04/03/2018
World Autism Day 4/2. Not our son... no, our son won't get Autism. That's crazy... I have 12 nieces and nephews. None of them have autism... we have no autism in the family. No way. Not our son. This is how I thought about Autism before William was born. I thought it was something that happened to other people. After all, as you can see from the photo, we had big plans for William.... CC football was written all over this robust infant who was sure to follow in his father's footsteps. Perhaps a MSU grad like his mom. Certainly he'd be outgoing and charming with those Govan genes. Concern set in when he wasn't talking at 1, then 1 and 1/2 then at 2, I knew... something was very wrong. Diagnosed after a 3 hour clinic apt with a neurologist, speech pathologist and psychologist at Mott Behavioral clinic. "Your son has autism." He'll be ok, we told ourselves. I'm his mom, and mom's are supposed to be able to fix it and make it all better. Best therapist, Drs, you name it Those co- morbid conditions no one ever talks about took him down - one after another. Sinusitis, too many ties to count, GI infections, reflux - nothing was working right. Apraxia was diagnosed. Then his immune system was so weak, hypothyroidism set in. Then PANS. We keep fighting for him, as long as there is a breath in us and one more penny in my purse, we keep fighting. You see, William has the type of Autism no one ever talks about because it uncomfortable. No, he's not curiously smart, he doesn't memorize countless facts, he's not just "quirky." He will be forever in our care. There is no retirement or empty nest in our future. I wrote this not for anyone to feel sorry for us. William is a blessing because those small glimpses where he smiles or hugs me or makes a teeny tiny breakthrough makes it all worth it! Don't feel sorry for us, but please research. Research multiple sources! If you are thinking you might be pregnant soon. I implore you to do research, do not have blind faith in a single source. If you think your child may have Autism, act now. Early intervention is so important! ❤️❤️
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