Mahad ul Quran

🌿 Attention, Parents! 🌿

Assalamualaikum warahmatullahi wabarakatuh,

When your son reaches the age of ten,
it’s time for the father to take charge of his upbringing.
He is no longer just a child —
he has begun a journey where the foundation of his character and personality will be built.

🚹 Separate him from women’s gatherings,
and start including him in men’s company.
When the car tire is being changed at home,
make him stand beside you.
When you go to the market, tell him:
“Son, these are potatoes, these are onions, and this is their price,” —
so that he understands the basics of daily life.

💐 Teach him:
Where is the nearest shop?
Who lives in your neighborhood?
Which mechanic is good?
And how to welcome guests properly when they arrive.

Now teach him to:
iron his own clothes,
make his own bed,
sleep and wake up on time,
revise his lessons,
and, if needed, warm up his own food.

⚠️ Remember — this is not just advice; it’s practical training.
This is the age when he needs guidance, confidence, and responsibility.

❌ Avoid taking him to mixed gatherings.
When there’s a women’s event, keep him engaged in something useful and interesting —
so that he understands:
“This is for my own good, not a punishment.”

📖 If you don’t give him healthy and meaningful activities,
he will find his own interests —
often those that become a source of concern for parents.

Remember:
Upbringing requires time, sacrifice, and above all, attention.
If you fail to give him your time today,
tomorrow he won’t judge you by your words — but by your behavior.

🌸 Good upbringing doesn’t just build character —
it becomes a source of peace and comfort for the parents.
Such children grow up to become guides for the righteous.

May Allah grant us the ability to raise our children in the best possible manner. 🤲

Mahad ul Quran