19/03/2026
If you have come to help me you’re wasting your time, but if you have come because your liberation is bound with mine, then let us work together.
Anonymous Aboriginal Woman
This quote came to me in an answer,
Flames answer to my question of how do I connect with her, how does she want to be in a relationship with me.
I was buying all the things, the supplements, the feed and all the best gear and yet it wasn’t enough, I was still worried about her, stressing over any little thing that I thought was wrong with her.
So much of my time and money went into making sure Flame was ok, I had put my safety and security into Flame so that as long as she was ok I was. And this wasn't the only area that this was showing up in, I spent most of my energy, controlling my classroom to make sure all the children in my care were safe.
I’d be out of my body and into everyone else's space to make sure that they were ok, checking in through the love and care that I had in my heart.
I’d end the day feeling like I’d been tumbled through several cycles in the washing machine, exhausted and numb.
As I came back into relationship with my body, as I began to love and listen to her, I started noticing all the places where her voice was suppressed, where the truth and knowing of my heart was being ignored and where I was sacrificing my truth to be professional.
Flame worked with me, she gave me such good feedback on if I was present in my body or not, everything from spooking while I was riding to walking away when I wanted to catch her to yawning and going into a meditative sleep when I was really present. She showed me how, when we create the right environment - the ecosystem, sovereignty returns and she can heal herself.
That’s how Equine Heart Coherence™ was born, it combines all the body intelligence of horses, with the deep inner wisdom of the herd, on the foundations of trauma informed practice and energy healing modalities.
I’ve been taking my own medicine and that’s how I know it works. I wouldn’t have been able to create a Nature School founded on the principles of sovereignty, of the holistic, the whole being. I wouldn’t be able to speak the truth of what’s happening in the education system.
I noticed my joy coming back, I noticed my body and how amazing she was, I noticed my boundaries and when I crossed into others and others crossed mine. I lead from my heart, with fierce compassion and unwavering presence.
That is what creates the change. The Living Code of Wholing.
If you’re ready for change, if you want to feel safe in your body, if you’re ready to step off the treadmill of anxiety and come back to coherence.
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