03/17/2023
Trust me, I know how exhausting it is to constantly try to motivate, encourage, & support these unhappy dudes just to get nothing in return. Sit back & truly think about how this man has poured into you. 🤔
When I reflect myself, I simply just stayed too long. Tons of emotional labor, acts of service, etc. and guess what….the exes still out here miserable just draining someone else instead of me. No amount of performing will make them happy because happiness is an inside job. Read that again.
He’s an entire energy vampire and you can’t even see it, I’ve been there. You wake up happy every day & he wakes up grouchy and miserable. Every day you’re trying to push him uphill just for him to fall right back down & you gotta encourage him the next day all over again. It’s tiring, draining, and truly pointless.
He needs to vent, he needs soothing, he needs career advice. Men are needier than women & it’s time to stop pretending they’re not. And if they’re insecure & have low-esteem…the minute you’re not soothing their ego, they’re off to the next woman who will. True energy vampires & not one of these vampires will admit it. Zero self awareness. (This also includes unevolved Sagittarius men who fake being happy until they’re comfortable then emotionally unload day in & day out.)
Take a break from these unhappy ppl and go create instead. Whatever has been heavy on your mind, go do that. The Universe pushed these ppl outta your life because they were adding no value & distracting you from your purpose. This applies to Sagittarius men with energy vampire women too. Cut ‘em loose & get back to YOU.
