The True Meaning of Memorial Day

The True Meaning of Memorial Day Spreading awareness and educating America on The True Meaning of Memorial Day. The observance occurs every year on the last Monday of May.

🇺🇸 Memorial Day is a federal holiday in the United States reserved as a day of remembrance for those American Service Members who gave the ultimate sacrifice and died in service to our country. However, in the past, this special day of remembrance was previously observed on May 30th from the years 1868-1971. Observing a moment of silence at 3 pm on Memorial Day is recommended. Many people visit cemeteries and memorials to honor those who have died in military service. Many volunteers place an American flag on each grave in national cemeteries. 🇺🇸 ❣️

Unfortunately, through the years, many Americans lost sight of The True Meaning of Memorial Day. We hope to bring education and awareness to the importance of this observance and the service members honored by this day. Some things we hope to remind Americans of:

▪️ Memorial Day is different than Veterans Day, and Armed Forces Day
‎‎ ‎‎ ‎‎ 🇺🇸 Armed Forces Day honors veterans who are currently serving
‎‎ ‎‎ ‎‎🇺🇸 Memorial Day is a day of remembering the men and women who DIED while serving
‎‎ ‎‎ ‎‎🇺🇸 Veterans Day celebrates the service of ALL U.S. military veterans
‎‎ ‎‎ ‎‎🇺🇸 Independence Day is observed on July 4th to celebrate the Declaration of Independence by the United States from the Kingdom of Great Britain (now the United Kingdom) in 1776

▪️ “Happy Memorial Day” is rather insensitive
This day is far from a happy occasion for those who have lost a loved one to war. Having fun is still okay, but please be mindful that wishing someone a meaningful or reverent Memorial Day is a better sentiment and helps remind people that the weekend has a purpose.

▪️ Memorial Day Thank-You’s for LIVING Vets are inappropriate
Memorial Day is the ONE day of the year, set aside to remember our FALLEN heroes. PLEASE, avoid THANKING living vets on Memorial Day. We know folks mean well, and we appreciate the underlying thought, but observing the day in the intended manner is a much better way to honor and respect our fallen and their families

▪️Using Memorial Day as an excuse for corporate sales is inappropriate
Tying a sale to Memorial Day is always disrespectful. We hope Americans reconsider supporting businesses who disrespect our fallen and their families by hosting “Memorial Day Sales.”

If one sees a company that is getting The True Meaning of Memorial Day wrong — please document the nature of the offense, along with the business name and information and send this information to us, or help the business understand in one’s own words how wrong this is

Why are sales inappropriate? Corporate America has played a large part in replacing reverence with shopping and partying and fireworks and all sorts of ideas that run counter to the True Meaning of Memorial Day. Commercializing any observance without proper respect to fallen heroes is discourteous. We all must do our best through education and gentle corrections to turn back the tide of misinformation perpetuated by businesses, media entities, and ill-informed individuals.

❣️ You can help us pass the word and spread awareness by liking this PAGE and sharing with other patriots. 😊 🇺🇸

Please help us to help others in remembering what Memorial Day is all about and re-educating well-meaning but thoughtless Americans and American Corporations on the importance of this precious remembrance. We must get Memorial Day right to honor our fallen heroes and their families in an appropriate manner. 💗

What can you do?
▪️Educate yourself and others, especially children. Teach them what Memorial Day is about and why treating the day with a touch of reverence is so essential.

▪️Look for resources such as this site and others.

▪️Help others to learn by directing them to pages like The True Meaning of Memorial Day. Liking, tagging, commenting, sharing content from the page helps focus the educational effort as well.

▪️Most importantly, remember our heroes and their families, especially on Memorial Day.





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▪️New: https://thetruemeaning.org/
▪️Old: http://www.TMoMD.wordpress.com

ABOUT TMOMD:
We started this site in 2014 after noticing how many people failed to observe Memorial Day properly. This site is run entirely off volunteer efforts, and we gathered our staff mainly from Veterans, Gold Star Family Members, and Military Families. We do our best to answer questions and provide resources. We appreciate your interest! ❤️ 🇺🇸

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07/04/2025

🇺🇸 We wish everyone a safe and enjoyable weekend as we pause to remember the significance of this patriotic holiday! 🇺🇸


🇺🇸 🇺🇸 treat all glory with respect!
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🇺🇸 🇺🇸 treat all glory with respect!

🇺🇸 Happy Independence Day! 🇺🇸

Make sure to understand and follow the proper ways to handle and display Old Glory by checking out our website for The True Meaning of Memorial Day:
https://thetruemeaning.org/resources/flag-displays/

Public Law 94-344, known as the Federal Flag Code, contains rules for handling and displaying the U.S. flag. While the federal code avoids prescribing penalties for misusing the flag, individual states also have specific flag codes and may impose penalties for misuse. The language of the Federal Flag Code clearly defines the flag as a living symbol.




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Beautiful tribute to the father of DUSTOFF. 61 years ago today we gained another Gold Star family and we sure wish the...
07/02/2025

Beautiful tribute to the father of DUSTOFF. 61 years ago today we gained another Gold Star family and we sure wish they could have had their hero dad instead.

God bless. 🇺🇸

DUSTOFF! Sound off! 1 July 1964 — Sixty-one years ago today, Major Charles L. Kelly Sr., a pioneer of Army aeromedical evacuation, was killed in action in Vietnam. He died the way he lived — flying into danger to save lives.

Known as the “Father of DUSTOFF,” MAJ Kelly helped define the role of the dedicated MEDEVAC helicopter pilot. His unwavering commitment to the wounded was matched only by his courage in the face of enemy fire.

Although MAJ Kelly's patriotism started much earlier.

Kelly, Sr. was born 100 years ago on 10 Apr 1925 in Wadley, Georgia to Ruth Amelia Moore and Charlton Kelly, who was of Irish descent. Ironically, Charlton died when his son, Charles, was only six years old. Ruth never remarried. Charles and his two younger brothers were raised in Sylvania, Georgia.

During the time of WWII, like many young men, he dropped out of high school and lied about his age to enlist in the Army at the ripe old age of 15! 🤩 Charles was trained as a medic, but serving as an infantryman in October 1944, he was severely wounded by an artillery shell fragment during the battle for Aachen, Germany

Undoubtedly, his fateful injury colored his thoughts on caring for wounded service members. Charles Kelly wasn't released from care until midway through 1945.

Perhaps a bit surprisingly, Charles returned to high school in his hometown and received his diploma in 1947. He must have been about the age of 22 by then, and he graduated as the class President.

As Charles continued his studies, he also started a family. He married Jessie Hillis, also of Sylvania. They had one son, Charles, Jr., and two daughters, Carol and Barbara.

Charles went on to obtain his Master's degree as well. Shortly thereafter, he returned to active duty military service as a 2LT in the Medical Service Corps.

In Vietnam, he was the commander of the 57th Medical Detachment (Helicopter Ambulance) in Soc Trang, Vietnam. There he was nicknamed "Madman Kelly' because he had flown so many missions and refused to take a day off or even have a beer.

He was on his way to pick up a wounded SF Soldier at an ARVN unit situated near Vinh Long. The hot LZ was under attack by the Viet Cong. MAJ Kelly was cautioned by an American advisor who was with the nearby ground troops that he should leave the area.

His now-legendary reply was: “When I have your wounded.”

Seconds later, he was shot and killed when a bullet whizzed through the open cargo door and penetrated his heart. He slumped over the controls, already deceased, as the Huey entered the crash sequence. The other crew members were wounded, but lived.

MAJ Kelly was the 149th American to die in Vietnam. However, his final mission is a lasting testament to everything Army Aviation aspires to be: selfless, fearless, and utterly devoted to the soldier on the ground.

Kelly flew unarmed UH-1 “Hueys” into hot landing zones, often against orders, guided by a moral compass stronger than existing military practices. He completed over 180 DUSTOFF missions in a matter of months. His sacrifice solidified the ethos that “no soldier will die waiting for evacuation.”

Not only that, but he transformed the way that we fly today. The day after Charles' death, an officer tossed the bullet that killed MAJ Kelly on his desk in front of his successor at the 57th, (then) CPT Patrick Henry Brady. The officer asked if they were going to stop flying so aggressively. Brady picked up the bullet and replied, "We are going to keep flying exactly the way Kelly taught us to fly, without hesitation, anytime, anywhere."

Today, MAJ Kelly's legacy lives on:
🏥 Every MEDEVAC pilot who lifts off under fire
🎖 Every Service Member pulled from harm’s way
🚁 Every DUSTOFF call answered.

Named in his honor are Fort Rucker's Kelly Hall (which so many of us have passed through) and Fort Sam Houston’s Kelly Army Heliport at Fort Sam Houston (officially designated on General Order No. 24 dated 28 February 1967).

There are also several tributes to MAJ Kelly in his home state of Georgia, as well, and appropriately, Kelly was the first inductee into the Dustoff Association Hall of Fame on 17 February 2001.

But the real honor is in every life saved by those who follow his example. His indelible legacy lives on through his family and the thousands of flight students who pass through the hall named in honor of this great hero.

Our thoughts remain with his brave family, who've lived a lifetime without their hero, but we like to think those we love never leave us.

Rest in peace, MAJ Kelly. Thank you for setting the gold standard of Army Aviation and MEDEVAC.

A couple of Post Scripts:
1) Thanks to our fellow MHC admin who reminded us that today is the day. We understand that previously, MAJ Kelly's son, Charles, Jr., along with MG Patrick Brady, placed a marker at the coordinates near Vinh Long, Vietnam, where MAJ Charles Kelly gave his last full measure — 61 years ago today.

2) Also, we were curious when Kelly Hall was named. Anyone know? It’s possible the naming occurred around the same period as the heliport dedication—circa 1967. Undoubtedly, at least 100K+ Aviators have passed through the gates of Mother Rucker, since Kellly Hall was named, thereby acknowledging the unselfish sacrifices made by this hero. Inside the hall, there is a nice tribute to Maj Kelly, and there is a plaque on the outside.

3) MAJ Kelly's son, Charles L. Kelly, Jr., narrated a documentary, “When I Have Your Wounded: The Dustoff Legacy.”

4) As always, we did our best to check facts, but we were behind the power curve today. If there are any inaccuracies, we will be happy to edit.

Sources in the comments. 👇

57 MED DET
Huey tail number: #63-08591

🇺🇸 Wishing everyone a very meaningful memorial day.
05/26/2025

🇺🇸 Wishing everyone a very meaningful memorial day.

🇺🇸❤️🇺🇸 On Memorial Day we take a moment to reflect on the sacrifice of those who died in service to our country, and their family members (known as Gold Star Families)

Rest in Peace Heroes — We appreciate your sacrifice! We Remember ... ❤️🇺🇸

However, "many Americans have become so oblivious through the years that they have seemingly forgotten The True Meaning of Memorial Day (TMOMD)."

"This fog of forgetfulness is understandable, really. Blissful confusion has slowly settled in over the years, which has resulted in misguided attitudes towards Memorial Day."

"But There are Dangers When We Fail to Remember ..."
From "Lest We Forget" – Read the rest here:
https://thetruemeaning.org/lest-we-forget/







🇺🇸 We wish each of you a very meaningful Memorial Day. 🇺🇸 if there is someone you would like to remember please feel fre...
05/24/2025

🇺🇸 We wish each of you a very meaningful Memorial Day. 🇺🇸 if there is someone you would like to remember please feel free to shаrе in the comments

If you’re in need of Memorial Day posts, check our photos or search our page. We have plenty to go around.

And we’ve been preaching to the choir for a while now, but if you find someone who needs a reminder of The True Meaning of Memorial Day please feel free to gently point them to our page.

🇺🇸 Wishing a very happy Veterans Day to our treasured veterans! 🫡 Thank you for your service and sacrifice on behalf of ...
11/11/2024

🇺🇸 Wishing a very happy Veterans Day to our treasured veterans! 🫡

Thank you for your service and sacrifice on behalf of our country!



Tell the younger generations about this painful day, so they will know. 💯
09/11/2024

Tell the younger generations about this painful day, so they will know. 💯

🇺🇸 May We Always Remember the of this Memorable Day ... United We Stand! We pray for all of those affected by the 9/11 tragedy through the years, on the anniversary of the attacks.

May we continue to be United and blessed as a Nation!

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