Amanda Oden Coaching

Did you know veterinarians are 3–5 times more likely to die by su***de than the general population?
For women, it’s even worse.

I know—because I nearly became one of those statistics.

But I found a way back. And forward.

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My book is available on Amazon!

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So excited to be launching a book, coming out on Amazon soon, and a free workbook that you can download here:
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What they say about Feminine Power is true, and it isn’t surprising:
When women step into their Feminine Power, one of the primary areas where they have huge shifts is in their health—even if that’s not what they came into the program to work on.
Women lose weight. They heal their depression. They meet the love of their lives. They reclaim their confidence and power, and overcome obstacles that have been holding them back for years if not decades.
I love this comment from Angela in New York.
She said, “I lost 185 pounds and I’ve kept it off for more than a year.
“When people ask me, ‘How do you get up early to go to the gym?’ I tell them, ‘Well if I had a loved one who needed me to get up early because their life depended on it, I would be able to do it.’ Feminine Power showed me how to care for myself in the same way that I care for others.’”
It’s because they’re finally listening to themselves and breaking up this old narrative of “I don’t matter.”
This is what happens when we turn on the most powerful parts of ourselves.
We make the impossible possible.
It’s time to break through these old patterns and step forward to manifest your most extraordinary future. 💜

What is it you most deeply yearn for that you haven’t been able to get?

(Notice you can’t answer this question from your head.)

Since this is so personal, send me a private message and let me know.

Your biggest barrier to achieving time and money freedom, the love relationship you’ve always dreamed of, or anything else you yearn for is not lacking a plan…

It’s actually the old beliefs about…

–who you are

–what is or isn’t possible for you

–how life works

–the economy

We think, “I’m too old,” or “I don’t have enough qualifications,” or “I don’t have enough time / money / resources,” or “It’s my genetics.”

We all have these stories about ourselves inside our consciousness.

That’s why making a plan and setting goals doesn’t work for today’s smart, conscious women.

The first step is NOT to set a goal, make a plan, and move into action.

The first step is to remove the subconscious blocks to having what it is that you most deeply desire.

My mentor Dr. Claire Zammit calls these blocks your “inner glass ceiling.”

The good news is that there’s a part of you that’s way more powerful than you can likely imagine, and it not only has the wisdom and the perspective, it also has access to the power to break free.

Your inner glass ceiling can shatter, and you can finally begin to get traction, flow, and energy.

Sometimes it just takes an outside perspective to help you take the first swing.

There’s a BIG shift happening in the coaching world.

Women are waking up and realizing that traditional coaching doesn’t work for them.

But when women work with a coach who’s “Woman-Centered”... miraculous shifts begin to happen.

Here are some results from women who’ve experienced the transformational Woman-Centered Coaching method:
“I went back to the career I’d always wanted: photography. My work is better than ever and I’m getting calls from national clients. Last year I won a huge job that paid $30,000 for a week of shooting!”
–Rose, San Francisco, California

“I have had a powerful shift in my relationship with my husband that turned our marriage around. We now have an intimate friendship and romantic partnership.”

–Ildiko, Hill Top, NSW Australia

“I finished a book, got it published, started promoting it, and am now in the process of developing a workshop and workbook based on the lessons I learned.”

–Patricia, Friendswood, Texas

I love these success stories because when women rise up, they lift everyone else around them.

What’s the one area you most want to manifest in? Let me know in the comments!

It’s a new era.

Women have rapidly embraced power and are holding higher-paying, higher-prestige jobs.

We’re running businesses.

And we’ve come a long way since the days of needing men to help us get credit cards!

We have moved up Maslow’s Hierarchy of Needs very quickly, and many of us are on the verge of self-actualization.

But now we’re feeling yearnings for higher human potential.

They’re not yearnings to accomplish goals.

These are yearnings to become ourselves fully.

They’re yearnings to break through into visibility, to be seen, to be known, to have intimacy, love, and connection.

But, in order to create and manifest at the level of self-actualization, we need a different power system, one that can hold our complex dreams and desires.

That system is what my mentor Dr. Claire Zammit calls Feminine Power.

Once you make the shift to creating with Feminine Power, you’re finally able to tap into the source of power that enables you to bridge the gap, to make the leap, to get momentum, to begin to manifest, and create a life that finally matches the inner possibilities you feel.

If you’ll tell me, I’d love to know one way your life would change if you were fully self-actualized.
Would you have more money, more time, more connection, more love, more visibility, more impact?
Send me a DM and let me know – I’d love to hear from you.

Women – do you ever feel emotionally overwhelmed or anxious or depressed, in spite of being a smart, powerful woman with accomplishments to be proud of?

You might be feeling pulled to express your gifts and talents, and at the same time, you experience a paralyzing self-doubt.

My mentor, Dr. Claire Zammit, calls this the Power Paradox.

On the one hand, we women are wildly powerful and successful.

On the other hand, we feel powerless to create the things we most deeply yearn for.

Add to that the fact that women are masters at blaming ourselves…

We assume the problem is us, and think we just haven’t figured it out yet…

Or that we haven’t done enough therapy, read enough self-help books, or taken enough training.

However, there’s a deeper reason this is going on. Drop an emoji in the comments if you’d like me to share more about it in the coming weeks.

I’m excited to share a big life update with you, something that has the potential to impact many thousands of lives, especially women.
I’ve just finished training to be a Woman-Centered Coach with Dr. Claire Zammit, one of the world’s preeminent experts in helping intelligent, conscious women break through the underlying obstacles keeping them from stepping into their greatest potential.
Women who have experienced this coaching method often say they achieve a year’s worth of growth in a single session.

I’m inviting a handful of women to experience Woman-Centered Coaching during a complimentary 60-minute breakthrough session.
During this call, we’ll clarify your vision, identify the subconscious barriers that are keeping you from reaching your ultimate potential so you can remove blocks to finding financial freedom in any economy, finding the romantic relationship you’ve been looking for, creating the health breakthroughs you’ve been searching for.
Woman-Centered Coaching has shifted the way I view the world and created extraordinary breakthroughs in my own life, and I’d love nothing more than to share it with you.
To book your discovery session or to find out more, send me a private message or sign up on my calendly page here: https://calendly.com/dreamitanyway/clarity-call?utm_medium=referral&utm_source=website&utm_content=contactpage&month=2025-02
I look forward to sharing this extraordinary experience with you!

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Harnessing Feminine Power Through Wicked Blog Series
Amanda Oden, Women Centered Coach, Life Transformation Facilitator



What does it mean to embrace your true power? For women seeking to uncover their inner strength and transform their lives, the journey often involves confronting fears, rewriting narratives, and daring to dream again. This blog series draws inspiration from Wicked, the Broadway and Movie phenomenon, and its central character Elphaba—a figure who embodies the struggle and triumph of stepping into one’s full potential.
Using key moments, characters, and themes from Wicked, we’ll explore what it means to manifest feminine power in a world that often undermines or misunderstands it. From the vulnerability of dreaming to the courage it takes to leap into the unknown, this series offers reflections and tools to help you embrace your unique story and move toward your highest aspirations. Each entry unpacks a vital lesson, connecting Elphaba’s journey with the experiences and challenges women face at all stages of life.
Here’s what you can look forward to in this empowering series:
Dreaming: Exploring why dreams can feel painful and how to reconnect with your aspirations.
Fear and Power: Understanding how fear of differences can corrode our potential and keep us from owning our power.
The Dance of Relationships: Discovering the dynamics that shape our growth and identity through connection.
The Leap and Beyond: Overcoming barriers, rewriting narratives, and soaring into new possibilities.
Through these entries, you’ll find inspiration to reflect on your journey, practical tools for growth, and encouragement to step into your fullest expression of feminine power. Together, we’ll uncover the magic in your story and celebrate the moment you, too, start your joyride.

"Don’t Dream Too Far": What Elphaba in Wicked Teaches Us About Women’s Struggles with Dreaming
Amanda Oden, DVM
Women Centered Life Transformation Coach and Group Facilitator
Elphaba’s haunting words in the song I’m Not That Girl from the musical Wicked capture a deeply resonant truth about the pain of dreaming. Her lyrics, "Don’t dream too far, don’t lose sight of who you are, don’t remember that rush of joy," articulate the hesitation, heartbreak, and vulnerability that can accompany the act of allowing oneself to hope. For women of all ages, these lines embody the emotional and psychological barriers that arise when considering what they truly want in life.
Elphaba’s reluctance to dream mirrors the lived experiences of countless women who feel stuck in roles that don’t fulfill them. These women often grapple with the fear that dreaming is not only futile but actively harmful. Let’s unpack how Elphaba’s journey reflects this struggle, and why dreaming—while painful—is still worth pursuing.

The Pain of Dreaming When You Feel You’ve Done It All
At different stages of life, women may feel they’ve reached certain milestones: advancing in careers, raising children, building relationships, or fulfilling societal expectations. Yet, this sense of achievement can sometimes give way to discontent and a longing for something more. They may look around and wonder why these accomplishments haven’t brought the satisfaction they expected. This discontent is amplified by societal messaging that suggests certain dreams are impractical or unrealistic, depending on their age or stage in life.
Elphaba’s words, "Don’t remember that rush of joy," capture this internal conflict. For many women, remembering what once brought joy—a creative passion, a long-forgotten dream, or even a sense of freedom—can feel like reopening a wound. It’s not that they don’t know what they want; it’s that wanting feels too painful when the path to achieving it seems blocked by responsibilities, societal expectations, or fear of failure.

Dreaming Can Feel Dangerous
"Don’t dream, don’t start. Dreaming only wounds the heart," Elphaba sings, embodying a sentiment many women share: the fear that dreaming will only lead to disappointment. Women often face what researcher Brené Brown in her TED Talk on The Power Of Vulnerability, calls the "vulnerability hangover." Dreaming requires courage, but exposing oneself to potential failure—especially when the stakes feel high—can feel overwhelming.
Moreover, many women have internalized the idea that their dreams must take a backseat to practicality. Balancing careers, caregiving, societal expectations, or the weight of unspoken judgments leaves little room for self-reflection or exploration. The act of dreaming feels indulgent, even irresponsible, when weighed against the needs of others or the demands of their current reality.

The Psychological Barriers to Dreaming
Elphaba’s declaration, "I’m not that girl," reflects an identity crisis familiar to women at various life stages. They may have internalized limiting beliefs shaped by years of external pressures:
Fear of risk: Starting over or pursuing a dream feels daunting after investing years in a particular career, relationship, or lifestyle.
Role overload: Women often juggle multiple responsibilities, from professional demands to caregiving, leaving little energy for personal aspirations.
Cultural conditioning: Many women have been socialized to prioritize others’ needs over their own, leading to a loss of connection with their true desires.
Elphaba’s refrain, "I’m not that girl," resonates because it’s a defense mechanism. It’s easier to believe that the dream is unattainable than to confront the possibility of failure or rejection.

Why Dreaming Still Matters
While Elphaba’s song captures the pain of dreaming, her story—and the stories of many women—doesn’t end there. In Wicked, Elphaba eventually defies her own doubts, embracing her identity and pursuing her dreams despite the odds. Her journey offers a powerful reminder that dreaming is a radical act of hope, one that can lead to transformation even in the face of fear.
For women of all ages, reconnecting with dreams isn’t just about achieving a specific goal; it’s about reigniting a sense of purpose and joy. It’s about asking, "What if?" and allowing that question to open doors to possibilities that once seemed closed. This process doesn’t require abandoning responsibilities or making drastic changes overnight. It begins with small steps:
Reflection: Journaling prompts like, "What did I love doing as a child?" or "What would I do if I weren’t afraid?" can help women reconnect with their passions.
Experimentation: Trying new hobbies, exploring creative outlets, or taking a class can reignite curiosity and joy.
Support: Seeking out communities, mentors, or women-centered coaches who encourage dreaming can provide the validation and accountability needed to take the next step.

Conclusion
Elphaba’s I’m Not That Girl is a poignant anthem for women who’ve felt the sting of unfulfilled dreams. It reflects the pain of wanting more and the fear that it’s too late to achieve it. Yet, her journey reminds us that dreaming—while risky and vulnerable—is essential to living authentically. For women of all ages, allowing themselves to dream isn’t just about achieving goals; it’s about reclaiming their joy, identity, and hope for the future. So, take heart from Elphaba’s story—and dare to dream, even when it feels impossible. You might just defy gravity.

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