Caring Essentials Collaborative

07/06/2026

𝗖𝗵𝗼𝗶𝗰𝗲 𝗜𝘀 𝗗𝗶𝗳𝗳𝗲𝗿𝗲𝗻𝘁 𝗧𝗵𝗮𝗻 𝗖𝗼𝗻𝘀𝘁𝗿𝗮𝗶𝗻𝘁

There's been a great deal of conversation lately about the "tradwife" movement.

What strikes me isn't whether women choose careers, motherhood, homemaking, leadership, or some beautiful combination of them.

It's something deeper.

The generations before us didn't fight so that every woman would choose the same life.

They fought so that women could choose.

That distinction matters.

I celebrate women who find profound meaning in caring for a home and raising children. I celebrate women who build businesses, lead organizations, pursue scholarship, or decide motherhood isn't their path.

None of these choices diminishes the others.

What concerns me is whenever any movement—traditional or progressive—begins suggesting there is only one worthy way to be a woman.

One woman's choice should never restrict another woman's choice.

Freedom isn't about arriving at the same destination.

It's about protecting the conditions that allow each of us to choose our own path with dignity, wisdom, and agency.

I'd love to hear your thoughts.
🔗https://caringessentials.net/post/tradwife-movement-choice-vs-constraint

'sVoices

07/03/2026

A movie surprised me this week.

I thought I was watching another Robin Hood story.

Instead, I found myself reflecting on grief, complexity, and the quiet work of discernment.

This essay is about the difference between understanding an idea and allowing it to become the way we live.

If you've been wrestling with complexity lately, perhaps this reflection will resonate with you.

🔗 https://caringessentials.net/post/the-quiet-work-of-discernment

07/03/2026

𝗧𝗼𝗱𝗮𝘆 𝗜 𝗳𝗶𝗻𝗱 𝗺𝘆𝘀𝗲𝗹𝗳 𝗵𝗼𝗹𝗱𝗶𝗻𝗴 𝗯𝗼𝘁𝗵 𝗴𝗿𝗮𝘁𝗶𝘁𝘂𝗱𝗲 𝗮𝗻𝗱 𝗿𝗲𝘀𝗽𝗼𝗻𝘀𝗶𝗯𝗶𝗹𝗶𝘁𝘆.

Gratitude for the dream and vision of a nation built on liberty, justice, and the radical belief that power ultimately belongs to the people.

Responsibility because democracy is not something we inherit once and for all. It is something we practice. Something we protect. Something we must preserve and defend.

We have faltered throughout our history—sidetracked by colonialism, racism, greed, and the painful ways we have failed to live into our own highest ideals. There is nothing perfect about this union. And still, the dream matters. The vision matters. The Constitution matters.

We cannot keep our heads in the sand when democratic principles are threatened. Love of country requires the courage to defend freedom, uphold the Constitution, resist authoritarian efforts, and recommit ourselves to the unfinished work of liberty and justice for all.

Just as healing requires tending, so does freedom.

May we celebrate this Independence Day with joy, humility, and steadfast commitment.

𝗛𝗮𝗽𝗽𝘆 𝗙𝗼𝘂𝗿𝘁𝗵 𝗼𝗳 𝗝𝘂𝗹𝘆, 𝗳𝗿𝗶𝗲𝗻𝗱𝘀. 🇺🇸

07/01/2026

We often think trauma begins with an act of violence.

Sometimes it begins with something far quieter.

A policy.

A protocol.

A culture that slowly stops asking whether harm has become ordinary.

The recent Senate investigation into the medical treatment of women detained in ICE custody has left me thinking about something much larger than one institution.

It has left me asking: 𝘞𝘩𝘢𝘵 𝘩𝘢𝘱𝘱𝘦𝘯𝘴 𝘸𝘩𝘦𝘯 𝘴𝘺𝘴𝘵𝘦𝘮𝘴 𝘴𝘵𝘰𝘱 𝘯𝘰𝘵𝘪𝘤𝘪𝘯𝘨 𝘵𝘩𝘦 𝘩𝘶𝘮𝘢𝘯𝘪𝘵𝘺 𝘴𝘵𝘢𝘯𝘥𝘪𝘯𝘨 𝘣𝘦𝘧𝘰𝘳𝘦 𝘵𝘩𝘦𝘮?

This week's essay explores structural trauma—not as a political conversation, but as a profoundly human one.

Because trauma-informed care isn't simply about being kinder. It's about creating cultures where dignity cannot quietly disappear.

I'd love to know what resonates with you.

🔗 https://caringessentials.net/post/when-systems-forget-to-feel

06/25/2026

𝗛𝗮𝗽𝗽𝗲𝗻𝗶𝗻𝗴 𝗧𝗼𝗱𝗮𝘆!

Join FCC Taskforce Community Exchange 𝗧𝗢𝗗𝗔𝗬 𝗮𝘁 𝟭𝟭𝗮𝗺 𝗣𝗧/𝟮𝗽𝗺 𝗘𝗦𝗧 for:
𝗛𝘂𝗺𝗮𝗻𝗶𝘇𝗶𝗻𝗴 𝘁𝗵𝗲 𝗡𝗜𝗖𝗨: 𝗜𝗻𝘁𝗲𝗴𝗿𝗮𝘁𝗶𝗻𝗴 𝗠𝗲𝗻𝘁𝗮𝗹 𝗛𝗲𝗮𝗹𝘁𝗵 𝗖𝗮𝗿𝗲 with Christine Neugebauer, PhD, LPC-S, MT-BC and Kara Pepper, M.MFT, LMFT. Christine & Kara will be sharing how they implemented their NICU mental health program.

𝗝𝗢𝗜𝗡: https://us.list-manage.com/OxGPqAoCmi6?e=12b3746dbc&c2id=2d43c1096f6faeb09686372c59f7579f

𝗣𝗮𝘀𝘀𝘄𝗼𝗿𝗱: 604149

06/19/2026

A celebration, a reckoning, and a recommitment to the work that never ends

05/21/2026

𝗗𝗢𝗪𝗡𝗟𝗢𝗔𝗗 𝗬𝗢𝗨𝗥 𝗧𝗢𝗢𝗟𝗞𝗜𝗧 𝗛𝗘𝗥𝗘: https://fcctaskforce.org/parental-presence-toolkit/

05/10/2026

Changing the Narrative: Language, Bias, and the Power of Words in Care

Words matter.
They shape experiences.
They influence relationships.
They carry assumptions, histories, power, and possibility.

And in healthcare — especially in perinatal and neonatal spaces — language can either deepen shame and disconnection or foster dignity, trust, and healing.

I’m honored to share an upcoming webinar hosted by the Family-Centered Care Taskforce: Stigmatizing Language: Changing the Narrative

🗓 May 14th

⏰ 11:00 AM – 12:30 PM PT

💻 Free Webinar

This important conversation brings together an incredible panel of clinicians, educators, advocates, and leaders exploring how stigmatizing language impacts patients, families, and healthcare culture — and what it means to intentionally create more compassionate, equitable, and trauma-informed communication practices.

The panel includes:

- Veronica Barcelona

- Jessi Barnes

- Rose Horton

- Adrienne McIntyre

- Cheniqua Morales

This conversation feels deeply aligned with the ongoing work of trauma-informed developmental care, relational health, and the recognition that language is never “just words.” The way we speak about people — parents, babies, colleagues, communities, ourselves — shapes the environments we create and the care we deliver.

Together, we can begin shifting from labels and assumptions toward curiosity, dignity, belonging, and shared humanity.

If this speaks to you, I hope you’ll join us.

Registration is free.

📲 Scan the QR code in the flyer below to register and learn more.

05/08/2026

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Listening for what wants to emerge: weaving threads to build a politics and economics of belonging