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27/09/2026

💙 TIPS FOR AUSOME PARENTS
Day 8 of 10: Take Care of Yourself Too

You cannot pour from an empty cup.

Take a break when you can.

Ask someone you trust for help.

Eat.
Rest.
Breathe.
Cry if you need to.

Being tired doesn’t make you a bad parent.

You are allowed to take care of yourself too. 💙

26/09/2026

💙 TIPS FOR AUSOME PARENTS
Day 7 of 10: Don’t Compare

Another child may speak earlier.

Another child may learn to dress independently sooner.

Another child may reach a milestone that your child hasn’t reached yet.

That’s okay.

Your child’s journey is their own.

Compare your child today with your child yesterday.

Look for progress, not perfection. 🌱💙

26/09/2026

25/09/2026

Why do so many autism families stop going to church? 💙

I don't think it's because they've lost their faith.

For some families, church becomes overwhelming. Their child struggles to sit through a long service, the music is too loud, or the environment is simply too much. Some parents spend the entire service outside with their child instead of being able to worship.

For others, it's the fear of being stared at or judged when their child makes noises, moves around, or doesn't behave the way people expect.And then there's something many autism parents can relate to. As soon as people hear "autism," the first response is often, "Let's pray it away."
Please don't misunderstand me. I believe in prayer, and I appreciate every sincere prayer for my family
Instead of asking why autism families aren't coming to church, maybe we should ask how we can make church a place where they feel understood, supported, and welcome.

Have you ever stopped going to church because of your child's autism? If so, what made you stop? And what would help you feel comfortable going back?

I'd love to hear your experiences💙

25/09/2026

💙 TIPS FOR AUSOME PARENTS
Day 6 of 10: Look Beyond the Behavior

A meltdown is not simply a child being “bad.”

It may be a response to overwhelming sounds, lights, emotions, changes, frustration, or difficulty communicating.

During a meltdown:

💙 Keep them safe.
💙 Reduce stimulation.
💙 Stay calm.
💙 Use fewer words.
💙 Give them space when needed.

Connection and safety come first.

24/09/2026

💙 TIPS FOR AUSOME PARENTS
Day 5 of 10: Give Them Time

Sometimes we ask a question and expect an answer immediately.

But your child may need more time to understand the words, process the information, and respond.

Try this:

Ask.
Pause.
Wait.
Give them time.

Don’t answer for them too quickly.

A few extra seconds can make a big difference. 💙

24/09/2026

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