28/08/2022
Motherhood is not hard, it is very challenging. Yan ang masasabi ko pag isang nanay kana, hindi mo masasabing mahirap at never mahihirapan kasi Nanay kana. Challenging to the point na dapat mong kayanin lahat lahat.
Ang pagiging nanay from the very beginning, hindi natin masasabi na ready tayo. Maybe some may say, ready na kasi may pang gastos, may essentials na, may pagkain, may bahay, lahat lahat meron na but reality shocks us. Noong buntis tayo, excited tayo na akala natin we are all prepared na, but the truth we never know if we are really ready. Pagdating ni baby, akala ng lahat pag nanganak ka tapos na yung challenge mo pero in fact papunta palang sa exciting part🤦♀️The postpartrum, from physical na magiiba talaga ang hubog ng katawan at maging ang buong pagkatao mo, mentally shocked and unready yung emotional breakdowns mo like thinking youre not enough and well prepared pa, yung socially impact nya sayo because of those eyes of people around na lahat ng galaw mo nakikita nila and somehow youre ashamed of your changes, spiritually effect on us na sometimes we almost forgot that we have Jesus despite of those, we forget that He's the one who bestows us the greatest gift and blessing we had received and that will be forever our inspiration and strength for those times na akala natin we are not doing our best, we are not worth it and anything that we think of, that made us down.😊 Kahit na simula umaga , paggising mo aasikasuhin mo na siya, from making all the household chores isabay ang pag aalaga ng bata. Kung nanay ka nga dapat marunong sa multitasking eka nga, at kung kailangan ka niya, iiwan mo yung work mo to focus on your baby more hanggang sa papaliguan, bibihisan, babasahan, papatulugin. And some may think na kapag tulog na ang anak dun lang daw nakakapagrest ang nanay, well in fact hindi nga eh. Kasi pag tulog ang bata yun na yung moment na itatake for granted mo to do all your task in house, bibilisan pero hindi maingay HAHAHA😆 kasi baka magising siya. And when the baby woke up sana tapos na nga yung work ng nanay pero for sure hindi pa nakaligo yan. Swerte mo nalang if nakaligo kana sa bandang yun.😃😃 And youre going to prepare food, play with the baby, or entertain the child. Doing your best in everything. Linis, alaga, Luto,alaga, kain, alaga, tulog, linis, alaga, laro... and so on and so forth. A daily routine na i know someday mamimiss din natin.😪Pag gabi na hindi kapa nga matutulog agad pag tulog na yung bata, you will clean, arrange, and do your task before sleeping diba? Then doon ka palang makakapagshower at matutulog na after. Pero kalamo diretso rest na after that HAHAHA its a no no kasi gigising gising pa yan sa hating gabi, madaling araw, to hele, to feed, to play, to comfort. Hanggang sa minsan hindi ka narin makatulog, umaga na naman haist HAHAHAHA
MOMMIES BE LIKE. THIS may be my first post here in this page, and i just want to say that all of us are doing our best for our child. Big hugs and prayers for our daily journey mga inayssss. Lovelots mwaps🥰😘
