08/18/2026
Have you ever wondered why the first few weeks back to school can feel especially hard for your child?
Many neurodivergent children—including those with autism, ADHD, intellectual disabilities, and some learning disabilities—
use routines to help reduce the mental effort of figuring out what comes next. When the brain already knows the sequence, it has more energy for learning, communicating, managing emotions, and solving problems.
Over the summer, those routines naturally become more flexible. Bedtimes get later. Mornings are slower. Maybe breakfast happens at a different time every day, pajamas stay on until noon, or there isn't a reason to rush out the door.
Then, almost overnight, school requires children to switch back to waking up early, getting dressed quickly, following a schedule, listening to directions, keeping track of belongings, etc.
That's a lot for any child, and for a child who struggles with executive functioning, transitions, or processing multiple steps, that sudden change can feel overwhelming.
All within 15 minutes, kids are hearing, “Get dressed." "Did you brush your teeth?" "Where are your shoes?" "Grab your backpack." "Hurry, we're going to miss the bus!"
These reminders are coming in all while they're trying to organize, remember, transition, and shift attention from one task to the next which are brain skills that don't come easily for everyone.
That's why many pediatricians, sleep experts, and child development professionals recommend easing children back into school routines a couple weeks before school starts rather than waiting until the night before. A gradual transition gives your child's brain time to rebuild those familiar patterns.
Here are some ideas to try this week:
Adjust sleep gradually. Move bedtime and wake-up time about 10–15 minutes earlier every few days.
Practice a school morning. Wake up, get dressed, brush teeth, eat breakfast, pack the backpack, put on shoes, and take a short walk or drive.
Create a visual morning checklist. Instead of giving the same reminders over and over, try a visual checklist your child can follow independently:
🌞 Wake up
👕 Get dressed
🪥 Brush teeth
🍳 Eat breakfast
🎒 Pack backpack
👟 Put on shoes
🚌 Go to the bus or car
Many children process visual information more easily than spoken directions. A checklist stays the same every morning, giving your child a chance to check off each step independently. Over time, this can reduce stress, increase confidence, and make mornings feel calmer for the whole family.
💙 What part of your morning routine are you working on before school starts? We'd love to hear what's working for your family.
-MIs team at the CD FACE Center 🔹