04/30/2026
I’ve been taking time to read through the proposed attendance policy update from Browning High School, and I want to share some thoughts. First, I want to say this clearly I support improving attendance. Showing up matters for learning, connection, and building habits that carry our kids forward. But we also have to be honest about something deeper. Why are some of our students not showing up?
From a trauma informed perspective, and from the work I do every day, attendance is not just about choice. It’s about safety, stability, and connection. If we’re going to ask our students to show up, then we as a system; administrators, teachers, and leadership have to ask ourselves if we are creating spaces where students feel safe, seen, supported, and connected. We also have to reflect on whether we are responding with understanding, or simply relying on consequences.
Because behavior, like missing school, is often communication. It can reflect family responsibilities, grief and loss, mental health struggles, transportation issues, or simply a lack of connection to the school environment. One part of the policy that concerns me is tying attendance directly to grades. When grade reductions are based on absences, we have to ask whether we are measuring learning or measuring behavior. A student could understand the material, complete the work, and still be penalized. From a trauma informed lens, this can create shame rather than accountability. And shame doesn’t support growth it often leads to disengagement, avoidance, and students checking out mentally or physically.
Another important piece is the limitation of cultural absences to three per year. This is where I feel we need to pause and reflect. Our culture yes even Powwow is not something that fits into a set number. Limiting cultural participation can reduce it to a checkbox and doesn’t reflect the reality of our community. For many of our students, culture is connection, healing, and identity. It is not separate from education, it is part of what helps students feel grounded and strong in who they are.
Also something else we have to talk about honestly. Policies like this don’t just impact students! they impact the staff who have to carry them out every single day. Tracking attendance, documenting absences, communicating with families, enforcing policies, and making sure everything is recorded correctly takes a significant amount of time and energy. That work often falls on front end staff, teachers, and administrators who are already stretched thin. From what I understand, there is already a lack of support and resources in some of these areas. So even if a policy looks good on paper, we have to ask, who is responsible for implementing it, and what supports do they actually have?
Because behind every number is a person doing the work; Teachers trying to teach while managing systems, Front office staff tracking and reporting, Administrators navigating accountability and community pressure And if we’re not careful, we end up adding more responsibility to people who are already carrying a lot. That can lead to more frustration, staff burnout, students disengaging and the community not supporting systemic change.
Looking at this through a bigger lens. We can still hold students accountable, but we have to do it in a way that doesn’t overwhelm the very people responsible for supporting them, I do see effort in this proposal, things like tutoring options, flexibility, and planning for improvement. tells me the school is trying, and I respect that. But I believe we can go further.
If we’re going to build an attendance policy that truly works, it has to balance accountability with understanding, and structure with compassion; while also being realistic about the capacity of our staff and systems. I support improving attendance, because showing up matters. Accountability is important, but it has to be paired with understanding. This isn’t about lowering expectations. It’s about aligning expectations with reality and building systems that actually support our kids and the people who serve them in meeting those expectations.
I encourage families, staff, and community to put there feedback in to the email attched this. This is our chance to build something that reflects, what our kids are going through, and what our schools truly have the capacity to sustain.
Please give BHS leadership team feedback or ideas to [email protected]
Thank you for your continued support to BHS. Our #1 goal is to help prepare students for life after high school- which includes college or career and attendance is key for both.