08/11/2026
Both/And in Teaching
Teaching can be so rewarding, and it can also be incredibly tiring. Both can be true at the same time.
For me to say otherwise would be an understatement.
I absolutely love what I do. I love creating lesson plans on a quiet Saturday morning with my coffee in hand. āļø I love learning and reading about teaching, coaching, and leading because I genuinely want to become better at my craft.
I enjoy talking with other educators about whatās working, what isnāt, what our students need, and what we can adjust. I love those moments when a lesson comes together, a student has that āahaā moment, or a child begins to see themselves differently as a reader, writer, or learner.
Andā¦
What exhausts me is the system.
I grow weary of how fast we are expected to move. The never-ending list of things to accomplish. The feeling that there is never quite enough time in the day to do all the things we know matter. And, if Iām being completely honest, there is also the weight of knowing that I am preparing my fifth graders for their next levelāmiddle school.
That responsibility is not lost on me. I want to prepare them academically, but I also want to prepare them to advocate for themselves, navigate relationships, think critically, ask questions, take risks, and believe in who they are.
So, yesā¦
I love teaching AND teaching can exhaust me. I can be grateful for this profession AND frustrated by the systems surrounding it.
I can love my students AND recognize that I need boundaries.
I can be deeply committed to my craft AND need rest.
I can celebrate the beautiful moments AND acknowledge the hard ones.
This is the both/and of teaching.
And maybe we need to stop forcing educators to choose between āI love my jobā and āThis is hard.ā
Because sometimes the most honest answer is:
I love what I do.
And Iām tired.
Both can be true. š