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Room sharing on holiday… 🏖️🤍One of the biggest concerns parents have about travelling is sharing a room with their littl...
04/09/2026

Room sharing on holiday… 🏖️🤍

One of the biggest concerns parents have about travelling is sharing a room with their little one.

If your baby or toddler is used to sleeping in their own room, the thought of everyone sleeping in the same space can feel daunting.

The reality? Sleep may look a little different while you're away, and that's okay.

A new environment, excitement, and having you close by can sometimes lead to longer settling times, extra wakings, or early mornings. The good news is that these changes are usually temporary.

A little planning can make a big difference. Think portable blackout blinds, white noise, and creating some separation between your sleep space and theirs where possible.

Remember, holidays are about making memories, not achieving perfect sleep. Give yourself permission to be flexible and focus on supporting your little one through the change.

Once you're home, most children settle back into their usual routine quickly.

Flying with kids… ✈️🤍The thought of travelling with little ones can feel overwhelming, especially when you're worrying a...
01/09/2026

Flying with kids… ✈️🤍

The thought of travelling with little ones can feel overwhelming, especially when you're worrying about naps, bedtime, and keeping everyone happy at 30,000 feet.

The good news? Travel days don't have to undo all your hard work.

While sleep may look a little different when you're flying, a flexible mindset and a little preparation can go a long way in helping your child feel settled and supported.

Remember, it's okay if naps are shorter, routines are adjusted, or bedtime is later than usual. Travel is temporary, and you can always get back on track once you're home.

Focus on connection, comfort, and meeting your child's needs as best you can.

Dropping night feeds… 🤍If your little one is waking overnight for feeds, you might be wondering whether they're genuinel...
28/08/2026

Dropping night feeds… 🤍

If your little one is waking overnight for feeds, you might be wondering whether they're genuinely hungry or if it's become part of how they settle back to sleep.

The truth is, every baby is different.

While some babies continue to need feeds overnight, others may be developmentally ready to gradually reduce or drop them. Age, growth, feeding history, and overall milk intake all play a role.

If your baby is healthy, growing well, and taking enough milk or solids during the day, it may be time to consider whether night feeds are still needed.

The good news? Night weaning doesn't have to mean leaving your baby to cry or making big changes overnight.

With a gentle, responsive approach, you can reduce night feeds while continuing to support your little one and protect your bond.

Your baby’s sleep environment matters more than you might think… 🤍When sleep feels tricky, it's easy to focus on schedul...
25/08/2026

Your baby’s sleep environment matters more than you might think… 🤍

When sleep feels tricky, it's easy to focus on schedules and routines, but your little one's sleep environment plays an important role too.

A room that's too bright, too noisy, too warm, or full of distractions can make it harder for babies and toddlers to fall asleep and stay asleep.

Creating a calm, sleep-friendly space doesn't have to be complicated. A few simple adjustments can make a big difference to the quality of your child's sleep.

Think dark, quiet, comfortable, and consistent ✨

The goal isn't perfection, it's creating an environment that helps your little one feel safe, settled, and ready for sleep.

Dummies and sleep… 🤍One of the most common questions parents ask is, "Should I get rid of the dummy?"The answer isn't al...
22/08/2026

Dummies and sleep… 🤍

One of the most common questions parents ask is, "Should I get rid of the dummy?"

The answer isn't always straightforward.

For some babies, a dummy can be a helpful sleep association that provides comfort and supports settling. For others, it can lead to frequent wakings when they can't replace it independently.

The key is understanding how your little one uses their dummy and whether it's supporting sleep or disrupting it.

There's no one-size-fits-all approach, and removing it isn't always necessary.

Whether you're considering weaning, introducing a dummy, or simply wondering if it's affecting sleep, there are gentle ways to navigate it that work for your family.

Accidental car and pram naps… 🚗🤍We've all been there. You glance in the rear-view mirror or look down at the pram and re...
19/08/2026

Accidental car and pram naps… 🚗🤍

We've all been there. You glance in the rear-view mirror or look down at the pram and realise your little one has dozed off... five minutes before their usual nap time.

While accidental naps can sometimes throw the day off, they don't have to ruin your routine or undo your progress.

In fact, a short car or pram nap can be just what your little one needs to take the edge off tiredness and get them through to their next sleep.

The key is knowing how to adjust the rest of the day. A little flexibility can help prevent overtiredness while keeping sleep on track.

Remember, one unexpected nap won't make or break your child's sleep.

The 24 month sleep regression… 🤍Often considered the last major sleep regression, this stage can bring bedtime battles, ...
16/08/2026

The 24 month sleep regression… 🤍

Often considered the last major sleep regression, this stage can bring bedtime battles, night wakings, and nap resistance all over again.

Around 2 years old, there’s a lot going on. Big emotions, growing independence, language development, imagination, and boundary testing can all have an impact on sleep.

This stage can be especially challenging as your toddler becomes more aware of their surroundings and more determined to do things their way.

It’s not a sign that they no longer need sleep or that your routine has stopped working. Often, it’s a normal part of development.

With consistency, reassurance, and clear boundaries, you can support your toddler through this phase and back to more settled sleep.

Swipe through for what’s going on and how to handle it 👉🤍

The 18 month sleep regression… 🤍One day your toddler is sleeping well, the next they're refusing naps, fighting bedtime,...
13/08/2026

The 18 month sleep regression… 🤍

One day your toddler is sleeping well, the next they're refusing naps, fighting bedtime, and waking overnight.

Around 18 months, big developmental changes are happening. Growing independence, a strong desire to test boundaries, language development, and separation anxiety can all have an impact on sleep.

This stage can feel exhausting, especially when your little one seems determined to stay awake, but it's often a sign of learning and development, not a step backwards.

With a consistent approach, clear boundaries, and plenty of reassurance, you can help your toddler move through this phase and back to more settled sleep.

Swipe through for what's going on and how to handle it 👉🤍

The 12 month sleep regression…More night wakings, nap battles, early mornings, and a toddler who suddenly seems determin...
09/08/2026

The 12 month sleep regression…

More night wakings, nap battles, early mornings, and a toddler who suddenly seems determined to keep practising their new skills instead of sleeping.

Sound familiar?

Around the one-year mark, development is in overdrive. Walking, talking, problem-solving, and increased awareness of the world can all make sleep feel a little rocky.

The good news? This is usually temporary and a normal part of your little one's development.

Stay consistent, offer plenty of reassurance, and trust that this phase will pass 🤍

Swipe through to learn what's going on and what can help 👉

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