07/22/2025
It’s the middle of July. Your little one is supposed to start kindergarten in September, but are they actually ready?! This decision can be really tough for many families. One thing we have learned over the course of our teaching profession is that waiting is not something parents regret, but starting them too early can be. Here are some key factors to think about if you are debating the decision:
🧠 1. Developmental Readiness
Children who are just turning 5 (especially summer birthdays) may struggle with attention, impulse control, or emotional regulation compared to peers who are 6.
Kindergarten today is more academic than it was in our day, and some young kiddos may not be ready to sit, focus, or follow multi-step directions for long stretches. Playtime is limited, as is rest time, in many kinder classrooms across the nation.
📚 2. Kindergarten Rigor is INTENSE
Many schools now expect kids to:
*Start reading and recognizing words
*Write multiple complete sentences
*Work independently during lessons
*Count and write high numbers, as well as add and subtract algorithms
A child who isn’t developmentally ready may struggle early, which can affect confidence and motivation for years to come.
👫 3. Social and Emotional Maturity
Older kindergarteners are more likely to:
*Cooperate and share with peers
*Handle conflict without meltdowns or physical impulses (i.e. hitting, kicking)
*Feel confident socializing with peers and adults at school
Younger kindergartners may be overwhelmed or feel left out socially, especially if their classmates are nearly a year older.
🏃 4. Long-Term Advantages
Research suggests that kids who are older when they start school…
*Have fewer discipline problems
*Are more likely to be leaders in group activities
*May do better academically in the early years
⏳ 5. Time can be a wonderful gift!
A year can make a huge difference at this age, especially in the following areas:
*Fine motor development (cutting, writing, buttoning, zipping)
*Language skills
*Attention and focus
*Emotional regulation (aka tantrums and/or tears)
*Confidence in trying new things
In 12 short months, these skills can mean the difference between thriving and surviving in school.
While all this is important to consider, waiting isn’t ALWAYS necessary. We have seen many kinders succeed despite being young. Your child might do just fine if they are:
*Emotionally mature
*Curious and eager to learn
*Able to manage classroom routines, transitions, and can follow multiple step directions independently
For more info, check out this article from the Atlantic we previously posted. “Red-shirting” your child definitely takes thoughtful consideration…
https://www.theatlantic.com/magazine/archive/2022/10/boys-delayed-entry-school-start-redshirting/671238/
Here is another article from Parents with a helpful overview of skills taught in most schools. Note that some districts are more rigorous than others….
https://www.parents.com/kids/education/elementary-school/your-kid-will-learn-in-kindergarten/