Ainembabazi Susan

Even after you have learned from your mistakes, there may still be pieces of their consquences lingering about. Make peace with it👌

Success stories get more fascinating at the point where the character had it worse.

😂I literally dont get why, But thats how it goes.

Is your priority your priority?
Are your priorities your priority?

Am afraid to say, on some days my priorities are not my priority.
Not because I dont remember they are, not because I dont care if they arent . And sadly not because of anything😂 .

Your not going to wonder if am really being honest, I just cant find a befitting reason why.

Am in all acceptance that it happens
And in all commitment to continously remind myself to keep my priorities the priority - may be you can too.☺

WAKE UP EACH DAY, PRIORITISE YOUR PRIORITY

Wake up each day, prioritise your priority.

In his book "Goals", Brian Tracy writes.."You do not believe what you see,you see what you believe".

I hope this statement puts a smile on your face

The Only thing that stands between a man and what he wants from life is often merely the will to try it and the faith to believe it is possible"
_Richard M. Devos_

You have all it takes to bridge this gap.

Go Ahead👊🏻

On some days all I want to say is,

Hi

How are you ?

Do you have an abundance or a scarcity mindset?

Do you recognise that there is enough for you and for everyone else to succeed?
Or
Do you worry that what the next person takes reduces what is available for you.

Are resources, possibilities and opportunities infinite according to you?. Do you believe that there will always be more?
Or
Do you worry that there will never be enough?

People with an abundance mindset "recognise that there is morethan enough in the universe for them and for everyone else to succeed"
They believe that just like them everyone has limitless potential, possibilities and opportunities and thus what the other people or person take(s)doesnt reduce what is available for them.

These people lead calm and peaceful lives because they believe that opportunities of growth are everywhere and everyone can succeed without neccessarily pulling others down.

The scarcity mindset however is quiet the opposite.
With it everything looks limited, the resources, the potential, the possibilities , the opportunities ...In short there is not enough of anything, meaning that what one person takes reduces what is available for the other.

This makes stress, fear and anxiety inevitable because it leaves people focusing more on competition rather than working together due to the insecurities that come with thinking that resources are limited.

Once again, Do you have an abundance or scarcity mindset

One of the things we have to watch out for and get careful about is growing a "familiarity with counsel".

You could ask, What if I have heard it again and again. What if the same person or may be different people have given me the same counsel again and again?

What if the people I look upto for counsel or that I go to for counsel say the samethings again and again?.

Thing is ..the issue is not with hearing the same message again and again ...the issue is feeling familiar with it.
It is hearing it for close to the ahundreth time and instead of catching an excitment of am hearing more of this🤗 , you begin to think - I have heard this before😏.

An example is if one of your role models or mentors overly says or advises on ...Learning to delay gratification because according to them its at the core of what is required to be successful in life. So for this very reason they find the need to say it to you countless times just so it can get registered on your heart and on your mind. Meaning on your every encounter with them its likely that they mention it either in similar or in different ways.
And just like we said - on hearing it you catch the thought of I have heard this before😏 instead of am hearing more of this🤗.

With counsel, you have to cultivate letting the same or exact words hit you with the same or deeper energy they hit you with the very first time you heard or read them when you hear or read them for close to or more than the ahundreth time.

This gives you a similar or deeper sense of wonder which one more time puts you in a better position to breathe it in and to further act with it. And this right here is exactly what familiarity with counsel robs from you...it robs from you the desire and readiness to breathe it in one more time and to further practice it.

Myself I dont mind taking short and reasonable breaks from counsel am begining to feel familiar with just so I can slay the voice that says I have heard this before and let one that is excited about hearing more of the same or exact thing get louder.

Please note that this does not only apply to the same counsel...Sometimes we can feel the same about different counsel ...feel familiar with counsel simply because we have attained much of it.