01/25/2023
You see this guy? Well thatās my baby the youngest of 5. Sometimes I think he got the best version of me as a mom. Let me explainā¦
When I first started homeschooling, I literally had no idea what I was doing. Our oldest sons had started their education in public school so they already knew how to read, write, and do basic math. There is a 7 year gap between them and the 3 ālittlesā as I like to call them.
Iām pretty sure I had a panic attack the moment I realized that I had to teach them how to read. How in the world was I going to do that? Thankfully reading came easy for my daughter and she picked it up quite quickly just going through the Hooked on Phonics books. Then we got to our 4th son and boy was that a challenge! Iām pretty sure we were in tears on a daily basis. But hey, he had to learn how to read by 1st grade, right? Well, he was reading by the end of kindergarten but we were all miserable during the entire process.
Now enter our ābabyā. I did what Iād always done, kindergarten at 5 years old. And for the most part, he liked it but when we got to reading, that was a whole other story. He just could not catch on and then came the tears again. I remembered a podcast I heard about boys and reading and that they typically take longer to learn how to read and that it will just āclickā around 8/9 years old sometimes even later. As scary as it was, I decided to give it a shot. I wasnāt going to push my son to readā¦we werenāt going to do any traditional reading lessons at all. I was simply going to read to him and let it happen naturally.
One day while watching a foreign film with the kids, my son started reading the subtitles! We were all stunned and just looked at him in shockā¦he could read! He was around 8 years old when I started him on reading lessons. We did Hooked on Phonics and Explode the Code. By the time he was 9 he was reading chapter books. Now at age 10 he is reading beyond grade level and his comprehension and retention is impressive as well! Iām thankful I followed my instincts and followed a more gentle approach. We are all happier for it!
I hope this post encourages you. Drop me a line or a question, Iād love to hear from you! ā¤ļø