Healthy Eating

Kids tend to eat whatever is available and they can only eat what you keep in the house. Keep a bowl of fruit such as apples or bananas on the counter, and when you snack, have some fruit. "Your actions scream louder than anything you will ever tell them," says Sothern. That way you can model healthy eating habits at home.

Healthy eating habits are an important lesson you can teach your children. The example you set is the best way to help your kids make smart food choices and to develop a positive relationship with food. Melinda Sothern, PhD, coauthor of Trim Kids and director of the childhood obesity prevention laboratory at Louisiana State University shares her "Top 10" tips for getting children to eat healthy foods.

"I find that children become much more open to trying new foods after the age of 5," according to Ward. "Most of the time, kids will simply grow out of limited eating."

Eating habits should not be discussed during mealtime, according to Ward. Minimize stress at mealtimes by talking about food choices at another time, such as during story time or bedtime. You do not want mealtimes to be focused on what your child does or does not eat.

Leading by example is one of the best ways to reinforce healthy eating habits in children. "Do as I say, not as I do," is not the right strategy according to Pawel. Children will be more likely to choose salads over French fries when they see parents modeling healthy eating. The opposite is also true. Parents who fill up on sugar, fat, and salt will have a harder time getting their children to eat healthy foods.

According to Pawel, parents should establish some bottom-line limits and be consistent to reinforce healthy eating in their kids. Parents may require kids eat healthy foods before eating snacks or they may insist children try at least one bite of a new food before dismissing it. Pawel adds, "Consistency only works if what you are doing in the first place is reasonable." Extreme rules about food, such as being too permissive or too controlling, are not a good idea. The best and most effective bottom-line rules are balanced and healthy.

Children may avoid trying a new food when they are full, according to Ward. "Kids can consume a lot of their calories as milk and juice." Snacks such as sweets, soda, and chips, provide little more than empty calories. "If you are going to offer snacks, make sure they are supplementing meals, not sabotaging them," says Ward.

Your child won't try a new food? Don't give up. Ward says it takes between 10 and 15 introductions to a new food before a child will accept it. Many parents give up too soon. Don't give up if your child just pushes a new food around his or her plate. There will be a day when your child takes a bite! Be careful not to introduce too many new foods too fast, advises Severe. Introducing one or two new foods per week is a good pace.

Ward says, "When I sit down with parents, we'll often find that their child actually does eat two or three things from each food group." The same way children enjoy hearing the same story over and over, they like certain "predictable" foods. Ward adds, "Even though they aren't getting a wide variety of foods, they are actually doing OK nutritionally." A good time to try to introduce new foods is during a child's growth spurt. Parents can use the child's increased appetite as an opportunity to try new foods.

Children under the age of 5 are often picky eaters, according to Dr. Severe. Elizabeth Ward, MS, RD, says, "Being selective is actually normal." The better term for a picky eater is a "limited eater."