the responsibility on someone else.

But when we do that that we lose our power. We miss out on the fulfillment, the satisfaction, and the opportunity to know ourselves as wildly powerful.

😣 Don’t lose yourself in your fear of responsibility.

You’re bigger than that. And you are the only one who can save you, so

➡️ Claim your independence.
➡️ Take the reins.
➡ Paint the vision.
➡️ Set the goals.
➡ Be willing to be “the one” who makes all of your dreams come true.

Want to do it with me?! ✨🔮🔑⁣
- Join my email list in bio to get notified of all the ways you can work with me
- DM me about expansive 1:1 coaching. still accepting newbies 🤍
⁣

06/30/2021

What are the 9 Enneagram Types?

✨Type 1: The Perfectionist - Trust-worthy, Honest, Sensible and Idealistic
✨Type 2: The Helper - Nurturing, Generous, Sensitive and Caring
✨Type 3: The Achiever - Charming, Confident, Organized and Accomplished
✨Type 4: The Individualist - Sensitive, Authentic, Creative and Empathetic
✨Type 5: The Investigator - Independent, Observant, Innovative and Encouraging
✨Type 6: The Loyalist - Caring, Loyal, Dependable and Compassionate
✨Type 7: The Enthusiast - Joyful, Generous, Optimistic and Adventurous
✨Type 8: The Challenger - Empowering, Decisive, Loyal and Honorable
✨Type 9: The Peacemaker - Trusting, Good natured, Optimistic and Non-judgmental

What’s your personality type? Let us know in the comments below! If you still don’t know your type, take our Free Enneagram Quiz at www.freeenneagramquiz.com

It’s time to hold the power of having a better understanding of the self, be better at loving the self and others!

06/03/2021

Knowing something intellectually serves us very little.

The ___ that is out of alignment but you can’t help it. [the food, the guy, the shopping, the affair, the negative self-talk, the nail-biting, the avoidance, the drinking...]

We know that we’re designed to stand up straight. Just because we know it does not mean that we can maintain it. As soon as the subconscious mind takes back over we slip back into our old positions.

Over and over again.

The same way that we must clear the muscular and facia blocks in the body in order to naturally stand straight we must clear the subconscious emotional blocks before we can truly align to that we are worthy of abundance, love, clarity, trust.

If you’ve ever said “yeah I know all this already” (or you’re thinking that now), you know it intellectually — not somatically. The ego’s “yeah I know that” blocks us from the willingness to KNOW in a deeper way. ...somatically.

It requires knowing something somatically to clear and manifest.

When the KNOWINGNESS is in our blood, in our bones, in the frequency that we emit, then it becomes WHO WE ARE.

And then the universe aligns with that.

Just because you can recite a money quote does not mean it is true for you. For most of us, the counter-convictions are real and can not be overwritten with thought alone.

Why?

Because we are disconnected from our true selves and source. The more numbed out we are, the harder it is for us to affect ourselves. Layers and layers of armor and protection shield us from anything getting in — empowering thoughts, new beliefs, true self-love.

The degree to which we are connected or disconnected from our true selves is the degree to which we are able to feel and thus program the new beliefs in our bodies.

For us to connect to ourselves the armor has to let loose. A slow and gentle process of asking for the armor to be removed, loving ourselves, trusting ourselves, surrounding ourselves with everything that feels good - including those whose convictions are stronger and steadier than ours... those who know it in their bones and their blood... those who are unwavering in their convictions. Who are connected to their higher selves. Those who emit that frequency.

And then we calibrate.

Our body naturally mirrors. The same way as when we spend time with a friend with an accent all of a sudden the accent creeps up on us.

The more deeply we are connected to our higher selves the easier it is for us to reprogram ourselves.

Brick by brick we remove anything that isn’t aligned with the new belief. Then natural action becomes easy. Then we get a glimpse of proof that it’s working. Little by little we start to KNOW the new belief in our bodies. In our blood. In our bones.

That’s when it becomes real. Not because we knew it intellectually — but because we KNOW it in every fiber of our being. In the very essence of who we are.

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Has this ever happened to you? Have you ever felt that deep deep KNOWING? What was it? Tell me in the comments 👇👇

04/16/2021

Eeeee!!! It's my birthday!!! And I wanted to offer something special to you!! Only 3 available TOTAL across all platforms!

Usually $222!

Message me to book! First come, first served!

04/01/2021

I wake up feeling like this every.single.day.

Not because I’m in love. (I am.)
Not because my life‘s great. (It is.)
Not because my dreams feel within an arms grasp. (They do.)
Not because someone gave me permission to. (They didn’t.)
Not because I’m surrounded by the dopest spiritual friends on the planet. (I am.)

I wake up feeling like this because I choose to.
I wake up feeling like this because day in and day out I do the work to make sure that this IS how I feel every day.
I wake up feeling like this because my alignment is important to me.
I wake up feeling like this because I deal with my humanness crap head-on.
I wake up feeling like this because I don’t settle for mediocrity in my mood.
I wake up feeling like this because I process, move, and clear negative emotions on the DAILY, and knowing that I have the power to move and process all feelings gives me the power and freedom to feel like this every day. (bc I already know I’m a master at moving the crap)
I wake up feeling like this because I choose to, I make it matter, I lean on my mentors, and I do the work.
And, I wake up feeling like this because I make it bigger than me by helping other people wake up feeling like this too!

Who wants to come on this wake-up-happy train with me? 🚂🥰🦄

03/31/2021

I am obsessed with the Enneagram. It’s fun. It’s soo helpful. It’s unique. It’s highly informative. It’s easy to master. And its for everyone!!

You are one of 9 personality types: The Perfectionist | Helper | Achiever | Individualist | Observer | Loyalist | Enthusiast | Challenger | Peacemaker

It reveals your deepest darkest wounds, your keys to success, how you help the world, your blocks, what makes you feel truly fulfilled, etc.

There’s 3 ways to use it:
1. To discover yourself
2. To discover others
3. To decode relationships 

It helps us understand people’s motives in a hot minute! 🔥 (you basically just know everyone’s inner workings the second you know their Enneagram type).

It shows us our differences in black and white so that we can win this game of life.

We start to understand other’s personality “quirks” as a result of their Enneagram type, and it helps us accept their reality rather than forcing them to be our type.

Once you know someone’s Enneagram type, you know how to motivate them, have them feel fulfilled, empowered, safe. (This is part of what makes me a 🔥 coach. I get you!! Deeply.)

You can’t make a fish a horse. You can’t make a 9 a 7.

At a mega advanced level, we learn how different types relate to each other, the patterns of arguments that come up, how to motivate employees, and how to sell to the different types (course on this coming up soon!)

Once you open up the world of the Enneagram, there is no going back! In the best way possible! 🔥🔥🔥

www.FreeEnneagramQuiz.com

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