A Sophisticated Notion

A Sophisticated Notion Follow for the lingerie. Stay for everything else. What I did not expect was how integral the blog was to my sense of happiness and identity.

My name is Erica, and I am the former co-owner of A Sophisticated Pair, a specialty bra shop based in NC from 2011 until 2020. I created a small blog for the business to shamelessly promote our products and inexpensively draw traffic to the website. Over time, the blog transformed into part product review potpourri, part lingerie manifesto, and part personal odyssey. When the business closed, my w

ork curating content not only for the blog but also for the educational articles I wrote vanished into the ether of the Interwebs. I owed us a resurrection story. A Sophisticated Notion is an informal, personal space where I can share my writing projects, educational guides on bra fitting, passion for intimate apparel and retail, product reviews, personal essays, and maybe even an interesting short story. Some readers will focus strictly on lingerie posts while others may enjoy the variety. My expectation is you’ll come for the bras and stay for the writing.

A Happy Belated Gotcha Day to my weirdo dog. He's certainly made my life interesting and my cardio better.
06/04/2025

A Happy Belated Gotcha Day to my weirdo dog. He's certainly made my life interesting and my cardio better.

Happy Belated Mother's Day! My furbabies treated me yesterday to a fabulous dinner and gifts, and today I went to  for s...
05/12/2025

Happy Belated Mother's Day! My furbabies treated me yesterday to a fabulous dinner and gifts, and today I went to for some raw oysters. 😁😁Survey post should be up by Wednesday. My dad's recovery has been slow with multiple setbacks, unfortunately, but I renewed the website for another year regardless. Resolution: Write More Stuff! Hope all of you had a wonderful day yesterday! 🐶

I'm not a stranger to political controversy, and I'm heading there again today to discuss the Trump tariffs and how they...
04/30/2025

I'm not a stranger to political controversy, and I'm heading there again today to discuss the Trump tariffs and how they'll impact your lingerie drawer.

04/17/2025

I received amazing news this week. For the first time in over a decade, my labs were blissfully, triumphantly NORMAL. I persevered through misdiagnosis, poor treatment plans, and a stream of setbacks, including sepsis, but I have finally wrangled control of my health! #

The hospital discharged  Watkins last week, and he's been recovering at home. The delirium subsided, and he is moving ar...
04/13/2025

The hospital discharged Watkins last week, and he's been recovering at home. The delirium subsided, and he is moving around much better. It's going to be a long road to recovery, and he will need at least one more surgery to correct the hernias. However, for now at least, he's doing well and getting better. Thank you, everyone, for all the prayers and love! Now that he's home and I'm not splitting my time between two places, I can focus on posting new content. :) Happy Palm Sunday!

TL;DR: Blog updates are coming! It's been a rough three weeks, and Jason Watkins still needs positive thoughts, prayers,...
04/02/2025

TL;DR: Blog updates are coming! It's been a rough three weeks, and Jason Watkins still needs positive thoughts, prayers, and good energy.

Around the start of March, former co-owner Jason Watkins developed two hernias when he tried to help Debbie during a transfer. On the 18th, he went to the hospital for a routine hernia repair. While on the table, omentum around the mesh from his original hernia surgery began bleeding. Over the previous decade, the blood vessels resected into the scar tissue. The surgeon stopped the procedure, suppressed the bleeding, and closed up a massive 9" long wound on his abdomen without repairing the hernias.

While in recovery, they opted for a platelet and plasma transfusion to boost his numbers. Unfortunately, he had a massive allergic reaction to the plasma, and he went into anaphylaxis, including his blood pressure bottoming out at 60/40. The hospital staff rushed him to the ICU and stabilized him, only for the reaction to persist. They put a PICC line in his neck, flooded his system with medication, and kept him under observation.

On the evening of the 19th, he was moved into a room, and while his pain level was high, he was eating and drinking. However, over the next few days, his incision looked as if someone had shoved a softball underneath the skin, and he was having difficulty with digestion. The drain from the incision also filled up with fluid and needed more frequent emptying. The hospital wanted to discharge him Friday the 21st, but he advocated for one more day because he didn't feel safe going home.

I stayed with him nearly the entire time, apart from one daily trip home to walk Medjay, shower, and pack more food. That Friday, he told me to go home and rest. He was nauseated when I left, but he maintained it was gas pressure. The plan was to do an X-ray to check his chest and abdomen, but it never came to fruition. If they had, they could have seen his bowels were becoming progressively more distended and putting pressure on the sutures.

Around 7:30 pm, he texted me that he had vomited, and I offered to come back. My rest and recharge time has been limited, and he wanted me to take care of myself since it's only been in the last few weeks that I feel I've turned the corner on the near-death experience of having sepsis in my GI tract. At 2:45 am, a nurse called me from his phone to say the vomiting persisted, and he ruptured sutures and staples. His intestines were now outside his body. Yesterday, I convinced the doctor to let me see the picture (Remember, y'all, computer-integrated surgery is what I went to grad school for!), and dayum! In my head, I kept thinking they had poked through. Nope! To quote him: "I popped like a water balloon and had sausages all over my chest and stomach."

Ignoring all sense of personal safety and traffic laws, I sped through blackened country roads and saw him before they took him back to surgery. He was intubated with a new PICC line plus an NG tube in his nose. After the original surgery, his intestines were shocked by the handling necessary to curb the bleeding, and they went into "sleep mode." His gallbladder and liver, meanwhile, kept producing bile to break down the food and beverages he consumed. Without the intestines to process, absorb, and move the byproducts as nature intended, the intestines became filled with undigested food, waste, and gas. When he was vomiting and coughing, it put too much strain on the system, and pop goes the weasel.

He needed emergency surgery where they "milked" the waste product in his stomach out of the NG tube before putting the intestines back inside and sewing him up. Yes, folks, he eviscerated himself. Fortunately, he came through the surgery with a perfect outcome. They drained two liters of the waste product during surgery and another couple of liters in the following days. He wasn't allowed to eat or drink anything, and then he graduated to clear liquids. As of the last two days, he is on solid food. He was also released from the ICU into a regular room.

The recovery process has been slow, and he is still in the hospital. When they intubated him, he vomited the waste product and aspirated it into his lungs, which caused pneumonia. He's gained about 40 pounds of fluid, but copious use of Lasix has reduced the gain by 15 pounds. They also moved the second PICC line in his neck to his arm to prevent infection; however, blood clots formed around the PICC line in the arm after a couple of days. The arm swelled to three times the size of the other, and he needed blood thinners. Slowly but surely, the clots, the pneumonia, and the fluid are trending in the right direction.

His ability to move is improving, and he sits in a recliner a few hours each day. When he needs to reposition in bed, he does it himself, largely unaided by me or the staff, and during PT, he walks around his bed. The trauma and continuous time in the hospital has impacted his mental status, and the doctor thinks he has something called "hospital delirium" because his alertness and responsiveness are much lower than expected. He sleeps a lot, hears things that aren't there, and has slurred speech. If it persists, I'm insisting on an MRI.

The doctors have not discussed a discharge date yet, and he may transfer to a rehab facility first to continue working on his mobility. It doesn't help that he still has the original hernias that initiated this hellacious journey. It is not going to be an easy or a short road to recovery, and he will need at least one more surgery. In the meantime, I've been keeping him company and working from the hospital. This put blogging on the back burner, but I hope to resume now that the immediate danger has passed.

Keep him in your thoughts, and send positive vibes if you can. It's been a stressful two weeks, and nowhere near over yet.

Hey everyone! I updated the sale page with some UK 38J/US 38M bras in like new condition for $10 each. On a personal not...
03/21/2025

Hey everyone! I updated the sale page with some UK 38J/US 38M bras in like new condition for $10 each. On a personal note: I am over COVID-19 and healthy; however, my dad injured himself at the start of the month, required surgery this week to correct it, had complications during the surgery, needed a transfusion, and then had a massive anaphylactic reaction to the transfusion. He's in the hospital through the weekend, but I will allocate time to work on some new reviews! Send him your well-wishes because folks, he *needs* them! (https://sophisticatednotion.com/for-sale/)

Happy Holidays! I am finally resurfacing after a hellacious experience with sepsis. You can read more about it here: htt...
12/19/2024

Happy Holidays! I am finally resurfacing after a hellacious experience with sepsis. You can read more about it here: https://sophisticatednotion.com/the-sepsis-chronicles-life-store-updates/ . . . Suffice it to say, it has NOT been an easy recovery, and I've had two setbacks, hence why it's taken so long to update. But I managed to bring Medjay to see Santa this past weekend. Thank you again for the ongoing support, my friends.

10/22/2024

This is Jason, posting with Erica's permission.

Erica was admitted to the hospital on Sunday evening. On Friday morning at 3:00 am she started vomiting and could not even hold down ice chips. Every time she drank powerade, Gatorade, water...or anything, she immediately brought it back up. We even tried 5 doses of prescription anti nausea meds...to no avail. Sunday at 4pm she went to urgent care who pushed 2 bags of fluids along with iv push anti nausea meds. Her heart rate jumped to 170's with BP of 182/115. The decision was made to ems transport her to the ER. In the ER she was still not holding any fluids down even with more meds. So she was admitted to the main hospital. She has been in a ER room until a bed in the main part becomes available. She was just notified that she will be moving to a private room tonight.

As of this posting, the Drs have no idea what is causing the issues. They have ran all tests possible and are now treating with broad spectrum antibiotics, fluids and are treating it as sepsis due to blood work showing a sever infection.

They also have her on a very strict "rest" requirement. So she probably won't be answering or posting much with doctors, nurses and lab techs in and out of the room round the clock ("rest "...right)?

Thanks for your understanding and I am sure she will update some time tomorrow after she is settled in the new room and sees the morning doctor.

-Jason

With Mission of Equality Alamance – I'm on a streak! I've been a top fan for 3 months in a row. 🎉
09/27/2024

With Mission of Equality Alamance – I'm on a streak! I've been a top fan for 3 months in a row. 🎉

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