05/01/2024
Abdullāh ibn Amr reported: The Messenger of Allāh (ﷺ) said:
لا ينظرُ اللهُ تبارك وتعالى إلى امرأةٍ لا تشكُرُ لزوجِها ؛ وهيَ لا تَستَغني عنهُ
“Allāh Blessed and Exalted be He will not look at a woman who is ungrateful to her husband while she cannot do (or take care of herself) without him.”
[Shaykh al-Albāni graded it Sahīh in at-Targhīb 1944, Silsilat-us-Sahīhah 289, hadīth found in al-Sunan al-Kubrá by an-Nasā’ī 9086]
Amr bin Al-Hārith Al-Mustaliq said:
“It used to be said that the people with the worst punishment [on the Day of Judgment] are two: A woman who disobeyed her husband, and a people's Imām whom they dislike.”
[Jami` at-Tirmidhī 359]
Al-Husayn ibn Mihsan reported:
His aunt came to the Prophet (ﷺ) with a need and when she finished explaining her need, the Prophet (ﷺ) said to her, “Do you have a husband?” She said yes. The Prophet (ﷺ) said, “How are you with him?” She said, “I do not neglect him unless I am unable.” The Prophet (ﷺ) said, “Look to yourself regarding him. Verily, he is your Paradise or your Hellfire.”
[Musnad Aḥmad 18610, Shaykh al-Albāni graded it Sahīh in Sahīh al-Jāmi’ 1509]
Narrated by Ibn 'Abbās:
The Prophet (ﷺ) said: “I was shown the Hell-fire and that the majority of its dwellers were women who were ungrateful." It was asked, “Do they disbelieve in Allāh?” (or are they ungrateful to Allāh?) He (ﷺ) replied, “They are ungrateful to their husbands and are ungrateful for the favors and the good (charitable deeds) done to them. If you have always been good (benevolent) to one of them and then she sees something in you (not of her liking), she will say, 'I have never received any good from you.”
[Sahīh al-Bukhārī 29]