NonSense 2 NewSense

Powerful... Face your loneliness...

Why are you spending more and more? To achieve what feeds ur soul? Or to impress... 2 paras that will change your thinking about spending money

Your biggest asset... It is not your money, but...

If I get a business class, I will also be well behaved 😂😂🤣🤣

Jokes apart, one of the reasons conflicts happen is a lack of personal space and we being susceptible and receptive to vibrations around us. This is why when you go to some places you feel depressed for no reason, angry for no reason, stresses for no reason.

This is also evident in open offices, which is why when you have cubicles, you sometimes work better.

What's the solution? Strengthening the space around you... Strengthening your energy field or Aura around you. How?

1. being in the vicinity of positive people
2. Taking a short walk and just staring at something vast like the open sky or the sea
3. setting aside half an hour for sitting idle. The amount of thoughts you are bombarded with is proportional to the amount of things that bother you.
4. Listening to some soft music (no lyrics) and observing every single instrument, note etc.
5. Guided meditations... there's a lot out there, experiment.

All the above worked for me im varying proportions. 3 was the best! Does it mean I won't get angry or depressed? No. The frequencies reduce drastically, the responses are more planned and not abrupt...

If something's worked for you, do share.

Read this somewhere... Are we as parents falling in this trap too? Pay attention to details... just because our kids doesn't come to us often does not mean they don't need our help...

Broken building blocks are easier to fix than broken buildings... Deal with issues when they are young.

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My parents said I was an “easy kid.”

I didn’t need much attention. I didn’t ask for help. I kept to myself.

They called it independence. But what they didn’t realize was that I learned to take care of myself because no one else did. I didn’t know it at the time, but every time I swallowed my feelings, every time I told myself “It’s fine” when it wasn’t, my brain was rewiring itself.

They didn’t mean to neglect me. They were busy, stressed, just trying to make it through the day.
But as a child, I didn’t understand that. All I knew was that I couldn’t count on anyone but me.

So I stopped needing. Stopped crying when I was hurt. Stopped asking for hugs. Stopped showing anyone the real me.

By the time I was an adult, I thought I had it together. I looked independent, driven, self-sufficient. But inside, my mind was chaos.

I couldn’t focus on anything. My thoughts raced like a never-ending loop I couldn’t turn off. I’d sit down to start a project, but my brain would jump to the next thing, and the next, until I was surrounded by half-finished tasks and missed deadlines.

My house was cluttered, my relationships strained, my life spinning out of control.

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Most of us actually belong to the second category... don't wait for someone to come and make you famous. Keep doing your work quietly with or without appreciation...

A chapter we need to read before sleeping daily...

This year, just focus on one skill a month. Do everything to excel in that one skill. Starting resources are here... Technical or hard skills matter, but these decide your future.

Next time u get angry, think about this...
There is a way to deal with anger... to recognize where the vibration starts when you get triggered.
Observe. Silence is the key.

Be like a bamboo... how flexible are you decides your growth anywhere...

This also applies to students.

Singing is a whole brain activity. The best way is to write your lyrics as u listen to the song. This is how I learnt all my songs as a kid. To date I remember them.