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Assalamu Alaikum dear students,

This Ramadan, I want us to do something special together. Many of us carry a quiet pain — we have lost people we loved deeply: parents, husbands, wives, and beloved family members. So as a class, **let’s “Dedicate” this Ramadan for our lost ones** — and make our dua a gift that reaches them.

please remember in your duas that some of our My Mushaf team members have also lost their beloved ones. Let’s keep them in our prayers and ask Allah to shower mercy upon them.

Please make special dua for:
Brother Ahmad’s father

Brother Usama’s father

Brother Haseeb’s father

Brother Asad’s father(mother)

Make dua for them in the blessed moments—in sujood, before iftar, and after Fajr.

After every salah (especially after Fajr and Maghrib), and in the moments of acceptance — **in sujood**, **before iftar**, and **in the last third of the night** — make sincere dua for them.

You can pray like this:

> **“Allahumma’ghfir lahum, warhamhum, wa ‘aafihim, wa’fu ‘anhum, waj‘al qabrahum rawdatan min riyadil jannah.”**
> (O Allah, forgive them, have mercy on them, grant them safety, pardon them, and make their graves a garden from the gardens of Paradise.)

And also:

> **“O Allah, raise their ranks, fill their graves with light, and reunite them with their loved ones in Jannah.”**

May Allah accept our fasting, our Qur’an, and our duas — and make this Ramadan a source of mercy for those who have returned to Him. Ameen.

*When Ramadan Meets an Unprepared Heart*
Why Hunger Alone Does Not Open the Heart to Revelation
Ramadan is often announced with excitement, schedules, and goals.
Apps are downloaded. Timetables are shared.
And yet, year after year, many Muslims quietly confess the same feeling:
“I read the Qur’an, but it does not stay with me.”
This distance is rarely caused by lack of effort.
More often, it is caused by lack of preparation.
The Qur’an itself establishes a direct, inseparable relationship between Ramadan and revelation:
شَهْرُ رَمَضَانَ الَّذِي أُنزِلَ فِيهِ الْقُرْآنُ هُدًى لِّلنَّاسِ
“The month of Ramadan is the one in which the Qur’an was revealed as guidance for humanity.”
(Qur’an 2:185)
This verse does not simply mark a historical event.
It reveals a principle.
Revelation descended when hearts were restrained, appetites reduced, and distractions minimized. Ramadan was not chosen randomly. It was chosen because the human being, in that state, becomes receptive.
Hunger Alone Is Not Preparation
Fasting reduces food.
It does not automatically reduce noise.
Modern Ramadan often looks like this: less eating, but more scrolling; less sleep, but more stimulation; less patience, but higher expectations. In such an environment, the Qur’an competes with everything else.
And the Qur’an does not compete.
It waits.
The companions of the Prophet ﷺ understood this intuitively.
They did not approach the Qur’an as a task to complete, but as a voice to listen to. Abdullah ibn Mas‘ud رضي الله عنه said:
“Do not scatter the Qur’an like sand, and do not rush through it like poetry. Pause at its wonders. Move hearts with it.”
The Qur’an was not rushed into the heart.
The heart was slowed down for the Qur’an.
Why the Qur’an Feels Heavy for Many of Us
Many Muslims today experience a quiet guilt in Ramadan. They read, but without presence. They listen, but without absorption.
This is not a failure of faith.
It is a failure of environment.
The Qur’an was revealed into silence, hunger, humility, and reflection. When those conditions are missing, the Qur’an still speaks but softly.
Modern neuroscience supports this reality. Deep reading and emotional processing require reduced sensory input. A distracted brain cannot absorb layered meaning. Islam addressed this long before laboratories did.
Ramadan was designed to restore that inner stillness.
The Qur’an Was Meant to Be Met, Not Managed
One of the greatest shifts needed before Ramadan is moving from management to meeting the Qur’an.
Not:
• How many pages today?
But:
• What did Allah say to me today?
• What did this verse demand of my behavior?
Imam Malik رحمه الله would pause his public teaching in Ramadan. He did not do more activities. He did fewer and gave the Qur’an his full attention.
That choice was not symbolic.
It was strategic.
Preparing the Heart Before Opening the Mushaf
Preparation for the Qur’an begins before the first page is opened.
It begins with:
• Reducing constant background noise
• Accepting that less can be more
• Allowing silence into daily life
Even ten uninterrupted minutes of Qur’an, approached daily, often outlives ambitious goals sustained only by guilt.
The Qur’an does not require intensity.
It responds to sincerity.
What Parents Often Miss
Children learn their relationship with the Qur’an by observation, not instruction.
If the Qur’an appears only as pressure, deadlines, or comparison, children internalize avoidance.
If it appears as calm, reflection, and warmth, children associate it with safety.
The Prophet ﷺ never forced the Qur’an into hearts.
He made hearts ready for it.
Ramadan is not the time to introduce fear-based discipline. It is the time to introduce meaning.
When Ramadan Ends, What Remains?
Many people finish Ramadan relieved.
A few finish transformed.
The difference is rarely effort.
It is readiness.
Those who prepare for the Qur’an before Ramadan find that it continues speaking after Ramadan ends. Those who rush through it often leave it behind with the month.
The Qur’an was revealed in Ramadan but it was never meant to remain there.
Ramadan does not give everyone the same Qur’an.
It gives each heart what it prepared to receive.

"صَلَّی اللہُ عَلَیْہِ وَاٰلِہٖ وَسَلَّمْ"

Before Ramadan Arrives

Why Preparation Determines What Ramadan Gives Back
Ramadan never truly begins on the night the moon is sighted.
It begins much earlier—quietly, invisibly—inside routines that remain unchanged, inside hearts that have not yet slowed down, inside homes still running on urgency rather than intention.
For many Muslim families scattered across different cultures and time zones, Ramadan arrives while life is already full. Work does not pause. Children do not slow down. Sleep is already fragile. In such a state, fasting often becomes physical endurance rather than spiritual arrival.
This was not how Ramadan was received by those who understood it best.

Allah introduces fasting not as a burden, but as a pathway:
يَا أَيُّهَا الَّذِينَ آمَنُوا كُتِبَ عَلَيْكُمُ الصِّيَامُ كَمَا كُتِبَ عَلَى الَّذِينَ مِن قَبْلِكُمْ لَعَلَّكُمْ تَتَّقُونَ“O you who believe, fasting has been prescribed for you as it was prescribed for those before you, so that you may attain taqwa.”(Qur’an 2:183)
Taqwa does not emerge suddenly.It grows where space has already been made for it.

How Ramadan Was Approached by the Early Muslims
The early generations did not wait for Ramadan to fix themselves.
Mu‘alla ibn al-Fadl رحمه الله recalls that the companions of the Prophet ﷺ would spend six months asking Allah to allow them to reach Ramadan, and another six months asking Him to accept it.
That single report carries a profound message.
Ramadan, to them, was not a productivity challenge.It was a trust.
Umar ibn Abdul Aziz رحمه الله, often described as the fifth rightly guided caliph, would remind entire regions to prepare spiritually before Ramadan arrived—adjusting hearts before adjusting schedules.

Intention Comes Before Discipline
The Prophet ﷺ was unequivocal:
إِنَّمَا الأَعْمَالُ بِالنِّيَّاتِ“Actions are judged by intentions.”(Bukhari & Muslim)
Yet intention is rarely discussed before Ramadan begins.
Why am I fasting this year?What do I want my children to carry with them when Ramadan ends?Am I seeking Allah—or merely completion?
Families who pause to ask these questions often experience a quieter, steadier Ramadan, even when life remains busy.

The Tongue Learns Before the Body Starves
Hunger does not break the fast.Uncontrolled speech does.
The Prophet ﷺ warned:
فَإِذَا كَانَ يَوْمُ صَوْمِ أَحَدِكُمْ فَلَا يَرْفُثْ وَلَا يَصْخَبْ“When one of you is fasting, let him not engage in foul speech or arguments.”(Bukhari)
A household accustomed to raised voices before Ramadan will struggle to soften during it.
Even small adjustments—speaking less, listening more, choosing silence—begin reshaping the atmosphere long before the first fast.
Children feel this shift instinctively.

Eating Less, Feeling More
Islam never separated the stomach from the soul.
The Prophet ﷺ said:
مَا مَلَأَ آدَمِيٌّ وِعَاءً شَرًّا مِنْ بَطْنِهِ“No human fills a vessel worse than his stomach.”(Tirmidhi)
Modern research now echoes what this tradition always implied: lighter meals sharpen focus, improve emotional regulation, and make restraint easier.
Reducing excess before Ramadan—gradually—allows fasting to feel natural rather than violent.

Sleep Is Not a Luxury in Ramadan
Ramadan nights are different.
Without preparation, they become exhausting. With preparation, they become sacred.
The Prophet ﷺ balanced night worship with rest, often taking a short midday nap. Science confirms what this Sunnah protects: sleep deprivation erodes patience, empathy, and self-control.
Even minor changes two weeks before Ramadan—earlier bedtimes, reduced screen use—reshape the entire month.

The Qur’an Does Not Enter an Unprepared Heart
Ramadan and the Qur’an are inseparable:
شَهْرُ رَمَضَانَ الَّذِي أُنزِلَ فِيهِ الْقُرْآنُ“The month of Ramadan in which the Qur’an was revealed.”(Qur’an 2:185)
Imam Malik رحمه الله would abandon public teaching during Ramadan to dedicate himself entirely to the Qur’an.
For modern families, preparation might mean something simpler:a fixed time, a realistic goal, consistency without pressure.
Even a few verses, approached daily, create familiarity that deepens with time.

Emotional Discipline: The Quiet Foundation
The Prophet ﷺ described fasting as protection:
الصِّيَامُ جُنَّةٌ“Fasting is a shield.”(Bukhari)
But a shield only works when held properly.
Lowered expectations, patience with children, forgiveness within the home—these are not secondary virtues in Ramadan. They are central.
Children do not remember how long their parents stood in prayer.They remember how safe Ramadan felt.

What Preparation Ultimately Changes
When Ramadan is prepared for, it unfolds differently.
The heart feels less rushed.Worship feels less forced.Homes feel calmer.
Not because life becomes easier—but because the soul arrives ready.

Ramadan does not reward effort alone.It responds to readiness.
Those who prepare do not rush into Ramadan.They are already there.

The Noble Prophet ﷺ said:
“The best among you are those who learn the Qur’an and teach it.”
(Bukhari)

Reading the Qur’an is not only a source of reward;
it is the purification of the heart and the light of life.
Whoever recites even a small portion of the Qur’an daily with consistency,
Allah places blessings in their time.

Let us make a sincere intention today:
whether little or much,
we will not abandon the daily recitation of the Qur’an,
because it is not the Qur’an that needs us,
rather, we are in greater need of the Qur’an.

May Allah make us among those who remain deeply connected to the Qur’an. Ameen.

— My Mushaf Islamic Center

إِنَّ مَعَ الْعُسْرِ يُسْرًا

Translation:
“Indeed, with hardship comes ease.” (Surah Ash-Sharh 94:6)

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