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MAJOR SINS Showing Disrespect to One's Parents ,
PART TWO
Once Ibn 'Umar saw a man bearing his mother upon his shoulder and making circumambulation around the Kaa'ba. The man ' asked him, "Do you think that I requite her? No, not even with a cry from childbirth.
But, well done. Allah will give you in return for a little deed a great reward.”Reported by AI-Bukhari.
Abu Hurairah (may Allah be pleased with him) related that the Prophet (pbuh) said,"There are four people who will not enter Paradise as Allah decreed: a drunkard, a usurer, he who
appropriates the orphan's property without a legal cause and he who shows disrespect to one's parents.” Reported by AI-Hakim.
The Messenger of Allah (pbuh) said,"Paradise lies beneath the feet of mothers.”Bukhari and on
A man came to Abu Ad-Darda' and said, "O Abu Ad-Darda', I have married a woman but my mother ordered me to divorce her." Then Abu Ad-Darda' said, "Parents is the middle gate of Paradise. You may either miss or preserve it.”Reported by Ibn Majah, Ahmad and AI-Hakim
The Messenger of Allah (pbuh) said,"Three supplications are surely acceptable: the supplication of the oppressed, the traveler and the parents against their children.”Reported by At- Tirmidhi, Abu Dawud and Ibn Majah
“An aunt is treated as a mother i. e., honorable treatment.” Reported by AI-Bukhari and Abu Dawud.
Wahb Ibn Munabbih said, "In the tablets written by Allah to Musa is the following, 'O Musa! Respect your parents. Whoever respects his parents I will extend his life span and grant him a grateful progeny. But, whoever shows disrespect to his parents I will shorten his life span and grant him an ungrateful progeny.”( Dur Mukhtar )
Abu Bakr Ibn Abu Mariam also said, "I read in the Torah that he who hits his father will be killed." Similarly, Wahb said, "I read in the Torah that he who slaps his father should be stoned until death."
`Amr Ibn Murrah Al-Juhanni said, "A man came to the Messenger of Allah and asked, 'O Messenger of Allah, what do you say if i pray obligatory duties, fast during Ramadan, give due Zakat on my 'wealth, and perform Hajj if I am able to do so, what is my reward?' The Messenger of Allah (pbuh) said, 'He who does this, he will be with the prophets, truthful people and the martyrs unless he disrespects his parents.”3
It was related that the Messenger of Allah (pbuh) said, "May Allah curse he who shows disrespect to his parents."
It was narrated. Also that the Messenger of Allah (pbuh) said,
"In the night of isra' (Night Journey) i saw groups of people in the Hell-Fire hanged on trunks of fire. I asked, "Who are they, Gabriel?" He said, "They are those who revile their parents in this world,
Bishr said, "Whoever is intimated by his mother and listens to her speech is better than the one who fights with his sword in the cause of Allah. Gazing at her surpasses every thing. Once a man and a woman presented before the Prophet (pbuh) arguing about their child. The man said, "O Messenger of Allah, he is my child who was created from my loins (backbone)." On the other hand, the woman said, "O Messenger of Allah he bore him lightly and proceeded it out of lust. But I bore him in travail, delivered him in travail and suckled him during two full years." Thereupon, the Prophet judged for the mother.”
In the Prophet's lifetime, there was a young man called Alqamah. He was so devout that he exerted great efforts in performing many prayers, fasting and spending money in charity. He had a fatal disease that his wife informed the Prophet (pbuh) that her husband was dying. Thereby, the Prophet (pbuh) sent `Ammar, Suhaib and Bilal to instruct the dying to say the testification of Faith. When they arrived there, they found him dying. Therefore, they began to instruct him to say there is no god but Allah, but he could not repeat it.
They returned to the Prophet (pbuh) to consult him. Then, the Prophet (pbuh) said, "Did he have living parents?" They said, "He had an aged mother." Accordingly, the Prophet asked them to bring her if she was able to walk. Otherwise he himself will go there. When being informed by the Prophet's message, the
mother said, "I sacrifice him with my soul. I will go to him." She then went to him leaning on a staff. After greeting, the Prophet (pbuh) said; "O mother of Alqamah, tell me the truth and if you lie Allah will reveal me the truth. How was Alqamah?" She said, "He performed much prayers, fasting and spending money in charity." Then, the Prophet (pbuh) asked, "What about you?" She said, "O Messenger of Allah! I am angry with him."
The Prophet asked, "Why?" She said, "Because he prefers his wife to me and also disobeys me."
Then, the Prophet (pbuh) said, "The anger of Alqamah's other holds Alqamah's tongue to utter the testification of Faith."
Afterwards, the Prophet said, O Bilal, go and gather a pile of wood." The woman said, "Why, Messenger of Allah?" The Prophet said, “To burn him before your eyes." She said, "O Messenger of Allah, he is my son! I cannot endure that he be burnt before my eyes." Then, the Prophet said, "But Allah's torture is more severe and lasting, mother of `Alqamah. So if you like him to be forgiven by Allah, you forgive him. By Whom in Whose hands my soul is, what he performed of prayers, fasting and charity is of no avail so long
as you are angry with him."Then, she said, "O Messenger of Allah, may Allah the Almighty, his angels and all Muslims who are
present witness that I forgive my son, Alqamah."