17/04/2023
In teenage cancel culture, classmates or social media "friends" boycott a teen who says or does something offensive, such as making racist or homophobic remarks, telling an offensive joke, or misgendering someone. Teens also cancel on each other for a variety of reasons, including being a toxic friend, being too needy or self-centered, or even watching or listening to the wrong shows or music. While cancellation automatically labels someone as bad and irredeemable, "calling out" or "calling in" refers to drawing someone's attention to what they've done wrong and giving them the opportunity to apologize, learn, and do better.
Cancel culture has a negative impact on both cancelers and bystanders. Teens who cancel others may do so due to strong moral convictions, which is a good thing. However, teenage cancel culture allows them to disregard empathy and forgiveness in favor of being right. Rather than learning to debate topics on which they disagree, cancelers simply exclude those they believe are incorrect. Teens on the sidelines frequently experience anxiety and fear that they will be next, as well as guilt for not standing up for someone who was harshly canceled.
As a result, being socially isolated at a time when peer connections are crucial can be devastating. Many therapists report treating teen clients who were canceled by peers and suffered from depression, anxiety, and suicidality for months. Teens who go through this may struggle for years to trust themselves, trust others, and feel like they belong in a peer group.
We can take several steps to mitigate the negative effects of cancel culture. To begin, we should encourage critical thinking and independent thought in teenagers so that they can form their own opinions and beliefs. Second, we should encourage open communication and create a safe space for teenagers to express themselves without fear of being judged. Third, we should teach teenagers resilience and coping skills to help them deal with stress and setbacks. Finally, we should encourage empathy and understanding among teenagers by encouraging them to listen to different points of view and engage in respectful dialogue. We can help teenagers navigate cancel culture in a healthy and positive way by taking these steps, protecting their mental health and promoting resilience.
11/04/2023