True Bliss Alchemy

Part 16 of The Return.

The relationships that broke my heart were also two of the greatest gifts of my life. Both things are true.

Reclaiming your story doesn’t mean pretending it didn’t hurt. It means owning what it grew in you.

What has your hardest season taught you? I’d love to hear in the comments.

You’re not behind. You’re not lost. You’re becoming.

This is what cleaning my home looks like with Hello Kitty Finn 😝

Part 15 of The Return.

You are allowed to begin again. As many times as your life requires.

Starting over isn’t evidence of failure. It’s proof you’re still willing... and you never start from scratch. You start from experience.

Share this with someone who thinks it’s too late to start again.

You’re not behind. You’re not lost. You’re becoming.

Part 14 of The Return.

What do you actually think, want, need, and desire? Not what you were assigned. Not what’s expected. What do YOU want?

If you can’t answer right away, that’s not a flaw... it’s just proof the question is overdue.

Drop one honest answer in the comments. Even a small one. Especially a small one.

You’re not behind. You’re not lost. You’re becoming.

Part 13 of The Return.

Returning to yourself isn’t a one-time event. You’ll drift. Life pulls. And you’ll come back... again and again.

That’s not failure. That’s the practice.

Save this for the next time you catch yourself drifting and start to feel the shame creep in.

You’re not behind. You’re not lost. You’re becoming*.*

Part 12 of The Return.

A feeling is just a feeling. It’s information... not the truth.

Feel it fully. Thank it for the information. Then ask yourself: what is actually true here?

Save this for the next time a feeling tries to write your story.

You’re not behind. You’re not lost. You’re becoming.

Part 11 of The Return.

You have a timeline in your head. You’re measuring yourself against it. And here’s the problem... timelines only count the leaps. They never count the shifts.

Real change is built in small, aligned shifts that compound quietly over time. That’s the whole formula: preparation, practice, persistence, time.

Save this for the days the timeline gets loud.

You’re not behind. You’re not lost. You’re becoming.

Part 10 of The Return.

I used to grieve everything I gave away. Now I see it differently... I was proof of my own capacity the whole time. I just had it pointed at the wrong person.

So I asked myself: what if I gave myself everything I’ve given everyone else? The love, the encouragement, the nurturing, the fun.

Now that energy comes home to me. This is my return... and I know you have a return in you too.

Save this for when you need a reminder of the capacity you hold to return. And share with a friend who may need the same reminder.

You’re not behind. You’re not lost. You’re becoming.

Part 9 of The Return.

Most of my life, people decided who I was within minutes of meeting me.

Some of it was true. Most of it was projection.
I used to use up a lot of energy trying to live up to how people perceived me, or trying to convince them how wrong they were about me. Both left me drained and feeling bad about myself.

Today, I’m in acceptance of how others may view me. And I’m in total acceptance of who I am. Most of all, I’m in acceptance that the two may not align at all. This may be uncomfortable at times, but it doesn’t take my energy or leave me drained or feeling bad about myself.

Know yourself so deeply that other people’s assumptions can’t shake you.

Who do people assume you are… and who are you really?





WomenWhoEvolve

Part 8 of The Return.

I walked into the Long Library in Dublin and recognized it... from years of meditations, long before I ever set foot in Ireland.

Call it intuition. Call it spirit. Call it inner knowing. Whatever you call it... yours is real too.

When was the last time your body knew something before your mind did?

You’re not behind. You’re not lost. You’re becoming.