09/22/2026
Is "overfunctioning" the parenting word of the moment? It might be.
From therapy offices to parenting podcasts to dinner table conversations, more and more parents are asking the same question: am I doing too much for my kids?
I've been sitting with this question for a while, both as a parent coach and as a parent who has been there herself. The result is my latest blog post--an honest, slightly confessional look at what overfunctioning really is, why we do it, and what small shifts can actually make a difference.
There is no clean line between supporting your child and doing too much for them. But awareness is a start.