29/04/2026
I learned early that reaching out didn’t mean being held.
So I stopped expecting. Stopped asking.
Not because I didn’t need… but because I didn’t believe I would receive.
What looks like distance, detachment, or independence
is often just a child who adapted to being unmet.
Avoidance isn’t a lack of feeling—
it’s protection from the pain of not being chosen.
And healing?
It’s slowly learning that it’s safe to stay…
and safe to receive.
This is the work we go deep into in my facilitator training. Message me if you feel called.