01/11/2025
❝Mentors talk to you. Sponsors talk about you to powerful people when you aren't in the room. You need both.❞- Kara Barker, NAAWLI Brand Ambassador.
Throughout this entire month we are highlighting one of our 8 core tenets - MENTORSHIP in celebration of National Mentoring Month!
Imagine this: Someone you admire sets aside time to meet with you. They share how they accomplished their goals. And over time, they cheer you on and give you feedback and advice.
Sounds pretty amazing ,right?
That is what I call a mentor!
But having a mentor ➕a sponsor is the support system you need to navigate these corporate waters these days.
In HBR article, Creating Psychological Safety for Black Women at Your Company Agbanobi and Asmelash (2023) discusses how Black women need allies in the workplace, yet there’s a permanence of alienation and devaluation experienced by Black individuals in corporate offices when they don’t have the resources or tools made available to them.
With these experiences permeating work, mentorship can serve as an avenue for allyship, advocacy, and a sense of belonging for Black women.
We heard it loud and so eloquently clear from author, activist and professor Elizabeth Leiba who led one of our NAAWLI Level UP mini sessions last year.
In her book, I’m Not Yelling: A Black Woman’s Guide to Navigating the Workplace (2022) she shares strategies and recommendations to give successful businesswomen a framework for racial trauma healing, emotional support, and business success.
Mentorship takes work and most of the work is on YOU - mentee!
Here are some tips for anyone who is in the mentee role:
🟣Remember your goals. If you mention your specific, achievable goals from the beginning of the relationship, your mentor can help you stay on track at each meeting.
🟣Meet consistently.
🟣Set an agenda. Before each meeting, send your mentor an agenda.
🟣Be open to feedback: positive or constructive. Sometimes it can be hard to take a compliment or look back and appreciate your own work. In the same vein, be open to hearing tough feedback.
🟣Remember that this relationship is not a therapy session. Remember to make and keep boundaries.
🟣Last but not least, consider establishing a board of mentors. There is no right or wrong number of mentors as you progress through your professional career.
Even if a formal mentorship period ends, keep these mentors in your life and updated on your achievements and pitfalls.
At the National African-American Women's Leadership Institute we believe and promote mentorship for Black women.
Consider signing up TODAY for the upcoming leadership program.
Deadline to sign up is February, 28!
www.naawli.org
We see in YOU!