Gill Writes

Beware of the Fake World of Brands; Brands Don't Define You:

Nowadays, wearing a brand is more important for some people than anything else. People only judge others' personalities based on their appearance; what they wear, and whether it is a brand or not. On one hand, if someone wears a brand then he/she is often seen as having a good fashion sense, & personality. On the other hand, if someone wears non-branded clothes then he/she is considered "Poor", seen as having no fashion sense, belongs to a backward family, and the list of all the tags relating to poor class goes on and on. How Strange! I don't know why people are so brand-conscious. They value branded things more than their character & morality.
I would share a real incident of my life related to it. One day, I woke up and got a text from one of my classmates, full of cuss words and vulgar language. She started by saying, that you have no fashion sense since you belong to a backward family. Have you ever worn a more expensive brand before? and goes on to say all those nasty words that I was anonymous about. It clearly shows how well she has grown up since your tongue tells everything about yourself.
Well, I don't care about people, what they say or carry an opinion about me. I just read the text and ignored it since I have no time for such narrow-minded people who merely judge on appearance. However, the purpose of sharing is that it shocked me, her choice of words like "cheap and shoddy" or worthless girl". In fact, her use of language clearly shows that she uttered words were reflecting herself, and her nourishment, not me.
See, how limited the thinking of people is, how simply they judge people based on appearance. See, how brands are dominant in people's psyche. Such people just show off their money. They choose to go to expensive restaurants just for pictures. For them, it doesn't matter whether they like food or not but they go just to show off. These types of people just live a fake life.
For the sake of God guys! Brands are just names. Do not be very conscious about brands. Brands aren't bigger than your character, moral values, and your life. Beware of your fake world and live in your real world. It doesn't matter whether you wear a brand or not but the important thing is that either you have branded thinking or not. So, develop intelligent and worldly-wise thoughts and worldviews branded instead of mere appearance because if you have poor thoughts then believe me guys your branded clothes are just equal to nothing but zero.
~gillwrites

Sometimes, It is okay to be selfish for yourself. Don't sacrifice your peace and happiness for the sake of others. Just do, whatever you want to do. Every time, there is one person who is unhappy with you. You can't please everyone. Just pay attention to yourself. Just be pleased with yourself. Every time this world tries to ruin your peace, just avoid the distractions and do whatever gives happiness to you. Set your life goals and try to accomplish them. You get one life. Don't waste it for others. Live your life in the way you want.
~gill writes

Life is a journey of learning; the line tells everything. I learned various life lessons. To put the first one, it brings the real faces of people in front of you. You understand people's thoughts and their mindset. It shows a double face of people. You meet many people in your life but most of them are not loyal to you. They deceive you. Besides, there are the people who show that they are your real friends but when you need them they disappear. No one will stay to help you, ultimately. There is a line that true friends are those who will stay with you in your bad times. Now, I understand this line when I experienced and found no one around me in my bad times. People just benefit from you. In this world, no one is loyal to one another. Second, it teaches that if someone is hurting you time and again, instead of giving a chance to hurt you again, just stay away from them. Remember one thing, if someone hurts you, he/she does not love you and if someone truly loves you, he/she will never hurt you. So, just don't let others hurt you. Third, it teaches that, instead of remembering people who hurt you and you feel pain just forgive them and feel free. Forgiving others who hurt you is a pious deed. Life is a beautiful journey but it has an ending. Either, you do something or do nothing, it will end. Therefore, do something good and leave your legacy.
~Gill writes