08/28/2026
Every time I step closer to my power, light and joy, the more my body rebels. My nervous system automatically tracks the risk, the jealousy, the resentment, the exclusion, the abuse of power/light/love/community. Then my brain joins with thoughts of self harm and intense judgment to bring me down a notch, or five.
Ive been finding the energetic and quantum entanglements in my family system (epigenetics), and I release them.
Every moment when I need to choose comfort over perceived exclusion/punishment/rejection I release these beloveds to their light and their fate.
My belonging need not tie myself to saving anyone, to holding any secrets, to tip toeing around trauma and experienced/perpetrated/potential harm. Every decision, harmful and not, led me to this moment.
And this is not the make or break moment that my body thinks it is. None of them are. Even if I were to stand in front of a tank in Tiananmen Square. My body is temporary and fixated on survival. My soul is boundless and fixated on love. Free.
Me in celebration and joy does not take the light away from those who have been intentionally silenced, kept in the dark, and/or perpetuating/being victimized by the abuse of power.
Me shining fully attracts those who are ready to step out of the shadows and into their particular light in this world at this moment. I respect, release, and trust the unfolding of everyone’s path as I (strategically/mindfully) walk the road to collective liberation. My liberation is tied to your liberation is tied to our liberation.
The unlock is that my process of liberation, that I document in my book, The Boundary Revolution, is the map. Now available on audio everywhere. 🎉✨
TLDR: there is no one to fix, no one to save, and no one to blame/shame. (Accountability and reconciliation, yes. Vilify and punish, no.)
If you’ve been feeling hopeless or overwhelmed or enraged like me, keep going, beloveds.
There’s someone you’re setting free. That someone, perhaps, I hope, is you.
