30/05/2022
"My parents beat me as a child and I am not traumatized," said the man whose ex-partner reported him for physical violence.
"They punished me as a child and I'm fine," said the man who, every time he makes a mistake, says to himself words of contempt, as a form of self-punishment.
"They let me cry it out, there's nothing wrong with me!" Said the man who has spent his life wondering why he feels lonely, disconnected and like he doesn't fit in.
"I used to get shouted at if I did something wrong, I soon learned!" Said the man who still doesn't know how to communicate in a healthy way.
"As a child, they put a heavy hand on me and I suffer from a trauma called 'education'," said the woman who still does not understand why all of her partners end up being aggressive.
"When I became capricious as a child, my father locked me in a room alone to learn and today I appreciate it," said the woman who has suffered anxiety attacks and can not explain why she is so afraid of being locked in small spaces .
"My parents told me they were going to leave me alone or give me to a stranger when I did my tantrums and I do not have traumas," said the woman who has prayed for love and has forgiven repeated infidelities so as not to feel abandoned.
"My parents controlled me with just the look and see how well I came out," said the woman who can not maintain eye contact with figures of 'authority' without feeling intimidated.
"When I was little they forced me to sit down until all the food was finished and they even force fed me, not like those permissive parents" affirmed the woman who does not understand why she could not have a healthy relationship with food and in her adolescence came to develop an eating disorder.
"I thank my mom and my dad for every blow and every punishment, because, if not, who knows what would happen to me," said the man who has never been able to have a healthy relationship.
And so we go through life, listening to people claiming to be good people without trauma, but paradoxically, in a society full of violence and wounded people.
— Author unknown
The beautiful thing about this life is our emotional memory can be healed and recreated. This post is to reflect on how deeply our programming goes....starts so young....to get a bird eye view into where it starts, passed down from generation to generation. Time to redirect how children are treated and start treating them like their lives matters.
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