Mentor Jonnalyn R. Belga

Take time to recharge. We are like cars that need full charged batteries. It's hard to see where we are going when our lights are dim. Life is not the process of getting older, but it is the process of getting wiser and better. This needs constant recharging. Let us never forget to plug ourselves to GOD's outlet of graces through prayer. HE is our energy source that never fails. (anon)

When you post family, the food you eat, the pet you play with, or the parties you enjoy, expect to get more traction and engagement in social media. Basic— almost everyone can relate to it.

On the other hand, expect less acceptance when you post about your career- as there are less people in business than in employment. And much less of those in business are in retail, direct sales and mlm. When you post about your hustle and dreams, do not expect everybody to relate to it. Do not expect support and acceptance. Not because you do not deserve one, but many do not understand what we do. It is fine, we are not in the business of making everyone like, accept or even relate to us.

Do not get broken hearted or crippled by the lack of acceptance and support. Let alone mind the opinion of those who will not suffer/enjoy the results of your actions. We are in business because we believe in something and love what we do that others are yet to understand. Know that!

Some of the crazy ideas of today are the innovators of the days ahead. Make your ideas and beliefs happen!

A big reason why good athletes do well is because they don’t care what the sports blogs say, or what you said about them on Twitter.

They’re playing, you’re in the “seats” - And they understand that.

That’s the same mindset I have about other people’s opinions: I’m playing.

What, you’re going to say that I had a bad idea or something I tried didn’t work? I’M the one who’s playing.

I think this concept may help many of you too.

GRATITUDE UNLOCKS THE FULLNESS OF LIFE. (anon)
Turns what you have into ENOUGH and more. Turns denial into acceptance, chaos into order, confusion to charity. Turns a meal into a feast, a house into a home, and a stranger into a friend. Gratitude makes sense of your past, brings peace for today and creates a vision for tomorrow! Gratitude leads to contentment which is the true measure of happiness! Be thankful! Then you can experience happiness.

In case you are one of the less than 1%, don’t forget why it always seems difficult. No lasting and significant results will come from regular efforts.

When you get high with compliments and get crippled by the boos, you lose focus. Defeat comes after losing focus.

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Do not allow the number of sign ups and mega sales sidetrack you. In the same way, do not allow lean times dishearten you. Balance these two things out. Be smart and don’t be emotional. Business success/difficulties require business solutions not emotions.

Be humble, be hungry, and always be the hardest worker in the room 💯💯💯

Discipline leads to freedom. For example, we use discipline in a preventive way. We do not wait until a child plays in traffic to assert some effort to keep him in the yard. A fence takes away a child’s freedom but it does so in order to protect that child. He or she may resent and despise the fence but it is still an act of love and protection. And in doing so the child actually experience freedom. (anon) Investment in discipline is a good thing.

Want to be successful? Here is a formula. Discipline. Hard work. Humility to learn. Delayed gratification. Refusal to quit in the thick of challenges. Many do not want these but you do. Tell and convince yourself: "Today I will do what others won’t ...so that one day I can do what others can’t.”(anon) And that increases my personal and market value.

‼️Warning ‼️

A bit boring read.

It is pretty much understandable when a hater, a competitor, a disgruntled person spreads toxic everywhere around you. But how about if the person spreading the toxic is a family member or a friend you live with? Tricky isn’t it?

I am making this post not because I live with toxic family members but I am sharing this one to help others who may be in that situation. A daily situation when the battles that must be fought are those with toxic people within the family they live with. Worse, if they are your parents. Worst, if they are your spouse.

So I googled and found some pointers that might be of help. I am no expert at this so do not just take my word for it. But filtering and gathering these pieces of information may help those who have almost no choice but to stay and live with toxic people because they are family. Note that the image I posted with this has another take on toxic people. The idea of removing them in your life even for family members, temporarily or permanently, suggests an entirely different path. Discern! That is what I can say we can all make.

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How do you live with a toxic person?

- Set limits. Take it from me, toxic people don't do well with boundaries.

- Pick your battles wisely. It's tricky to balance being cordial with not wanting to normalize someone's emotionally abusive behavior.

- Recognize and distance yourself from their behavior.

- Focus on the positive.

- Utilize your support system.

Bonus: Spread love and understanding.

“You do not write your life with words. . . You write it with actions. What you think is not important. It is only important what you do.”

“The superior man acts before he speaks, and afterwards speaks according to his actions.”

If you are doing, not talking and criticizing, welcome to the 1% of 1% club!

Lovely day ahead

Isang paalala:

Piliin ang mga taong sasamahan. 💯💪🏽