10/16/2024
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Mental, Emotional or Physical Abuse Is NOT IN COMPETITION TO BE THE WORSE OR BETTER. THEY ALL ARE ABUSE!!!!
10/16/2024
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10/07/2024
Life is beautiful... Don't give up on you
3 boundaries everyone should set before the relationship gets serious:
(Only my opinion)
#1 Expectations For The Future .
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Sometimes you meet someone and y'all are kicking it off really good and getting along. Y'all like the same things, same teams, same movies and etc but BOOM You want to move out of state or country to pursue your dreams and he wants to stay at the homeland and be a local car mechanic. So yeah make sure the futures are looking similar or workable together.
#2. S*x Drive..
(Cause why not??)
If you have a high s*x drive you don't want to be in a relationship with someone that has a low s*x drive. I've been on that side of the fence before and will never return. I mean just imagine you get all dressed up and your hair done and you looking all eatable and when you get to the bedroom thinking you bout to get the best stress reliever ever your partner says "Not tonight baby, I'm tired." That part SUCKS!!!!
#3.Family Ties..
(My family is your family or we not family..)
This one should be a no brainer. If we gonna be in a long term committed relationship then meeting my family and my family accepting you Is a must. (For me if my kids like you then your allowed to stay if not you gotta go.. NOW LIKE RIGHT NOW!!!!).. For older traditional participants the girlfriend must be approved by Grandma and mom of the boyfriend and the boyfriend must be Approved by the grandpa and dad of the daughter. If not approved the couple is not allowed to date.
I know it's 2024 and relationships these days hold a entire different meaning. I mean no disrespect toward any homos*xual or transgender couples when I say this but when I was growing up that wasn't popping off. I'm so happy that we have reached a place of acceptance and allowing people to be who they want to be. No more hiding behind a mask, no more fake girlfriends or boyfriends, and FINALLY LOVE IS ALLOWED TO LOVE WHOMEVER IT CHOOSES!!!! LETS ALL LOVE EACH OTHER.
With LOVE& POSITIVE VIBES SENT TO YOU!!!!!!!
07/31/2024
Love yourself Goddess