07/15/2026
SHOUT OUT to all my teacher friends and fellow educators!! Many of us have realized that yesterday started our three-week countdown to reporting for duty. While I won’t be reporting to an actual building or system, my whole body knows when school is getting ready to start. I suspect that is the case for many of you, too. You know .. feeling more rushed like time is slipping through your fingers like sand, having more thoughts flying through your brain than you can possibly keep up with, feeling like you have 10,000 projects going on all at once, feeling completely wiped out trying to stay present and in the moment with your family while also trying to choose paint colors and bulletin board paper for your classroom, trying to write a year’s worth of curriculum because this is the year you’re going to be on your A-game while also trying to clean every closet in your house before school starts, and now that school is really right around the corner, you have to get your own kiddos ready on top of everything else. You may feel on edge, and super cranky. You’re already starting to lose sleep or snack more because you feel the weight of everything you’re about to be carrying. Every day left of summer break feels both precious and dreadful all at the same time, knowing that the school bell is about to be ringing again.
Somehow, despite all this pressure, we’re still super excited for the magic about to go down in our classroom. We are envisioning our students having the best day in class, fully engaged in our lesson with no disruptions. We are praying that God gives us eyes to see the student that needs to be seen, ears to hear the student who needs to be heard, and help us be a light of love to all of our students. We’re praying for our school and co-workers, that the days go smoothly and that it will be a safe and drama-free year. Despite what we, ourselves, are going through, our heart is for our students above all else. No matter what we have to go through, our classroom and we will be ready for the BEST school year ever.
Somehow, someway, teachers get it done. And that is why I’m writing today: to remind us that we don’t have to completely run ourselves into the ground to get it done. The most important thing that you get done this school year is getting you done. Taking care of the person standing behind that classroom door or computer screen. If I could go back 26 years ago when I walked into my very first classroom at Franklinton High School and look my 23-year-old self in the eye, I’d tell her that you being you is enough because it is you who makes the difference. If I could look all of you in the eye, I’d tell you that you being you is enough because it is you who makes the difference. Your heart, your love, your personality, your light, your passion, your mind, your compassion, your kindness, your smile, your story, your testimony. What you have on the inside of you cannot be taught in a workshop or read from a book. You’re amazing, and you’re someone’s hero out there.
So, teacher to teacher, I’m just saying remember to put you first this school year. (gasp! from the audience lol) No, I really mean it. If you are not taking care of you, then who is? You spend so much time, thought and energy into taking care of others, your own needs start slipping to the back burner. Before you know it, it’s October and you’re completely exhausted and dreading the approaching holidays because it’s just so many more things added to your already overloaded plate. To do that, you’re going to have to establish some non-negotiables for yourself before the school year kicks off.
So, sit down while you still have a chance and decide what fills your cup. What are your things? How do you fill your cup? How do you take care of yourself? I know that’s such a cutesy statement buzzing around, but it’s true. Filling your cup simply means doing the things that bring you joy, peace, rest, happiness … heavy on the rest part … because as teachers, we don’t feel like we’re able to even look at that word until next May when the school year ends. Nahhhh, there is a better way to live than that y’all, and it starts with putting your foot down and drawing a line in the sand that says I will not let anyone or anything come between me and ____. For me, some of my non-negotiables are journaling & quiet time with God in the morning, watching the sunset on an afternoon walk, laying in the hammock to stargaze and feel the wonder of God, playing with my grandbabies, cooking for my family, a good ole’ house reset.
If you don’t know how to replenish your soul, now’s the time to get still and name the things that really help you feel recentered and breathe life back into you. It’s important to do at least one thing for yourself every day - even if it is just a relaxing bath to “wash the day away” and reground back into “home mode”. It’s not a selfish act, it’s necessary. Even though I still struggle with keeping myself off the back burner, I have come a long way with learning how to fill my cup. It’s the best thing I’ve ever done for myself, and it will be for you, too.
So tell me, how are we going to fill our cups this year? ☕🍎