The Whole Life Coach

Busying yourself is easier than facing the decisions that need to be made, the standards that need to be lifted, and the parts of your life that no longer fit

But the longer you keep moving to avoid choosing, the louder the discomfort gets

Scrolling, tidying, planning, replying, organising … anything but sitting still long enough to admit what you already know 👀

At some point, the next version of your life will require a decision from you

… Not another distraction

The life you’re exhausted by is the life you keep agreeing to 🫪

because saying yes has become automatic
being needed feels safer than being honest with yourself 👀
… and changing this pattern means disappointing people who are very used to the current version of you

And that’s the bit no one is talking to you about, so I will 🙋🏼‍♀️

We’re taught to manage the symptoms
Push through, get more organised

And yes, that helps for a short time

But if you keep returning to the same overfull calendar, the same resentment,the same tiny scraps of time for yourself…

at some point it’s not a time problem

It’s a truth problem (that part 💣)

You don’t need to blow up your whole life but you need to stop abandoning yourself & what you actually want

Save this because you’ll forget 😂💖

No because why did this message feel like the government kicked my front door in & yelled “JUST CHECKING” 😭

As someone who has all notifications off, my phone on silent at all times & has ‘opted out’ of the alerts, this was basically a defibrillator to my adrenal glands
💀

I promise you I was not waiting for an official alert before concluding things had become mildly problematic when my house split in two during the earthquake

I also wasn’t waiting for the government to tell me to evacuate when there was a bush fire within 150m of my house

We’ve survived a global pandemic

My eyes, ears and basic survival instincts were already across it, thank yeeeeeeeeew

Anyway … off to take a couple of deep breaths

The amount of life admin I can suddenly become passionate about when I’m avoiding the thing I actually care about is honestly … inspiring 😂

Avoidance doesn’t look like you lying on the couch doing nothing

Avoidance *looks* productive

Responsible
Helpful
Very ‘I’m just getting on top of things’
Very mindful 😂

Meanwhile, the actual thing is still sitting there, blinking at you like…

👁️👄👁️

Anyway

📍 Save this reminder for the next time you’re suddenly emotionally invested in sorting your linen cupboard instead of doing the thing that will ACTUALLY move your life forward

** me, saves my own reel 😂

Soooo this is going to be interesting… 😂

Part 1 of me oversharing on the internet, apparently

First I wanted to pack it all in… then realised the lack of results wasn’t because the dream wasn’t working

It was because *I* wasn’t working

Oh, the irony 🤦🏼‍♀️

… and maybe it’ll help you spot where you haven’t actually lost the dream, the desire, or the ability…

You’ve just made the whole thing so much harder than it needs to be… so of course we’re avoiding 🥸

Thank yeeeeeeeew 🦄💜

Your limiting beliefs grow with you … in fact if you don’t feel uncomfortable you’re not playing a big enough game

Let’s go 🚀