Zvirimudzimba - Okusendlini - Family Affairs

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Ndiri mukadzi ane makore 24 nemwana umwechete huye ndakaroorwa. Nyaya yangu ndeiyi; ndinogara muHarare pamwechete nemurume wangu. Iye anoshanda, iniwo ndinoshanda. So this last tuesday ndiri kubasa Boss wangu from nowhere vakangoti "I want to take you out for lunch". I was surprised kuti why suddenly this gesture. I could not refuse. We went out. Handisimbotaure nyaya navo zvekudaro because kubasa hakuna asingavatye he is a strict man. We went out kuRuwa. But I was surprised tasvika ndakaona patakaenda pacho pakange pasina kunyorwa. Takapinda mukati wanike mune maSofa then the other room had a nice bed. Ini aaah ko ndekupi kuno uku. Takagara paSofa then Boss started talking. Kwanzi do you know kuti ndakabvira ndichikuchiva kare I want you to be my wife. Ndakavatarisa kumeso for the first time since mazuva ose aya aive munhu aityisa. He showed seriousness imiweee. Ndakapererwa ndobva ndatarisa pasi. Gare gare ndakaona vaswedera mudhuze neni vave kutondibata bata. Ndakavaudza kuti ummm I am not comfortable nezvamuri kuita. He then assured me kuti zvandiri kuda kukuita izvi zvinosimbisa ukama hwavo neni huye vane zvavaizoda kundiitira. But I did not like it. He insisted, going as far as telling me kuti "unoziva here kuti kune vanhu vaida kuti ndikudzinge basa vachiti uri incompetent. Ndakashamisika and he even told me names of the people that were pushing for my dismissal. Ndakabva ndapusa. Kuti ndirambe zvakandinetsa given that I was already confused. He then took me to the other room and has s*x with me.
I felt guilty. I had never done that before kuCheater on my husband.
But what made the case worse is that when I went home, face yangu was visibly shaken, I showed that I was someone disturbed zvekutodaro. My hubby asked me kuti are you ok ndikati yes dear I am. But letter akabva ati imbondipawo phone yako. NaHubby hativanzirane maPassword so he took the phone and opened it semazuva ose. I was shocked hubby achiti pane message yabva kuna Manager wako iyi, ko sei ari kunyora kuti unonaka. Ndakataridza kuvhunduka veduwee because the manager never used yo write me messages before. My hubby akapenga but ndakamurambira ndikati maybe message yarasika. He was angry and haana kuda kunzwa divi rangu. He then pushed me out of the house nezuro kwanzi imboenda kumba kwenyu umbonofara chaizvo uina Baba naMai vako.
VeDare, imba yangu yoputsika here? Please advise me.

Makadini Admin. Please ndodawo rubatsiro kuruzhinji.
Ndakaroora mukadzi wangu mugore ra 2018 huye tave nevana vaviri. Mukadzi wangu ndinomuda asi pane pfungwa inondinetsa daily ndinozama kuidzima asi zvinoramba.
Pandakasangana naMadam vangu muna 2016, she told me kuti she was a virgin and that she was not yet ready for marriage. Ndakateerera kusvika 2018 when we then agreed to marry. I went and paid lobola total USD4200.
Fast forward, hepanoi pabonde. Ndokuwana mukadzi asiri mhandara. Ndobva ndabvunza ndokubca anditi ndini ndatadza kunzwa kuti imhandara pandaita bonde naye. Ndakanyarara zvangu handina kuda kuita musindo. Nyaya haina kubuda mumoyo mangu and then this year 2026 ndakabva ndazobvunza neimwewo nzira then boom munhu ndobva azotaura kuti pane zvakaitika naBabamukuru vake murume waSisi saka aisada kutaura nekuti aiziva kuti zvaizosvika kuna Sisi. But I asked her kuti zvaizosvika how, kwanzi wakange usati wandiroora saka ndakangofunga kuti you had nothing to lose so you could simply spill the beans.

VeDare, 8 years of lies and secrecy! Ndoita sei hama dzangu? And ndifunge kuti saka zvakapera here because all along I would permit her to visit kwaSisi vake achitonoita kana vhiki chairo ariko then ozodzoka. Ndabaikana veduwee nepfungwa.
Ndoita seiwo. Kuti nditi saka zvakaperera pana Babamukuru here ummm ndanetsekana ini. I am finished.

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Nhai ndoitawo sei nemurume wangu haade kuti ndifambe kana kuendawo kuma functions ekufara anoendawo vamwe vakadzi. Kwanzi ndezvemah**e but ini ndinenge ndichida kunofarawo neshamwari dzangu. Ndoita zvekutiza here ndopota ndichibuda paanoendawo kubasa?

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Ko sei vasikana vachiti vakabvunzwa body count unongonzwa zvonzi ka1 chete kechi 2 ndakazoramba?
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Admin ndine kanyaya kangu hopefully I will read the comments and see how best to solve this issue.
Ndiri murume ane makore 42 based in the USA ndoo kwandinoshandira. My wife and kids are in Zimbabwe and I regularly visit. The point of not staying with them is that kwandinoshandira ndinotogara pabasa and only the worker ndiye anodiwa. And for my wife and 4 kids to come and learn here zvinogona kundidhurira.
My issue is that, time and again ndogara ndakanetsana naMadam nenyaya yekuti anongoronga rwendo then ozondiudza atoenda kana kuti anototaura atove muCombi kuti ave kuenda kwakati. Ndizvo here? Last time ndakamutsiura akatanga kutaura zvekuti yange iri emergency kwaange aenda kwacho. But nezuro ndakangonzwa ave kufona achiti ari kuMbare pana Sahwira wake ange amukumbira kuti asvike ikoko. She then tried to do a video call but I rejected it in frustration. Ndizvo here kuti munhu anongoronga rwendo asingataure? My lady is 37 years old.
Ndikurukurireiwo ndibatsirike pamwe ndini ndiri wrong.
Ndatenda.

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I am posting a story on behalf of muzukuru wangu.
Nyaya yake yakadai. He dated a lady from Norton. This lady was just playing nice to him. On 01 July 2025 he was coming from Chegutu. Then he passed through her place. It was about around 22:10 as he said. So akatandara naye and as people that loved each other, and for the first time, vakabva vakundikana vose nemaFeelings. But before anything, muzukuru anoti akasimbirira nyaya yeStatus, akabvunza umwe wake kuti zvakamira sei panyaya yeHIV status. He says he asked her again and again, and the lady insisted kuti she is safe. The lady insisted kuti she was HIV negative. Then they had s*x twice. But muzaya wangu says he was not comfortable at all. That day akabva atorarako. The morning after muzukuru anoti akaramba achizvidya moyo. He then discussed neumwe wake kuti vaende kumaTests. They got to a Pharmacy, tested. Muzaya wangu anoti akapotsa afenda muPharmacy. The lady was HIV positive. He then bought PEP immediately but nanhasi pfungwa dzake dziri kushupika. Tariro Mugwadi akamugura kunorira. The lady is so evil. Upon further discussions with her, kwanzi akange ave kutotaura kuti akazvarwa nacho chirwere and yet the last night aitotaura kuti ari HIV negative. The whole motive yaTariro I think is to spread the disease as if vaari kupa vacho ndoo vakaita kuti ave HIV positive.
Kune vanhu vane utsinye out there guys. Never be reckless kune vane pfungwa yekutoti 'tinotoita chirwere chacho tose'.

I do not think Tariro has stopped. Now muzukuru wangu since July anotya kuenda kumaTests. He is nolonger himself, stressed and uncollected.

Hide me VeDare.
Varume ukaona mukadzi ahura gara wasiya h**e.
Gore ra2009 ndakaenda kuJoni kunotsvaka basa zvinhu zvainge zvakaoma muZimbabwe. Ndakasvika ndokuwana basa raibhadhara zviri nani ukuwo kumba ndakanga ndasiya mudzimai nevana vedu vaviri. Every monthend ndaitumira chikafu naMalaicha then mari pamusoro. Ndakanzwa nyaya dzakasiyana siyana about mkadzi wangu ndakasvika pakukwira bhazi kuenda kumusha kuti ndinyatsonobata chokwadi. Ndakasvikobvunza mukadzi asi akarambisisa kuti hapana chaanoziva nezve nyaya idzi. Ndakadzoka zvangu kubasa and nothing changed pane zvandaitira mhuri yangu. Ndakazofonerwa naBaba vangu vachibvunza kuti nyaya yakaitika ndakainzwa here. I was shocked kunzwa kuti mukadzi wangu ainge abatikidzwa aine murume wemunhu akarohwa seachafa. I didn't ask her paPhone asi ndakakwira bhazi zvakare kuenda kumusha. Ndakasvikobvunza mudzimai asi akarambisisa zvakare akachema kuti vanhu vanoda kuparadza imba yedu.

Handizive ndiko kudyiswa kwacho here or ndiko kupusa, I believed her and I even exchanged mashoko nemabrother angu. Kuzosiyana kwatakaita nemkadzi uyu ndakazouya kumusha asingazive ndokuwana vakarara zvavo nechikomba chake mubedroom medu. Handina kuvarwisa asi ndakarwadziwa kusvika pabhonzo ndakabuda ndikanorara kwababa vangu chifumi chamangwana ndichidzoka joni.
Now ndakazoroora mukadzi ane hunhu nerudo. aFormer Amai vevana vangu vakazofa. Vana ndinavo vatokura.

Vakadzi zivai kuti chikomba chinokuda uri pamurume ende once mabatwa zvatodhakwa.
Ndinongoti continue to rest in peace Mai Yolanda.

VeDare makadii. Ndauyawo nenhau yangu pano kuti mundibatsirewo. Ndiri murume ane makore 38 okuberekwa. Ndiri kufambidzana nemusikana ane makore 31. Nyaya yangu ndeyekuti each time pandinomubvunza about anything repeatedly, like 2 or 3 times, anotanga kusvotwa achitaridza kuti haazvide. Ndozomubvunza kuti ko why ndichiti ndikabvunza zvenyaya iyi unosvotwa wopedzisira usisade kupindura, anobva ati "Handizvide handizvigone kuswerera nyaya imwechete and that's me". For example you ask are you dating ayone else or have you been involved with many men, she starts showing signs dzekusvotwa nenhau yacho. Ini semurume ndoda kugara ndaziva because hapana chinobvisa chiremerera sekuve involved nemunhu anenge aka dater vanhu vakati wandei especially munharaunda. Unosara wofamba usisina chiremerera. Handizive kana ndiri wrong zvangu. But to me zvanditaridza kuti haana patience huye ane rough.

Admin ndiisireiwo kuDare.
Ndaifambidzanawo nemusikana wangu tichivimbana. Mukugara umu hapana aimbofungira umwe nekuti rudo rwedu rwaipfuta. Ini ndine makore 31 musikana ane 23.
Umwe musi takazosangana ndokutandara tiri kumba kwangu. Nguva dzakapera musikana ndokuzongoti ave kurara kumba kwangu. Ndakashamisika zvikuru kuti ummm uyu munhu ada kurara kumba kwangu nhasi why? But maitiro ake ndaiona aiwanza nyaya but semukomana kuti ndimuti ko chienda kumba zvaisaita. Takange tisati tamboita bonde tose kubva tichidanana. Ini ndaitoonawo stance yake iri right because I thought ndoo kuzvibatawo kwacho.
Takazopindana nemiyedzo ndokurara tose. But ini ndakangoramba ndiine question kuti uyu munhu aisiramva a lot of things but why nhasi zvazodai yet ndaifunga kuti pamwe ari kuda kuti nditange ndanomuroora.
Ndichimuperekedza ndakazongofunga kuti umm babe ngatipfuurei nepaPharmacy. We then bought HIV test kits. We tested. She came out positive, ini negative. Guys, ndakapererwa. Kumubvunza akambotanga achishamisika kuti ko sei. Later kwaakuzondiudza kuti akazvarwa akadaro. VeDare, help me out I am scared. Since that day ndiri kungonzwa kunge kakurwara. Kuti ndichati dzave brain dzangu or what umm ndapererwa. I feel kuti ane utsinye mwana uyu. We have never talked since that day up to now. Ndoita sei veDare? Kuti aida kuti ndifananewo naye here? Ko ini ndakamutadzireiko? Can I make it a police case😭?

Makadini Admin. Ndiri murume ane makore 37 okuberekwa. Ndakasiyana nemukadzi makore maviri apfuura mush**e mokunetsana zvisingagadzirike. Ndine vana 3. Ndiri kuda mukadzi wekuti ndiyanane naye tigone kugara tose zvichida kwehupenyu hwose. Ndatenda hangu.

Ko kanjani munhu anoti muchidanana, oshanya kumba kwako manheru, then you ask her about hutano semunhu wako, obva akusimbisa kuti zvose bhoo she is HIV negative. You trust her. You then have raw s*x. You had no condoms around. Mangwana mofuma henyu makananga kumaTests seFormality. Boom she is HIV positive. Unoita sei?