31/10/2023
👉 POSITIVE DISCIPLINE: HOW TO GIVE CHILDREN USING MOBILE PHONE? 👈
Your kids want a cell phone to contact friends, take pictures, text, relax, play games and surf the Internet. You want your children to use cell phones because of concern for their safety and to communicate when needed. Or maybe you're afraid they'll annoy you if you refuse to let them use the phone. Or worse, you worry that your child is worse than you. This situation is out of control. You’re living in a technology-laden world where kids will probably be more adaptable, but you still want to give them some guidance.
Hint:
1. If you don't want your child to use a cell phone, say no! Give information about how and when your child can use a cell phone.
2. If you decide to buy your child a cellphone, limit their monthly bill payments.
3. If kids spend too much money, buy a prepaid plan will automatically turn off except emergency calls after they run out of money.
Planning to prevent problems from occurring
1. Make sure your kids have how many minutes per month, check how many minutes they have used and what happens if they breach the agreement.
2. Let your children do their own research and report to you on school regulations regarding cell phones while discussing them with them.
3. Don't let your kids talk on the phone while driving.
4. Discussing with my kids about cell phone culture and the importance of switching off phones in public places... Explain why using the phone while talking to someone is rude.
5. Talking to kids about handling bullies and telemarketers.
31/10/2023
DINING TABLE DISCIPLINE
It's time for parents to be more sensible to apply DISCIPLINE to your children! Parents remember:
1. Give your child 30 minutes to eat with your family, no TV, ipad, no play... and mom has to explain each dish to her and ask her what she likes.
2. If you don't eat after 30 minutes, clean it up and let your child go out, don't let him drink milk. Waiting for my dinner.
3. Dinner is still the same, 30 minutes meal with family, if not stop and give milk. Late night before going to bed for an hour, give a box to drink and brush your teeth to go to bed.
4. Talking to your kids about the problem parents are not happy when you don't eat but just want to play.
5. Talk to me so I can show you your favorite dish, your favorite color... I have to understand my hobby then cook to my liking. Don't cook according to mom's taste or thoughts.
6. Compliment me when you eat well.
7. Do not scold the child but express disappointment and advice not to give milk if the child does not eat. This will avoid the bad luck.
8. Parents need to understand that what you are doing is sticking your child and helping him enjoy the meal, not starving him.
9. No child will go hungry to death. It's not that he's not hungry or it really isn't time to eat. It's just parents being too worried and forcing them to eat leads to mental stress and fear.
Nutritional intervention is not a pile of expensive supplements or milk for your baby.
Nutritional intervention is trying to find diet mistakes to fix, nutrients missing to supplement and bad habits to train...
There are children who live in deprived places, there is no milk to drink.... but still eats well and even taller than 1.7m as mature...
If the discipline of the table is not applied, if the parents still have the mentality of "pity the child" and fill the child's stomach with snacks, milk, then when the child is over 3 years old and still lazy to eat, it will not only affect height-weight but also affect character the way and psychology!
Know how, only we can change ourselves to be better, outsiders only comment or support us. No one can change you if you decide to close the door of thinking and force everyone to accept your mistakes...
Children are the true reflection of their parents or those who raised them. If you want your children to change, parents are the first to change! 😄
Situations that the child refuses to sit on the chair and feed the mother may encounter at any stage in the child's eating journey. If you give up, accept that your child does not sit on the chair, the high probability of weaning will fail, because then it will become a rabid, eating and playing... Because my child doesn't concentrate on eating. Long term system is children who are lazy to eat, lazy to eat, refuses to eat and cries when they eat or their mother forces them to eat...
31/10/2023
🤫 HOW TO HELP YOUR CHILD BE MORE CONFIDENT?
Confidence is very important in every child's developmental journey. Building confidence at a young age will help your child develop soft skills and good habits. So, how to make your child more confident, below are 3 tips to learn from the experience of a mother of 2 children, parents please refer to:
👉 Parents are examples: Parents are examples for children. And no matter what age, children are less affected by what they see in their parents. So, when you want to make your child more confident, parents should be the first to give guidance.
👉 Allow your children to express their opinions: In other words, let children have the opportunity to express themselves, especially in crowded situations. Daring to stand up to say your opinion builds confidence in your child and lets you dare to do things you haven't done before.
👉 Always encourage, cheer your children: to make them more confident, give them the feeling of being accompanied by parents. Parents should encourage and encourage children to try and explore, but also don't forget to teach children about failure, how to apologize. Talk to your children to understand, remove problems, and give them strength.
