Sacred Sexuality Austin

[STARTS IN FOUR DAYS] “Let’s close the door and go to Tokyo, darling!” 🦹🏼‍♀️

Do you ever want to get out of town so you can …. Be someone else? … Maybe be your true self? … So you can feel different … renewed?

Most people go on vacation to feel something.
To feel different.
To feel that certain something in their body.

What if you could feel that certain something in your body anytime?

Outside the bedroom, where it changes your life.

Inside the bedroom where … well … as I used to say:

“Let’s close the door and go to Tokyo, darling!” 🦹🏼‍♀️

I discovered years ago that I could feel that certain something in my body - at will.

No more expensive travel plans just to feel alive.

No more crappy food just to prove to myself that I can do what I want.

No more sitting in airports waiting or on planes just to be the highest version of myself.

Now I do that at home … every day! 🕊️🌈🍃

And I’d love to show you how to do the same.

If you love to travel that’s wonderful.

AND how might you be different if you could feel that way every day? 🤔

Instead of the time and expense from planning to recovery ...

SKIP the early morning alarms, airports, rental cars, maps, bad food, endless food and drink packaging waste, language barriers …

Dedicate one weekend to learning how to make your desires come true every day wherever you are!

Come on in.

…. I’ll show you what I mean.

Make the REST OF THIS YEAR ONE LONG VACATION IN TOKYO, baby! 🎉🥰

You are invited to the next Weekend Workshop March 20-22.

Show your body how to change your state to bliss at will, by learning, practicing, and sharing with other cool people who are on the same path.

We start in FOUR DAYS so grab your ticket now.

This opportunity will not come around again until May - don't let Spring spring forward without you!

Check out all of the videos from past participants

See you there? 🧚🏽‍♀️

With love,
~ River Roaring
aka River del Llano

Official Wheel of Consent Weekend Workshop with River Roaring The Wheel of Consent Weekend Workshop presented by River Roaring in the beautiful city of Austin, Texas. The Holy Grail of Desire, Touch and Consent. Learn in person and practice the Wheel of Consent as developed by Dr. Betty Martin.

Does your thinking mind get in the way of your s*x, your intimacy … and maybe even your evolution?

When your real-life human lover turns to you and says:

“Now it’s your turn! What do you want?” 😃

Are you like a deer in the headlights? 😳
Mind racing?

… What’s the right answer?!?
… What am I supposed to want?
… What is acceptable?
… What do they want to hear?
… Will my body function “correctly”?

We weren’t designed to use our thinking mind to answer that question.

Our thinking mind literally CAN NOT find desire, … It’s impossible.

Your deepest desire comes from somewhere else inside you.

And if you can’t find it inside yourself

… you can’t answer that question authentically.
… You can’t make your desire come true if you can’t find it.
… And you can’t live a desire-driven life!

There is only one way to find your deepest desire.

Learn, and then practice doing it in real life.

Which is EXACTLY what we do in the Weekend Workshop! 🥰

The workshop is designed as an intensive learning and practicing space.

So YOU CAN FIND YOUR AUTHENTIC DESIRE! 🏄🏽

… From now on. … Forever more.

Join us and permanently upgrade your way of being.

Learn to live driven by desire in the bedroom.
And in all of life, ultimately including your life purpose.

Because no machine, no doctor, no healer, no outside source will ever know what YOUR LIFE PURPOSE IS.

Only you can do that, my darling. 🌈💦

YOU ARE INVITED to join us March 20-22 for the next Weekend Workshop with me, River Roaring, in the beautiful city of Austin, Texas.

These weekend workshops attract the most interesting, sincere, fun, and engaged people I’ve ever known.

We would love to get to know you and support you to find your deepest most authentic desire. 🧚🏽‍♀️

With love,

✨ Weekend Workshop Videos & Registration ✨
https://www.riverroaring.com/the-weekend-workshop

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DO NOT PARTICIPATE IN THIS WEEKEND unless you are ready to radically up-level the way you connect with yourself and with others, unless you are ready to unlock your full potential as a human connector, in just ONE weekend! IF this is you, we have two seats remaining and we start at 6pm on Friday in central Austin! ... If this is you, please join us in 2 days! ❤️🧚‍♀️

Official Wheel of Consent Weekend Workshop with River Roaring The Wheel of Consent Weekend Workshop presented by River Roaring in the beautiful city of Austin, Texas. The Holy Grail of Desire, Touch and Consent. Learn in person and practice the Wheel of Consent as developed by Dr. Betty Martin.

If you're ready for new year transformation. 💪🏼
If you're ready to make this Valentine's day the best ever. 💖

Join us January 23-25 in downtown Austin, Texas, for the Weekend Workshop with River Roaring! ✨ https://www.riverroaring.com/the-weekend-workshop

.. You're worth it. 🌸

With love,
~ River

The Wheel of Consent isn’t a diagram. 🕸️
And it’s not just a simple game to me.
It's an experience.
To me it’s a way of life. 🍃

Most folks don’t realize that consent begins inside our body. 🥰 🫣
When you suggest doing something with me, I feel something inside my body.
When I request that you do something for me, I feel something in my body.
When you say yes, I feel something.
When you say no, I feel something.
When I say yes, I feel something.
When I say no, I feel something.
We're trained to focus attention on the outside world, especially in s*x.
S*x out there on the screen.
S*x out there in my partner’s experience.
What about the sensual, the erotic, the juicy physical sensations inside your own body? 😊 💦
When we always seek pleasure from the external, lots of dynamics set in.
- Dependence on the outside world for pleasure
- Loss of capacity to generate pleasure from within
- Imbalance and depletion of vital life force energy
The Wheel of Consent path is about gently opening your direct route of pleasure.
The one inside your body from skin to brain and back.
Your access to your deepest inner desires and primal passions.
The outside world doesn’t have the most erotic secrets that turn you on the most from your favorite most erotic sounds to your favorite scents, tastes, sensations in your body, to your favorite visuals.
YOU DO.
When you access your INNER PLEASURE,
you own your own inner experience.
That is true personal power.
.. And you can totally do it!
In our Weekend Workshop, which is an official Wheel of Consent Workshop, we cultivate relaxation and then we gently practice these skills so you can steadily build new capacity inside your body.
Check out all of the short videos from past participants!
The Official Wheel of Consent Weekend Workshop
The Holy Grail of Desire, Touch and Consent
❤️ November 7-9 ❤️
See lots of participant video reviews and grab your ticket here.
https://www.riverroaring.com/the-weekend-workshop
You are warmly invited to join us. 🌈 🌤️ 🤸🏼‍♀️
THREE seats remain at this time, grab your seat now!
See you in November? 🕊️🥰

Official Wheel of Consent Weekend Workshop with River Roaring The Wheel of Consent Weekend Workshop presented by River Roaring in the beautiful city of Austin, Texas. The Holy Grail of Desire, Touch and Consent. Learn in person and practice the Wheel of Consent as developed by Dr. Betty Martin.

Who is this for?
Who did you go to work for today?
Who did you choose your last "vacation" spot for?
.. Who did you have your last s*xual experience for?

True consent is not about some nerdy system where I ask you before I make every move. "May I touch your leg? May I kiss your cheek?" That kind of asking sometimes makes my skin crawl.

True consent is knowing who it's for when you choose something. We might both agree to ... have a s*xual experience. But who is choosing how that goes down?

These days most people are having s*x - for the other person - meaning that my actions and choices are an attempt to serve you, to give you s*xual things that you want.

And when both parties in a s*xual experience (presuming only 2 parties) are GIVING to the other .... Who is that for?

It's not for you as you are serving them. It's not for them as they are busy serving you. ... So who is it for?

Honestly when this happens, which is most of what I hear about ... IT'S NOT FOR ANYONE. NOBODY'S DESIRE GETS TO EVEN ENTER THE ROOM. Everyone is so busy giving service to the other that no one gets EXACTLY what they want EXACTLY how they want it.

With the skill and capacity to be aware of your body and your inner desire and limits, plus the skill and capacity to use words simply but powerfully to get this stuff clear and harmonious .... YOU CAN ACTUALLY HAVE S*X, AND DO OTHER THINGS, WITH REAL, TRUE, DEEP, DESIRE SHOWING UP!!

WHAT IF you could have EXACTLY what you desire today? ❤️❤️❤️

What if you could give your partner and those around you EXACTLY what they want when it's time to give today?

This work begins with eating for YOU, then having s*xual experiences that you ACTUALLY DEEPLY DESIRE ... and ultimately it takes us to living an entire life of passionate purpose. You get to start LIVING FOR YOU. EXACTLY HOW YOU WANT TO LIVE.

Join us at the last weekend workshop of this year and let's learn how to do this, AND BE GENTLY GUIDED THROUGH ACTUAL PRACTICE (with clothes on) to literally re-train your body so that you can become an EXCELLENT AND POWERFUL GIVER, AND RECEIVER of ... experiences whether they are in the bedroom, the living room, or the board room.

Clean up your game and clarily why you and others are doing the things you are doing. Stop wasting time doing things for others that they actually don't want. Stop wasting your time doing things with others that actually nobody wants!

See you in November? ❤️
https://www.riverroaring.com/the-weekend-workshop

Yours always,
~ River Roaring

Official Wheel of Consent Weekend Workshop with River Roaring The Wheel of Consent Weekend Workshop presented by River Roaring in the beautiful city of Austin, Texas. The Holy Grail of Desire, Touch and Consent. Learn in person and practice the Wheel of Consent as developed by Dr. Betty Martin.

"The Wheel of Consent isn't just about touch. It's about transformation. And that's a revolution worth continuing. … Born not from corporate strategy but from lived experience, it has quietly become a global force for personal empowerment, deeper connection, and social change”.
~ The International Business Times

Wow the Wheel of Consent was recently featured in the International Business Times. 😃 Nice work, Betty! ❤️

What a ride it's been.

When I learned the Wheel of Consent from Dr. Betty Martin about 14 years ago in Austin (in an early Like A Pro workshop which had 3 other participants), it was the most incredible single tool that I had come across to get to know myself and others more deeply … including s*xually.

It was a revolution in the worlds of body work, s*x work, and human s*xuality.

It was a revolution in terms of consent, and consensual living. It highlighted the pervasiveness of the “rape culture” we live in.

It paved a path to freedom and integrity in s*xual experience.

Even now 14 years later, I don't know any other single modality or method that helps people of all varieties and experience levels access a life of embodied integrity and joy as potently and efficiently as the Wheel. I've seen hundreds of people go through incredible transformations in one weekend.

Once you know it, you can't unknow it.

At the same time, what the Wheel means to me has evolved a lot over the years.

Half of the Wheel of Consent is about coming into a deeper relationship with myself. … Knowing myself in a revolutionary new way.

The other half of the Wheel of Consent gives me radical clarity about how to come into deeper relationship with others - lovers, friends, family, acquaintances and co-workers.

Like peeling an onion, as I employ Wheel principles and practices, I see new layers of myself. Just three examples of how my relationship with the Wheel of Consent has changed over the years are:

• First, it opened up my sensual experience of myself and all of life. I changed into an embodied person. Someone who could feel, sensually, the world around me and … all my lovers!! My s*x life became rocket-powered because it was radically clarified using the Wheel.

• After that, it helped me bring interactions in all parts of my life into integrity, and I experienced the liberation that integrity and authenticity unlock. Workplace conversations became clear. All social interactions became a lot more clear. I noticed who things were for. I noticed when I was giving to others even though they … didn’t want what I was giving. I noticed when I was falling into victim and getting frustrated at the world for not giving me what I wanted - although I had never directly asked for what I wanted. The Wheel became a tool for all of my life.

• Most recently, I’ve been noticing the spiritual aspects. As I’ve opened my own multi-dimensional doors, I’ve enjoyed leaving my body and flying into the cosmos in different types of meditations. However, my spiritual life changed forever when I started experiencing the journeys in my body at the same time. The waking of my body, the noticing of physical sensation, the deep listening to the wisdom coming through my body - the Wheel of Consent give me helpful tools to support my intuitive development.

The Wheel is a new way of being in your body, it’s a retraining of the body, it’s a new way to experience the world.

In the Weekend Workshop, we learn new concepts, we practice what we learn, and we integrate the experiences.

Up level your capacity to co-create your own universe both inside and outside of the bedroom. 🌈 🌤️ 🤸🏼‍♀️

The Official Wheel of Consent Weekend Workshop
The Holy Grail of Desire, Touch and Consent
❤️ September 26-28
❤️ November 7-9

See lots of participant video reviews and grab your ticket here.
https://www.riverroaring.com/the-weekend-workshop

Come on out & join us!

Just DM me if you have a question.

Yours truly,
~ River 🧚🏼‍♀️

Official Wheel of Consent Weekend Workshop with River Roaring The Wheel of Consent Weekend Workshop presented by River Roaring in the beautiful city of Austin, Texas. The Holy Grail of Desire, Touch and Consent. Learn in person and practice the Wheel of Consent as developed by Dr. Betty Martin.

From numbness to "the most incredible rolling or**sm" in one weekend"? A beautiful soul who participated in our weekend workshop last month posted this. Does any part of his story resonate with you? ...

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"For years, I’ve been going through life engaged but numb. Numb to my body. Ignoring it. Betraying it. Discounting it.

Somewhere along the way, I learned that touch just wasn’t something I got. My childhood wasn’t “bad,” but it wasn’t full of affection either. My dad who would probably be considered high-functioning autistic today wasn’t touchy. My mom, born out of wedlock in 1929, had so many repressed feelings. There wasn’t much physical love to model after.

So I leaned on my brain. My thoughts, my plans—that was how I moved forward. I wasn’t good at sports or anything like that, so my body just became this life-support system for my head.

I even had this idea I’d live forever by getting my brain uploaded into a computer one day.

But the truth? I’ve been really depressed. Really repressed. That way of living worked for a while, but not well. Definitely not for my marriage (another story for another day).

I started unpacking all of this with a friend. Eventually, when I was probably driving them nuts, I found a therapist to keep unpacking with.

Then last weekend I did something totally out of character: I dropped $1,200 on a “woo-woo” weekend workshop in Austin.

And yeah, I know, it sounds so cliché

… but my mind was blown.

I’m actually feeling. Not numb.

I came back with this joy I can feel in my body. A sense of ownership over myself I’ve never had. A tenderness for me that I’d locked away decades ago. I feel like my feelings are waking up, maybe for the first time since I was five.

And now? The future doesn’t feel so repetitive, programmed, dull, or pointless anymore.

I’m not “fixed,” far from it. But River Roaring helped me reconnect with my body… and maybe even my soul.

I’ll hold River in my heart forever. Thank you, kind soul.

And to my friend who gave me the kick in the butt to start this? You have my eternal gratitude.

PS And I have something else to tell you…

I had the most incredible rolling or**sm this morning alone in bed. It felt like it went on for two minutes. Ripples of pure joy, I’m not kidding. A gift from the universe. I don’t think I’ve ever felt so aroused, loved, blissful, calm and connected in my life."

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Would you like to feel ripples of pure joy in your body?

That combination of "aroused, loved, blissful, calm and connected"?

Only two weekend workshops remain this year.

Up level your capacity to co-create your own universe both inside and outside of the bedroom! 🌈 🌤️ 🤸🏼‍♀️

The Official Wheel of Consent Weekend Workshop
The Holy Grail of Desire, Touch and Consent

❤️ September 26-28
❤️ November 7-9

See lots of participant video reviews and grab your ticket here.
https://www.riverroaring.com/the-weekend-workshop

Come on out & join us!

DM me if you have a question. 🧚🏼‍♀️

Official Wheel of Consent Weekend Workshop with River Roaring The Wheel of Consent Weekend Workshop presented by River Roaring in the beautiful city of Austin, Texas. The Holy Grail of Desire, Touch and Consent. Learn in person and practice the Wheel of Consent as developed by Dr. Betty Martin.

I hope you're creating a magnificent summer for yourself!!
.. and that you know how. ❤️

IMHO there are two main types of humans on earth right now:

- Group 1 = those who are on a path of understanding their power
- Group 2 = those who are not on a path of understanding their power

I’ve called these two groups by another name in the past as well:

- Group 1 = Creators
- Group 2 = Victims

Victims of the world around them,
Group 2 has no idea that they are a creator!
We are each creating EVERY single thing around us.
And until they become aware of this,
… they are victims of life and what it has to “dish out”.

Which group do you most identify with?
Are you excited about what you get to create today?
Or are you more concerned about what might
“happen” to you today?

Start with your first moment of awareness this morning
… which voice was most prominent?

If you read these emails,
you may guess what I will say next.

Who you are outside the bedroom is also
who you are inside the bedroom. 😊

Close your eyes and imagine for one moment
being with a lover in the bedroom
who knows they are a creator!
… How did that feel?

Now close your eyes and imagine for one moment
being with a lover in the bedroom
who is a victim of life.
… How does that feel?

To me, it feels so different that
I’m no longer willing to be intimate with someone
Who is a victim of life.
… It just isn’t fun.

Who wants to share their highest
most intimate and sacred self
with … a victim?
(Hint: others in the same vibration.)

My theory is that most folks in Group 2
simply do not know any better.
Ignorant in the innocent kind of way -
they have not come across this information.

For others, it seems too scary or too hard.

If you’re in Group 2 and you’re
wondering when the time will come
to start stepping into your power

✨✨ The time is NOW. ✨✨
The world is changing fast and
Group 1 will certainly be enjoying
a smoother ride.

Group 1 will actively create the future
even, and especially, as the world speeds up.

I've dedicated my life to support creators! 👩🏽‍🔧

If you’re in Group 1 and you are on this path
I warmly invite you into our weekend container
to radically up level your skills and capacities
as a creator of your universe.

An embodied creator.

If you're in Group 2, join us and enter an entirely new world.

In the weekend workshop you'll get to:
• Create a far deeper relationship with your body
• Hear and listen to your innate primordial wisdom
• Practice safely dancing with your obstacles
• Gently open to a pleasure- and desire-based life
• And best of all ….

Radically up level your capacity to co-create your universe both inside and outside of the bedroom! 🌈 🌤️ 🤸🏼‍♀️

… Would you like join us this weekend?

The Official Wheel of Consent Weekend Workshop
❤️ July 25-27 ❤️
- 2 seats now available -

See lots of participant video reviews and grab your ticket here.
https://www.riverroaring.com/the-weekend-workshop

Questions?

Let's hop on a call and see what's possible. 🥰

Yours truly,
~ River Roaring 🧚🏽‍♀️

Official Wheel of Consent Weekend Workshop with River Roaring The Wheel of Consent Weekend Workshop presented by River Roaring in the beautiful city of Austin, Texas. The Holy Grail of Desire, Touch and Consent. Learn in person and practice the Wheel of Consent as developed by Dr. Betty Martin.