25/03/2026
I asked the children of various ages from different schools to share their thoughts on their school experiences. They said that they do not have much choice in their learning: too many lessons, too much homework, too many tests, too short breaks, too many peers, and the teachers patronise them constantly (most of them, not all of them).
When I asked them how they felt about school, their initial reaction included anger, stress, a sense of being forced to do things, annoyance, and frustration. They frequently express feeling overwhelmed.
However, we expect our kids to perform well, achieve good grades, and pass exams, under stress and feelings of being overwhelmed.
While some argue that this helps develop resilience and strength, recent research indicates that repeated exposure to a stressful environment leads to erosion rather than resilience.
In Romania, a student spends approximately 14,000–15,000 hours in school, 2,500 days of their life (excluding weekends and homework).
81% of this time is allocated to core subjects (such as Romanian, Math, History, etc.)
19% for breaks
From my observations, children don't disengage from learning because it is difficult; they rather lose interest because it often feels pointless or overly controlled. The current school system in Romania reflects this reality. It operates at a standardised pace. Promotes passive learning. Lacks connection to real-life experiences. This model may have been relevant before AI.
Moreover, who can guarantee that today’s teenagers preparing for university will still have jobs in the AI era? AI bots are already performing tasks faster and more efficiently in at least 18 industries, disrupting the job market. Roles in translation, programming, writing, graphic design, fast-food service, accounting, postal services, data entry, banking could vanish within five years.
Why do prestigious universities like Harvard or Stanford seek students from homeschooling backgrounds or disruptive, free, student-driven schools?
Why do high-tech companies prioritize hiring highly skilled young individuals over those with expensive degrees and certificates?
To what extent are test scores and exams still relevant in this context?
So, what truly makes an educational model successful? It should prepare today’s children for an unpredictable future, unlike anything mankind has faced before.
Drawing from my research and over 20 years of experience in education, I’ve found what I already knew. Children need:
- Autonomy - let me to choose how I learn – Students should set their goals, track progress, and work at their own pace.
- Real skills/Competence - encourage me to create (projects).
- Relatedness / Belonging - Show me why it matters (through group work and discussions ).
Most parents and their children do not reject school as it is. However, everyone deserves a safe and healthy environment for their children, both emotionally and mentally—one that nurtures skills rather than just test preparation.
The child doesn’t need to adapt to the system; the system should adapt to your child.
My findings suggest that an effective school balance comprises:
- 50% structured learning (core subjects - Reading, Writing, Math, Civilisation Studies)
- 30% cross-curriculum projects (Science, Biology, Social Sciences such as Geography and History, STEM, Business)
- 20% creativity and free exploration (nature, art, movement, storytelling)
It's time to Rethink Education
What if our children could learn up to three times faster by concentrating on what truly captivates them?
As a mother educator, and English teacher with years of experience working with diverse age groups, with a deep passion for education,
I am opening a small group, a Pilot Learning Hub
This initiative is designed for children aged 7-12 years (for now), featuring:
Small, mixed-age groups
An English-Romanian* bilingual environment (*Romanian for beginners)
We adhere to the principles of autonomy, competence, and belonging.
When children:
Follow their curiosity
Confront meaningful, real-world challenges
Take ownership of their learning
—they don’t just learn better; they learn faster, deeper, and with purpose.
This innovative and proven model is tailored for the world our children are entering.
While it could complement traditional schooling for now, you might refer to it as a homeschool program that follows a structured learning system that fosters motivation and autonomy. Call it a mini-society where children shape the environment and follow their own rules.
👨👩👧👦 For families who do not have the courage to start homeschooling with their children, but they believe there’s a better way than traditional school:
📍 A small, focused community
📚 Personalised, meaningful learning experiences
🚀 Children who grow confident, capable, and independent
If this resonates with you and your child, please message me or comment “INTERESTED” to find out more.
I am open to collaborations!