07/10/2026
I’m sitting in the Delta Sky Club Delta Air Lines waiting for my delayed flight to Houston. I’m speaking tomorrow at Moments of Joy Moments of Joy Fest, an autism conference for parents.
Directly across from me is a dad traveling with his son on the spectrum.
As a BCBA, I can’t help but observe... just a little.
The little boy looks to be around 7 years old. Dad is working on his laptop. His son is happily watching something on his iPad, with a few stims here and there.
It’s quiet. It’s peaceful.
And for some reason, just being in their presence makes me smile.
Maybe it’s because the little boy looks happy and completely at ease.
Maybe it’s because Dad is attentive without looking anxious.
Or maybe it’s because I’ve traveled with families before, and I know what can go through a parent’s mind before they even step onto a plane.
“What if the flight is delayed?”
“What if he gets overwhelmed?”
“What if there’s a meltdown in the airport?”
“What will everyone think?”
I know those thoughts because I’ve walked alongside families carrying them.
So today, I’m simply grateful to witness a father and his son traveling together in peace.
As I sit here making final edits to tomorrow’s presentation, I just want to say this:
To every autism mom and dad who has packed the bags, navigated TSA, boarded the plane, anticipated every possible scenario, and still chose to make memories with your child…I see you.
Your courage is often invisible to everyone else, but it isn’t invisible to me.
Safe travels. You’re doing better than you think!
