02/02/2026
If I care so much about focus and not living on your phone, why am I on Instagram or Facebook?
Because Instagram is my welcome mat.
�It’s where you get a feel for my style, stories, and brain before you decide if you want to step inside.
But the real work�The mindset shifts.�The practical tools you can use in one‑to‑ones, performance reviews, and big decisions�
Those live in my weekly email to subscribers, my podcast, my one-on-one sessions, and my workshops.
Instagram is the doorway.�
The Better Leadership Blueprint weekly email is the living room.�
My podcast is the cosy corner.�
My workshops and sessions are the kitchen table where we spread everything out and actually work through it.
If you comment here, my bot will probably see you before I do, because I practice what I teach about time and attention.�
I’m not here to live on the app.�
I’m here so you know where to find me when you’re ready.
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02/02/2026
Leadership development can feel like a rabbit hole.
Books.
Courses.
Frameworks.
Opinions.
Where do you even start?
Here’s my answer:
Start with the thing most in you or your team’s way right now.
If you’re drowning in meetings and messages, start with time.
If imposter thoughts are chewing up your energy, start with mindset.
If you’re stepping into your first leadership role (or haven’t ever gotten any leadership training), start with emerging leader skills.
My most popular workshops deal with all of these (and I have some other great ones, too!)
Timewise Tactics for sustainable time and energy.
Mindset Mastery for self‑doubt and growth mindset.
Emerging Leaders for practical skills and confidence in new roles.
If you’d like a clear overview of what each one is and who it’s for, comment GUIDE and I’ll send you a guide to how I create sessions, events, and workshops with my clients.
02/02/2026
Here’s what I hear from clients in a quiet voice at the end of a sentence:
“I’m not a natural leader.”
“I’m going to get found out.”
“Everyone else seems to know what they’re doing.”
On paper, they look impressive.
Inside, they’re waiting for someone to notice the gap between how they feel and how they appear.
After we work together, the language changes:
“I still have wobbles, but I know how to coach myself through them.”
“I handled that conflict in a way I’m proud of.”
“I finally feel like I belong in this role.”
That change comes from changing how they think about ability, mistakes, and potential.
That’s growth mindset in action.
Mindset Mastery is where I teach leaders how to spot fixed‑mindset thinking, ask better questions, and build a stronger sense of “I can learn this.”
If you want to see where YOUR org could build a stronger growth mindset, get my Growth Mindset in Organizations assessment and guide. Comment GROWTH and I’ll send both your way.
02/02/2026
Ranch‑raised in Montana.
Antarctica‑tested in a big orange Terra Bus.
Now an Ameri‑Kiwi leadership coach who does her best thinking on a windy beach walk with Dolly Parton in her ears.
I didn’t set out to “be a coach.”
I set out to understand why smart, caring people were working so hard and still feeling like they were failing.
Including me.
The manager avoiding a tough conversation.
I’ve been the exhausted teacher crying after school.
The high‑achiever staring at my calendar wondering how life got this complicated.
Those stories became tools.
Now I use them to help offbeat leaders build self‑trust, upgrade their mindset, and show up as the kind of leader they’d actually want to follow.
If you’d like the longer version of how I went from driving tourists around in Antarctica to designing leadership programs from a New Zealand beach town, comment BETTER to sign up for my weekly email, the Better Leadership Blueprint. You’ll get all the BTS stories every week, along with concrete, actionable advice.
02/02/2026
If your workday feels like Whac‑A‑Mole, you’re in good company.
Your calendar dings.
Your inbox pings.
Someone Slacks “got a minute.”
Suddenly the day is gone and your most important work is still untouched.
When everything feels urgent, nothing truly important gets your best brain.
It’s not just a time issue.
It’s a nervous system issue.
Your body never gets the signal that it’s safe to focus.
That’s why I created Timewise Tactics.
It’s my workshop for leaders who are tired of being firefighters and want to become calmer, more intentional decision‑makers.
We look at how you’re using your time now, what your role actually needs, and how to design your days so you can think again.
We talk about Prime Time, after‑hours pings, and how to teach your team what “urgent” really means.
This is where I love using neuroscience to help people create calm, clear, happy days.
If you’re curious, comment TIMEWISE and I’ll send you my favorite time and energy tips, tricks, and tactics.
And as a bonus, you’ll get signed up to my weekly email, the Better Leadership Blueprint. Each week, you’ll get simple, actionable, neuroscience backed tools to help you make your day-to-day rad AND awesome.
02/02/2026
Here’s what I believe:
Leadership should help you build a life you like, not a life you’re constantly trying to escape from.
You deserve to:
Wake up without dread.
Know what actually matters in your role.
Have hard conversations without stewing for three nights.
Log off and actually rest.
Right now, a lot of leaders are doing the opposite…
Being the last one online.
Fielding late‑night messages as proof they’re committed.
Saying yes when everything in them wants to say “not right now.”
It doesn’t have to be like that.
The heartbeat of my work is helping you create a version of leadership where you keep your standards high and your nervous system steady.
Where your actions match your values.
Where your calendar reflects what you say is important.
If you want stories and tools you can take straight into Monday’s meetings, comment BETTER and I’ll send you some of my favorites.
As a bonus, you’ll be signed up to The Better Leadership Blueprint, my weekly email that regularly tackles all of the challenges I’ve (and my clients have) struggled with as a leader so you can avoid our mistakes.
02/02/2026
“Traditional” leadership development has a type.
Loud.
Polished.
Already confident.
But what about the thoughtful, offbeat folks quietly holding everything together.
The ones who notice when someone’s struggling.
The ones people go to for advice, but who still don’t quite see themselves as “leaders.”
Those are my people.
I built my work for emerging and offbeat leaders who want to feel legit in their roles without turning into someone they don’t recognize…
People who want to stop spinning, outsmart self‑doubt, and feel good about how they spend their time.
If you want stories and tools you can take straight into Monday’s meetings, comment BETTER and I’ll send you some of my favorites.
As a bonus, you’ll be signed up to The Better Leadership Blueprint, my weekly email that regularly tackles all of the challenges I’ve (and my clients have) struggled with as a leader so you can avoid our mistakes.
02/02/2026
You’ve probably tried to “fix” your leadership by fixing your systems.
New calendar.
New app.
New meeting structure.
New colour‑coded to‑do list.
Systems can help.
But they only work as well as the stories you’re running underneath them.
If the story is “I can’t say no, they need me,” you’ll accept every meeting.
If the story is “If I take a break, I’m letting people down,” you’ll eat lunch at your desk and call it normal.
If the story is “If I don’t have all the answers, I shouldn’t be in this role,” you’ll over‑prepare and still feel behind.
Those stories quietly undo your best intentions.
They turn time‑management into people‑pleasing.
They turn delegation into guilt.
That’s where self‑leadership and self-care comes in.
It’s how you show up for yourself when nobody is watching.
It’s what you decide to prioritise when everyone wants a piece of you.
When you understand how your brain reacts under pressure, you can stop calling yourself “bad at boundaries” and start changing the conditions around you instead.
That’s the work I do in my weekly email, The Better Leadership Blueprint.
Each week I share a real story plus simple shifts you can test in your actual workplace.
If you want that kind of support in your inbox, comment BETTER and I’ll send you the latest issue and sign‑up link.
02/02/2026
You’ve been sold a lie about what “good” leaders look like.
Calm.
Never rattled.
Always available.
On top of everything.
I call BS on that.
That version of leadership trains you to ignore your limits, apologize for having needs, and treat exhaustion like a personality trait.
It rewards the person who skips lunch, answers emails at 10pm, and calls it “just being dedicated.”
Here’s what I see with my clients and in my own life: they’re brilliant at their jobs and care deeply about their people.
But because they’ve absorbed the story that “real” leaders are born, not built, every wobble becomes proof that they’re not cut out for it:
The meeting that goes sideways.
The boundary they skip.
The decision they procrastinate on.
Their brain whispers
“See! You’re not a natural leader. You’re going to get found out.”
Here’s the reframe…
There is nothing wrong with you.
What’s not working is the leadership model you were handed.
You do not have to be “on” 24/7 to be respected.
You do not have to turn into a different person to be taken seriously.
You do not have to sacrifice your sleep, your health, or your relationships to get results.
When you treat leadership as a mindset and a skill set, everything changes.
That’s what I share in my world…
How to design your time so your calendar reflects your actual priorities.
How to use neuroscience to understand your brain, habits, and success better.
How to build a steadier growth mindset so Imposter Thoughts don’t run the show.
How to lead yourself first so you can lead others with a clear head and an honest heart.
If you want stories and tools you can take straight into Monday’s meetings, comment BETTER and I’ll send you some of my favorites.
As a bonus, you’ll be signed up to The Better Leadership Blueprint, my weekly email that regularly tackles all of the challenges I’ve (and my clients have) struggled with as a leader so you can avoid our mistakes.
31/08/2025
Have you ever tried to master something alone and realized you were missing a secret ingredient?
We often picture learning as a solo marathon: late nights, endless notes, and hoping it all clicks.
But in reality, most of our biggest breakthroughs come from being part of a group.
Just last week, I saw this magic happen during the wrap-up session for one of my Emerging Leaders groups.
People left with ideas and inspiration they would never have found alone.
Here’s the thing:
Research shows that most of what we learn at work (about 75%!) comes from working and talking with others.
And get this:
Nearly nine out of ten employees say learning together is the best way to build new skills.
It’s not just about watching or listening.
It’s about sharing your wins and your struggles, giving feedback, and sometimes just being brave enough to say, “I don’t get it.”
That’s why Emerging Leaders is built for both solo work and group sessions.
You move at your own speed, but you also get those moments with peers where everything makes sense.
Has this been the case for you?
Are you the type who thrives alone, or do you get your best ideas in a room full of people?
27/08/2025
Real impact starts when someone stops waiting and starts doing.
My client, Seena, saw a gap and didn’t wait for someone else to fix it... she built a solution from nothing.
Starting with just a handful of books and a school bus, she put stories in the hands of kids who needed them most.
Now, in partnership with Dolly Parton's Imagination Library, her nonprofit The Berkeley Baby Book Project delivers free, personalized books to hundreds of Richmond families every month, turning homes into learning hubs.
I love sharing these kinds of stories for anyone ready to take action and make a real impact and am seriously proud to have Seena as my client- she’s taken an idea and grown it into a powerful force for change.
She’s faced every challenge head-on: limited resources, growing demand, and the hard work it takes to build something that lasts.
Seena’s story is proof that when you commit, big change follows.
Check out this article about her journey creating home libraries as she's expanded to support families in Richmond as well, one book at a time: https://richmondside.org/2025/07/18/free-books-for-babies-richmond-california/
This is the kind of progress that happens when you stop waiting and start doing, and I couldn’t be prouder to support her as she continues to grow this outstanding nonprofit.
Books for babies: How Richmond families are building home libraries, one delivery at a time
To help Richmond families build home libraries and get kids school-ready, the Berkeley Baby Book Project is mailing them books monthly.