07/03/2023
💝 A wonderful letter written by a father for his child💝
If you like it, let your children read it too.
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My dear child,
I am writing this letter to you for 3 reasons…!
1. Life, fate and accidents are not guaranteed, no one knows how long he will live.
2. I'm your father, if I don't tell you this, no one else will.
3. What I have written is my own personal bitter experience - it may save you from a lot of unnecessary suffering.
# Try to remember these as you go through life:
1. Do not hold grudges against those who have not been kind to you. Because, apart from your mother and me, it is no one's duty to do justice to you. And those who have treated you well - you should appreciate and be grateful. But you have to be careful because every person can have their own motive for every move. Just because a man is good to you today doesn't mean he will always be. So don't think of someone as a real friend very quickly
2.Nothing or no one in life is "must have" that you have to have. Once you understand the depth of this saying, life will be much easier to navigate - especially when you lose something longed for, or don't get your so-called relatives by your side.
3. Life is short.
If you neglect life today, life will leave you tomorrow. So the sooner you learn to appreciate life, the more you can enjoy it.
4. Love is nothing but a fleeting feeling. This feeling will fade with human mood and time. If your so called loved ones leave you, be patient, time will wash away all your pain and sadness. Never exaggerate the sweetness and beauty of love, nor exaggerate the sadness of losing love.
5.There are many successful people who may not have had a higher education - that doesn't mean you too can be successful without hard work or education! No matter how much knowledge you acquire, it is the weapon of your life. One may be entitled to lakhs of rupees from torn hair, but for this he must work hard.
6.I do not expect you to financially support me when I am old, neither would I financially support your whole life. My responsibility as a supporter ends when you are grown up. After that, you decide whether you want to travel in a public transport or in your limousine, whether rich or poor.
7. You honour your words, but don't expect others to be so. You can be good to people, but don't expect people to be good to you. If you don't understand this, you would end up with unnecessary troubles.
8. I have bought lotteries for umpteen years , but could never strike any prize. That shows if you want to be rich, you have to work hard! There is no free lunch!
9. No matter how much time I have with you, let's treasure the time we have together. We do not know if we would meet again in our next life.
Regards :
Your father 💖
