12/05/2024
Empowering Individuals on Their Spiritual Journey: A story of Hearts Toward Qibla
Since our humble beginnings before we embark on social media, we have encountered a myriad of personal requests, each one unique in its own right. Some are straightforward, like those from vigilant parents seeking personalised basic Islamic education for their children. Others are fulfilling, stemming from adults who have been graced with sudden enlightenment on their spiritual journey.
However, it is the challenging tales that linger in our hearts - those where assistance is sought for families who resist guidance. This is one such story, a testament to the complexities and triumphs we encounter in our mission.
It was before the onset of the Covid19 pandemic. From the start, it was clear this journey wouldn't be easy for this one sister. Along the way, I suggested seeking guidance at a nearby mosque, she hesitated. Instead, she longed for an Ustazah to teach her family solat at home. She vividly expressed her yearning to strengthen her faith and draw closer to Allah. Regret filled her for neglecting her obligations. Seeing her family neglecting solat left her disheartened.
We found a suitable Ustazah, but soon she worried about her family's acceptance. Her children and spouse resisted, saying true learning must come from the heart. Their words left her confused and broken-hearted, unsure of the next step. She held onto hope for guidance for her whole family.
In response to her plight, I shared words of comfort, reminding her of Allah's love, compassion, and understanding of our struggles. Only He can guide the hearts He chooses.
I suggested a course of action: she should learn to pray alone first. Sometimes the path to God must be walked alone. I advised her to visit the Ustazah alone first, practice praying at Ustazah's home. Change herself first, forgive all, and leave the rest to Allah.
I reassured her not to be sad, to pray and work hard, and to trust in Allah. I offered to make arrangements if she accepted the proposal.
Reflecting on the situation, I acknowledged my limitations in helping everyone but committed to aiding one family at a time, when their hearts are ready.
There were times when I felt tempted to cease operating this initiative due to heavy personal and professional commitments. However, when I witness the outcome of a whole family praying together, I am encouraged to continue as long as Allah permits.
Sometimes I justify my thoughts by saying there are so many Islamic centers and mosques already; one less will not make a difference. Despite this, the impact of helping even one family find their path to Allah is immeasurable, and that thought keeps me going.
I find strength in seeing families come together in prayer and push forward with renewed purpose. Each time I see the positive impact on a family's spiritual journey, I am reminded of the importance of this work and the blessings it brings. InsyaAllah.
The diverse struggles faced by many individuals, some unable to recite Al-Fatihah or even remember how to say the Shahadah, underscore the importance of our efforts, as a community, in providing support and guidance.
