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Gary Craig โ€“ EFT Manual โ€“ Emofree.comGary Craig was the creator of EFT, Emotional Freedom Techniques (retired). He has r...
01/16/2026

Gary Craig โ€“ EFT Manual โ€“ Emofree.com

Gary Craig was the creator of EFT, Emotional Freedom Techniques (retired). He has released EFT to the public domain, and now experts around the world continue to move it forward.

Gary Craig was the creator of EFT, Emotional Freedom Techniques (retired). He has released EFT to the public domain, and now experts around the world continue to move it forward.

๐—œ๐—บ๐—ฝ๐—ฟ๐—ผ๐˜ƒ๐—ถ๐˜€๐—ถ๐—ป๐—ด ๐—ฎ๐—ป๐—ฑ ๐—จ๐—ป๐—ฐ๐—ฒ๐—ฟ๐˜๐—ฎ๐—ถ๐—ป๐˜๐˜† - ๐—ช๐—ผ๐—ฟ๐—ธ๐˜€๐—ต๐—ผ๐—ฝhttps://www.thrivingnow.center/t/1556Our primitive brain craves certainty. And thi...
01/05/2026

๐—œ๐—บ๐—ฝ๐—ฟ๐—ผ๐˜ƒ๐—ถ๐˜€๐—ถ๐—ป๐—ด ๐—ฎ๐—ป๐—ฑ ๐—จ๐—ป๐—ฐ๐—ฒ๐—ฟ๐˜๐—ฎ๐—ถ๐—ป๐˜๐˜† - ๐—ช๐—ผ๐—ฟ๐—ธ๐˜€๐—ต๐—ผ๐—ฝ
https://www.thrivingnow.center/t/1556

Our primitive brain craves certainty. And this can lead us into a desperate search for how to control the outcome, plan for ALL the possible unexpecteds... and even feel anxious that there is "not enough" (and we're "not enough") โ€” even though we actually are.

Improvising is the skill of being responsive in the Now to What Is. It frees us not to have to know (or delude ourselves that we have certainty) what the future holds specifically. We get to be in it, with it, and go with the flow โ€” but not like a leaf on a stream but rather as a powerful participant. Co-Creating.

If you look at the kid in the image, you see a human making something interesting out of a MESS. Speaking from painful experience, sometimes the mess of life offers moments of deep focus, growth, and heartistry that times of ease do not call forth.

We certainly would never wish a mess on a person or community, but we do embrace that heart-centered improvisation can lead to surprising moments of delight and long term thriving. We hope you'll join us for this exploration together.

Real Skills Workshop - Community Event Improvising and Uncertainty Real Skills Workshop: Energy Savvy Hosts: Rick Wilkes () and Cathy Vartuli () Sun Jan 11 2026 at 5pm EST / 2pm PST (90 mins with a 7 min break) We hope youโ€™ll join us, and bring a guest! ๐Ÿ‘‰ Click Here to Register You a...

๐—š๐—ฟ๐—ฎ๐˜๐—ถ๐˜๐˜‚๐—ฑ๐—ฒ ๐—ฆ๐—ฐ๐—ถ๐—ฒ๐—ป๐—ฐ๐—ฒ ๐—˜๐˜…๐—ฝ๐—ฒ๐—ฟ๐—ถ๐—บ๐—ฒ๐—ป๐˜๐˜€ - ๐—ช๐—ผ๐—ฟ๐—ธ๐˜€๐—ต๐—ผ๐—ฝ ๐—ฆ๐˜‚๐—ป๐—ฑ๐—ฎ๐˜† ๐——๐—ฒ๐—ฐ ๐Ÿญ๐Ÿฐhttps://www.thrivingnow.center/t/1549Gratitude is, for me, is a cu...
12/09/2025

๐—š๐—ฟ๐—ฎ๐˜๐—ถ๐˜๐˜‚๐—ฑ๐—ฒ ๐—ฆ๐—ฐ๐—ถ๐—ฒ๐—ป๐—ฐ๐—ฒ ๐—˜๐˜…๐—ฝ๐—ฒ๐—ฟ๐—ถ๐—บ๐—ฒ๐—ป๐˜๐˜€ - ๐—ช๐—ผ๐—ฟ๐—ธ๐˜€๐—ต๐—ผ๐—ฝ ๐—ฆ๐˜‚๐—ป๐—ฑ๐—ฎ๐˜† ๐——๐—ฒ๐—ฐ ๐Ÿญ๐Ÿฐ
https://www.thrivingnow.center/t/1549

Gratitude is, for me, is a curious stance. It's a daily โ€œletโ€™s see whatโ€™s really alive hereโ€ experiment where I notice simple uplifts and explore how they land in my body.

Iโ€™m not trying to force a mood or prove any hypothesis. Iโ€™m calibrating attention like a friendly scientist, observing small moments, jotting a note, and checking in later to see how recalling moments of gratitude changes my felt sense of the day.

When approached this wayโ€”light, honest, repeatableโ€”gratitude becomes less performance and more tuning and recalibrating, a reliable way to carry real goodness forward.

And yes, Gratitude has traditional science behind it, too.

Real Skills Workshop - Community Event Gratitude Science Experiments Real Skills Workshop: Energy Savvy Hosts: Rick Wilkes () and Cathy Vartuli () Sun Dec 14 2025 at 5pm EST / 2pm PST (90 mins with a 7 min break) We hope youโ€™ll join us, and bring a guest! ๐Ÿ‘‰ Click Here to Register You...

๐—–๐—ผ๐˜‚๐—ฟ๐—ฎ๐—ด๐—ฒ ๐—ถ๐˜€ ๐—ฅ๐—ฒ๐—น๐—ฎ๐˜๐—ถ๐—ผ๐—ป๐—ฎ๐—น - ๐—ฅ๐—ฒ๐—ฎ๐—น ๐—ฆ๐—ธ๐—ถ๐—น๐—น๐˜€ ๐—ช๐—ผ๐—ฟ๐—ธ๐˜€๐—ต๐—ผ๐—ฝhttps://www.thrivingnow.center/t/1548Join us Tue Nov 11 2025 at 830pm EST / ...
11/05/2025

๐—–๐—ผ๐˜‚๐—ฟ๐—ฎ๐—ด๐—ฒ ๐—ถ๐˜€ ๐—ฅ๐—ฒ๐—น๐—ฎ๐˜๐—ถ๐—ผ๐—ป๐—ฎ๐—น - ๐—ฅ๐—ฒ๐—ฎ๐—น ๐—ฆ๐—ธ๐—ถ๐—น๐—น๐˜€ ๐—ช๐—ผ๐—ฟ๐—ธ๐˜€๐—ต๐—ผ๐—ฝ
https://www.thrivingnow.center/t/1548

Join us Tue Nov 11 2025 at 830pm EST / 530pm PST

We look at others and think they have courage figured outโ€”while we sometimes freeze, hide, or doubt ourselves. But the truth is:

Courage isnโ€™t a fixed quality. Itโ€™s relational.

Real Skills Workshop - Community Event Courage is Relational Real Skills Workshop: Savvy Relating & Engaging Hosts: Rick Wilkes () and Cathy Vartuli () Tue Nov 11 2025 at 830pm EST / 530pm PST (90 mins with a 7 min break) We hope youโ€™ll join us, and bring a guest! ๐Ÿ‘‰ Click Here to Reg...

Starting to use a selection of the savewisdom.org 1000 questions to load more personal perspectives into my  - I already...
10/19/2025

Starting to use a selection of the savewisdom.org 1000 questions to load more personal perspectives into my - I already have 2M "professional" words in there. Now, I am using reflection questions to even more deeply reflect where I've come from and how I see/sense/explore and grow.

Question 7 is How did you cope as a child?

Explore this with my digital mind here:

https://www.thrivingnow.com/ask/How%20did%20you%20cope%20as%20a%20child

Save Wisdom. Declaration of Mission At the heart of our existence lies something truly extraordinaryโ€”wisdom. It is the essence of who we are as individuals, the culmination of our experiences, our triumphs, and our lessons learned. The Save Wisdom Project at SaveWisdom.org is more than an organiza...

๐—ฆ๐—ต๐—ฎ๐—บ๐—ฒ ๐—ฎ๐˜€ ๐—ฎ ๐—™๐—ถ๐—ฟ๐—ฒ ๐—•๐—น๐—ฎ๐—ป๐—ธ๐—ฒ๐˜https://www.thrivingnow.center/t/shame-as-a-fire-blanket/1544When life gets hot, we throw a blank...
10/17/2025

๐—ฆ๐—ต๐—ฎ๐—บ๐—ฒ ๐—ฎ๐˜€ ๐—ฎ ๐—™๐—ถ๐—ฟ๐—ฒ ๐—•๐—น๐—ฎ๐—ป๐—ธ๐—ฒ๐˜
https://www.thrivingnow.center/t/shame-as-a-fire-blanket/1544

When life gets hot, we throw a blanket of shame over our rising energy. It worksโ€”until it smothers who we are...

Shame as a Fire Blanket They dropped the blanket, the fire hushed. Suppression is useful. Therefore, shame is useful. I saw a demo: an electric car catches fire; firefighters whip out a huge blanket, cover the car, and the flames go quiet. But donโ€™t pull it off too soon! Leave it, and what would h...

๐—ฆ๐˜๐—ถ๐—น๐—น๐—ฝ๐—ผ๐—ถ๐—ป๐˜๐˜€ ๐—ผ๐—ณ ๐—–๐—ผ๐—ป๐˜๐—ฒ๐—ป๐˜๐—บ๐—ฒ๐—ป๐˜https://www.thrivingnow.center/t/stillpoints-of-contentment/1543If I allow a moment of content...
10/14/2025

๐—ฆ๐˜๐—ถ๐—น๐—น๐—ฝ๐—ผ๐—ถ๐—ป๐˜๐˜€ ๐—ผ๐—ณ ๐—–๐—ผ๐—ป๐˜๐—ฒ๐—ป๐˜๐—บ๐—ฒ๐—ป๐˜
https://www.thrivingnow.center/t/stillpoints-of-contentment/1543

If I allow a moment of contentment, even just a blink or two, I can move forward from a place of "replenished inner smile."

No, not ๐˜ค๐˜ฐ๐˜ฏ๐˜ด๐˜ต๐˜ข๐˜ฏ๐˜ต๐˜ญ๐˜บ content or smiling. ๐—ฆ๐˜‚๐—ณ๐—ณ๐—ถ๐—ฐ๐—ถ๐—ฒ๐—ป๐˜๐—น๐˜†. Good and sufficient contentment.

Stillpoints of Contentment I was taught in school that the opposite of discontent is contentment. But energetically theyโ€™re not โ€œopposites.โ€ If Iโ€™m discontented with my life, thereโ€™s an energy of resistance. I donโ€™t accept what is, and I push away any feelings of contentment that are act...

๐—•๐—ฒ๐—ถ๐—ป๐—ด ๐—ฃ๐—ฟ๐—ฒ๐˜€๐—ฒ๐—ป๐˜... ๐—ก๐—ผ๐˜„ - Workshop Recordinghttps://www.thrivingnow.center/t/1523/4We covered...1. Cultivate Presence as a ...
10/13/2025

๐—•๐—ฒ๐—ถ๐—ป๐—ด ๐—ฃ๐—ฟ๐—ฒ๐˜€๐—ฒ๐—ป๐˜... ๐—ก๐—ผ๐˜„ - Workshop Recording
https://www.thrivingnow.center/t/1523/4

We covered...

1. Cultivate Presence as a Real Skill
Presence isnโ€™t just a nice conceptโ€”itโ€™s a capacity we build together for our thriving life. In any moment, our energy is alive within us and around us. Practicing being present right now, with gentle skill, is a key ingredient for real satisfaction and connection.

2. Recognize Our Social Conditioning
Most of us didnโ€™t get taught presence. Society often teaches avoidanceโ€”medicating, distracting, fleeing discomfort. Our work is to gently notice this conditioning and invite ourselves to stay with what is, letting presence become familiar and nourishing.

3. Honor the Dance with Discomfort
Discomfort and strong feelings donโ€™t mean somethingโ€™s wrong. When we try to escape them, we miss the richness of now. Instead, we can build our โ€œmusclesโ€ for safely feeling discomfort, knowing we donโ€™t have to wallow in painโ€”just acknowledge it.

4. Your Primitive Brain Gets First Crack
We all have a primitive, protective wiring and itโ€™s normal. Noticing that our primitive brain wants us to escape, distract, or โ€œfixโ€ things lets us practice the real skill of โ€œwhat else?โ€โ€”being present beyond just the first reaction.

5. Embrace โ€˜Donโ€™t Have Toโ€™ Freedom
Thereโ€™s beauty in realizing, โ€œI donโ€™t have to do anything about this feeling right now.โ€ Even a few moments of freedom create space. Pause and notice what youโ€™re actually free from in this very moment.

6. Practice and Grow New Neural Pathways
Presence grows as we return again and again. Weโ€™re reminded: every pause, every gentle check-in, is laying down new pathways. The practice may start awkward, but becomes easier and richer over time.

7. Feelings as Indicator Lights
What we feel (โ€œguilt,โ€ โ€œshame,โ€ โ€œanxietyโ€) are often pointers to underlying wants, needs, or fears. Instead of shaming ourselves for feeling, get curious. Invite in the messageโ€”the underlying wisdomโ€”each feeling carries.

8. Welcome Uncertainty (Even If Itโ€™s Hard!)
Uncertainty can trigger our primitive brain. Weโ€™re wired to want certainty, but real growth lies in being with โ€œnot-knowingโ€ without rushing to judge or fix. Practice sitting with little uncertainties and watch your wisdom grow.

9. Separate Thoughts from Feelings
Judgments like โ€œIโ€™m not enoughโ€ or โ€œIโ€™m not capableโ€ are thoughts, not feelings. Notice when youโ€™re labeling or judging instead of feeling. As we distinguish the two, we can honor feelings and gently release self-blame.

10. Micro-Practices for Presence
Everyday actsโ€”eating, showering, breathingโ€”hold hidden treasures when we show up fully for them. Try feeling your feet on the ground and hand on your heart. Notice small moments and sensations. These micro-practices shift energy and open more presence.

11. Gentle Progress, Not Perfection
Building presence isnโ€™t about always doing it โ€œright.โ€ We celebrate every moment noticed, every feeling welcomed. If you reach out for support, invite your inner child or shelved feelings, or just breathe with discomfort, youโ€™re moving towards thriving. The path is gentle, personal, and powerful.

Being Presentโ€ฆ Now โ€“ Session Replay ๐Ÿ‘‰ Get your Circle Membership Here Orโ€ฆ Donate $$ to support this community initiative โ€“ We so appreciate your generosity! Thanks! We welcome your insights, ah-haโ€™s, and sharing. Please! Click [Reply] We coveredโ€ฆ Cultivate Presence as a Real Skill Pre...

๐—ฃ๐—ฟ๐—ฒ๐˜€๐—ฒ๐—ป๐—ฐ๐—ฒ ๐—ถ๐—ป ๐— ๐—ผ๐˜๐—ถ๐—ผ๐—ป"The next yes seemed to arise and we went with it..."
10/12/2025

๐—ฃ๐—ฟ๐—ฒ๐˜€๐—ฒ๐—ป๐—ฐ๐—ฒ ๐—ถ๐—ป ๐— ๐—ผ๐˜๐—ถ๐—ผ๐—ป

"The next yes seemed to arise and we went with it..."

Presence in Motion I remember vividly the experience of dancing with a professional dancer. Youโ€™d think that someone who made a living performing would project a lot of energy outward, toward the audience and those in the space. That was not my experience of her at all. She was so present in the d...

๐—•๐—ฒ๐—ถ๐—ป๐—ด ๐—ฃ๐—ฟ๐—ฒ๐˜€๐—ฒ๐—ป๐˜... ๐—ก๐—ผ๐˜„ - ๐—ช๐—ผ๐—ฟ๐—ธ๐˜€๐—ต๐—ผ๐—ฝ on Sun Oct 12 2025 at 5pm EDT / 2pm PDThttps://www.thrivingnow.center/t/1523โ€œPresent!โ€ -...
10/09/2025

๐—•๐—ฒ๐—ถ๐—ป๐—ด ๐—ฃ๐—ฟ๐—ฒ๐˜€๐—ฒ๐—ป๐˜... ๐—ก๐—ผ๐˜„ - ๐—ช๐—ผ๐—ฟ๐—ธ๐˜€๐—ต๐—ผ๐—ฝ on Sun Oct 12 2025 at 5pm EDT / 2pm PDT
https://www.thrivingnow.center/t/1523

โ€œPresent!โ€ - Being a good boy, I listened with just enough attention to hear my name called and answer the teacher.

But looking back and feeling into my school childhood, I wasnโ€™t all that Present. I was in my head, often daydreaming (or worrying about what would be on the test so I could get an โ€œAโ€).

At recess as the years passed I felt less and less safe, more vigilant than Present and Embodied in my climbing, kicking, and running.

Being Present was not part of my growing-up vocabulary. When Presence happened, it happened by accident. No ones fault here. Itโ€™s just the cultural focus was different.

For me that was (almost) deadly. I discovered through chronic dis-ease that without Presence my body goes awry. Without being truly Present, thereโ€™s no such thing as quality time together and healing touch.

These were Presencing Skills that were essential for me to learn. As a student-teacher at heart, I continue to learn them and share them, and explore themโ€ฆ and perhaps you would enjoy the same?

Cathy and I will be exploring this together on Sunday. We hope youโ€™ll join us if thatโ€™s your Yes.

Real Skills Workshop - Community Event Being Presentโ€ฆ Now Real Skills Workshop: Energy Savvy Hosts: Rick Wilkes () and Cathy Vartuli () Sun Oct 12 2025 at 5pm EDT / 2pm PDT (90 mins with a 7 min break) We hope youโ€™ll join us, and bring a guest! ๐Ÿ‘‰ Click Here to Register You are welc...

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