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Forgiveness is an immediate healing that most people do not realize.

WHY PEOPLE BREAK UP IN RELATIONSHIPS
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*When they found out their partner is not who they claimed to be.
*The other partner doesn't seem to care.
*The other partner isn't pretty, rich, smart, or cute enough.
*Both partners doesn't have a lot in common.
*There's no emotional connection or chemistry between them.
My advice is, you can't just date anyone because they are rich, pretty, smart or social. You have to be sure that you have a lot in common and can get along. This of course may take time. Being in a relationship for a purpose of having s*x is morally wrong. You have to build a relationship with a right person that will lead to marriage. But you have to be patient and you have to be a good person. A good partner is a gift from God.
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Next time, I will be talking about qualities that both men and women are looking for in their ideal partners.

The reason why most people cannot stay single for long is simple;
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* They always felt an emotional void that they think getting into relationship can fill.
*They feel attached to their former lover, and would get into a relationship to make them( Their lovers) either jealous or get into a relationship to evade loneliness.
*They are looking for Mr. Or Mrs. Perfect.
*They have low self-esteem and they think being in a relationship can boost their self-esteem.
*They wanted to have something to talk or boast about when they meet with their friends.

All the above are wrong reasons for being in a relationship. If you are insecure about yourself, then you need to build your confidence so that you won't be taken advantage of.
You need to understand that some people are not meant for you.
If you know you have a low self-esteem, the person you are going to date will know it and will consider you a worthless person.
If you want to find the right person, then you have to be a right person first. Are you ready for a relationship? Do you think you are perfect enough to find Mr. Perfect? Do you think your character is not disappointing enough to chase the perfect ones from you?
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Make a list of qualities that you want in your ideal man/woman, then analyze your qualities and see if its corresponding.

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Most people are not successful in their academics and careers because they are busy jumping from relationship to relationship. Instead of developing their selves(learn skills and know weakness and strengths) and show commitment in their endeavors, they end up frustrated, with no purpose and direction in life because they made relationship a priority.

I will talk more about relationship next time, and why most people find it hard to stay single.

Marrying a person who has a different point of view about life and who is not willing to reconcile the differences you have is going to affect your marital life. You will either quarrel everyday or divorce. Why would you take such a chance? You may be drawn to the person because of their popularity, wealth, intelligence or beauty; but soon or later you will find that such things do not hold marriages, they are just a flavor.

Loving your children does not mean that you should smile at them when they misbehave, but that you should punish them so they will fear to misbehave but reward them when they behave well.

However, punishing your children when they did nothing wrong is not discipline, it is an abuse. Be a loving and a responsible parent.

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Be careful of people who like playing the victim card. They are so manipulative that they will make you end up asking what exactly have you done wrong.

Blessed Sunday to all, may this day be the day that reminds us of the resurrection of our Lord Jesus Christ from the dead.

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Communication skills is an important element that can take your professional life to the next level.

You don't have to be somebody else, you were created special.

Knowing who you are is vital to your success. We're here to help you find your identity. Be sure to be the first to like our page 🇸🇸!