24/08/2026
If a child has to be forced to participate, can we really call it learning?
“No coercion. We don’t do anything like that.”
That was one of the clearest messages from Aleksander Stadnyk during UNOWA’s webinar “Before the First Session: How to Prepare a Child with Special Educational Needs, Their Family and Yourself.”
Aleksander is an educator and adaptive physical activity specialist with 12 years of experience working with children, including children with special educational needs.
In the webinar, he spoke about something that can easily be overlooked when we focus on methodologies, programmes and learning objectives:
before learning can begin, there has to be trust.
Forcing a child through an activity may produce compliance for a moment. But it doesn’t create engagement.
A much more important professional skill is knowing how to redirect behaviour, adapt the interaction and still keep the child feeling safe enough to participate willingly.
And that work doesn’t belong to the specialist alone.
As Aleksander explains in the video, the strongest results come when parents and professionals work in tandem — sharing what they know about the child, recognising their motivations and building a consistent approach together.
This was at the heart of the webinar: how to prepare the child, the family, the environment and the specialist before the first session — so that the relationship begins with safety rather than pressure.
At UNOWA, we believe inclusive education becomes meaningful when systems, tools and methodologies are built around the real needs of the child.
Because inclusion is not simply about giving a child access to an activity.
It is about creating the conditions in which they can genuinely take part.